myinnerslut
His chains. His lash.
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Long Distance Relationships. Whose in one? How does it affect your D/s? What sort of things do you do to maintain your D/s relationship despite the distance?
As some of you know, im a full time college student. Becuase im back at school, I'm approximatly nine hours away from my Sir, and will only get to see him for a few days about once a month. i would really like to hear some ideas or suggestions in making long distance BDSM work. These are some of the things we are doing. Any other ideas or suggestions would be amazing.
~ I ALWAYS wear the necklace he made me that inside says "property of ***his name***"
~i keep a small journal (64 pages) filled with any sexual ideas, fanasies, desires, or anything else i want to write down for him to read and mail it to him when i fill it up. then i start on a new one and when that one is filed, mail it to him. etc etc.
~ every day i kneel for at least five minutes while wearing a collar we use during scenes and think about how im submissive to him, why im submissive to him, and anything else along those lines.
~write him an e-mail at the end of the day telling him about any masturbation i did during the day
~every Sunday i send him at least 3 pictures that i took during the week.
~and of course, i follow any orders he should give me, and fullfill any punishment if needed, that dont conflict with my hard limits.
we're always looking for new ways to make our D/s relataionship work while we are away from each other so any feedback would be appreciated.
As some of you know, im a full time college student. Becuase im back at school, I'm approximatly nine hours away from my Sir, and will only get to see him for a few days about once a month. i would really like to hear some ideas or suggestions in making long distance BDSM work. These are some of the things we are doing. Any other ideas or suggestions would be amazing.
~ I ALWAYS wear the necklace he made me that inside says "property of ***his name***"
~i keep a small journal (64 pages) filled with any sexual ideas, fanasies, desires, or anything else i want to write down for him to read and mail it to him when i fill it up. then i start on a new one and when that one is filed, mail it to him. etc etc.
~ every day i kneel for at least five minutes while wearing a collar we use during scenes and think about how im submissive to him, why im submissive to him, and anything else along those lines.
~write him an e-mail at the end of the day telling him about any masturbation i did during the day
~every Sunday i send him at least 3 pictures that i took during the week.
~and of course, i follow any orders he should give me, and fullfill any punishment if needed, that dont conflict with my hard limits.
we're always looking for new ways to make our D/s relataionship work while we are away from each other so any feedback would be appreciated.