Sex for larger people

Booboo19

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I haven't posted here in a really long time, but I need some suggestions. My boyfriend/soon to be fiance is a little bit on the heftier side. Now, don't get me wrong, I pack a few extra pounds as well... so far there really hasn't been an issue with it. However, a little variety is nice and that's what we like... so if anyone has any suggestions that they have tried and know that it actually works, that would be great. Thanks !! :D
 
I'd suggest looking through some of the results from googling 'sex positions' to see what looks comfortable and exciting. Then all you have to do is take a look and go to town trying the ones you've memorized or printed out. :)

ETA: I know that doesn't answer the 'larger' part, but there are so many different shapes, levels of flexibility, preferences, etc., that I really think your best bet is to try and modify different position to find what suits you best.
 
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generally, i like larger men. my previous partner wasn't more than a bit husky, but usually i go for men who others would consider fat.

i've never had a problem with any sexual position = \ the only one that might be a little uncomfortable would be them on top while i was fingering my clit. but still, i can do it.

i'd say just try what feels right, without worrying about the weight = )
 
Being a large person who also sometimes forgets my own strength in the heat of passion i have had to go positions that take part of my power out of play but still allows us both deep penetration.

This position takes a bed at the proper level or to have her lie on cushions to work.......the man stands beside the bed with his partner lying on her back and placed so that she is in just right at the edge, so when he thrusts his thighs hit the side of the bed at about the same time or a lil before he bottoms out.

While in this position he moves her legs around to different positions thereby creating different sensations,with a lil practice one can also hit the G-spot......it also allows east access for clitorial stimulation.

A variation of the same is to hold her legs back and have her roll slowly to the side........then he can plant one hand on the bed to keep her legs folded back closer to her breasts.
 
SouthernDom said:
Being a large person who also sometimes forgets my own strength in the heat of passion i have had to go positions that take part of my power out of play but still allows us both deep penetration.

This position takes a bed at the proper level or to have her lie on cushions to work.......the man stands beside the bed with his partner lying on her back and placed so that she is in just right at the edge, so when he thrusts his thighs hit the side of the bed at about the same time or a lil before he bottoms out.

While in this position he moves her legs around to different positions thereby creating different sensations,with a lil practice one can also hit the G-spot......it also allows east access for clitorial stimulation.

A variation of the same is to hold her legs back and have her roll slowly to the side........then he can plant one hand on the bed to keep her legs folded back closer to her breasts.
my husband and I use this position often. He is a larger man, though he is losing weight in leaps and bounds at the moment, he moves around a lot while holding onto my ankles and my legs in the air spread wide but when he squats down and aims that wonderful cock of his upward he soooo hits that wonder spot of mine and immediately sends me over that edge and honey it IS a very long drop. This makes me cum so fucking hard and so often I can't even begin to count orgasms because they're almost like one continuous one. Several times now this position has made me squirt. We actually went out and bought risers at wal mart to raise the bed up to a much more comfortable position for him. As the old saying goes "size isn't always everything" ;)
 
i have one that works for us

Both the wife and I are bigger people....we usually do missionary but it got quite boring. so what i did was took one of her legs and pulled it across to the the other side....so basically she is on her side...she seems to really enjoy it


good luck let me know if you find another
 
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