Online Dom seeks online sub

I am seeking a strictly online female sub either here on these boards or threw an online messenger. Age is not a factor nor is location, though US East coast would be nice because figuring out time zones is not a skill I grasp all that well *chuckles* I seek a sub who I can talk and relate to, sure hot online sex is fun but if that is all we have in common then the relationship gets old fast. I have been there, done that. Don't feel like doing it again. I am also looking for someone who realizes that life can get busy sometimes so I may not constantly be round, but I will never just disappear, you'll know why I not about. I have had subs just up and vanish on me before and it sucks, so I would never do it Myself. I am looking for someone who has a good sense of humor, someone who is very descriptive. "She enters and kneels at His feet" just doesn’t work for Me. I also need someone who understands I am not a hardcore Dom so I do not know all the in's and outs of being one. I am growing and hope to find someone who can grow with Me. There are a lot of other things I am looking for but I won't list them all here, I am not too picky, just these things are the biggies.

As for a little about Me, I am 24, live in the tree filled state of Maine. I work as a cook at a local restaurant by and am a wannabe screen writer by night. I share an apt with My twin Brother, I love movies, I am a music junkie as long as I have music I can do anything for hours. I read quite a bit, comics mostly but I throw a book in there every now and then.

So there you have it, like I said there is a lot more too me but that is it in a nutshell. I welcome all replies and look forward to hearing from you all.

There are lots of guys out there, with lots of different approaches. Without condemning anyone else, I'd like to say that the information you gave about yourself and what you are looking for interested me very much. Please send me a message if you want to pursue this further.

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*bumps*

Maybe you could reveal a little about what domination means to you?

sexymom said:

Maybe you could reveal a little about what domination means to you?

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I see domination as trust. Some people see it as power over over someone. I do not. I see it as one person giving someone else trust to help them in their submisiv needs and growth. Not just using their Dom title to fufill their own needs, be it sexual or otherwise. But showing a sub not only the upmost comitment to what gives them pleasure and joy but also showing them new things they may not of thought of before as a sub.

bump before work

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Night all.

ba-dump

I see domination

as more than trust. It is also a matter of respect the respect that the sub gives the Master knowing that her submission to him is given as a gift out of respect and she knows that she can trust him. But even as she gives that trust there still may be some small element of fear.
Domination is sensual and adds to the spice of life.
Teddy Roosevelt said (now paraphrasing)
"I like to drink wine from the cup of life but I also like to add brandy."

waynerobertson said:

as more than trust. It is also a matter of respect the respect that the sub gives the Master knowing that her submission to him is given as a gift out of respect and she knows that she can trust him. But even as she gives that trust there still may be some small element of fear.
Domination is sensual and adds to the speice of life.
Teddy Roosevelt said (now paraphrasing)
"I like to drink from wine from the cup of life but I also like to add brandy."

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*agrees*
With respect comes trust, they go hand in hand

ba-dump

met a few folks but still lookin

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It sounds interesting. You seem to know what it means. I was kind of hesitant at first when I read this post becuase it seemed like you just wanted a sub slave but didn't really give much insight on the kind of things you were into, or what BDSM meant to you. But it helped when you described what it meant to you.

The idea of being a slave to me is intriguing but so is the role of the mistress as well and I actually have a sub slave so it's fun but it requires alot of patience and some commitment. I'm just never sure about people who make these ad's up because they don't really seem serious about it and they don't always stick to their commitments. It's more them getting there rocks off and then finding another sub to do the same the next week. They don't really stick to it for very long.

*He chuckles*

I dont' have the time to be constantly jumpin from sub t osub. Way to busy. I like to find someone I can have around for a good long time *nods* And if it was ust about *getting rocks off" I would just look for a r andom cyber fling. All set there.

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LOL- maybe if you polish your writing skills a bit- you know, learn to use more than ten words at a time, and work on vocabulary---- anything can happen here.

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HOpe to hear from some folks soon *s*

*rebumps His thread yet again*