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I've been seeing a girl that seems obsessed with big cocks. Unfortunately I came with your basic 6" model. Our sex life is great and she gives my cock lots of TLC. Like any male I'm insecure especially when she continually looks up pictures of huge cocks on the net and loves to watch porn featuring male pornstars that are hung like donkeys. She has suggested some penis stretching exercises which I have been trying for about a month. I don't notice any difference in length but she says my cock is definately thicker. There are exercises for both length and girth. Have any of you guys had any success with these penis exercises? You would think playing with your dick 30 minutes a day wouldn't be so bad but like any other exercise it gets boring and I don't really think they work. Althought you are supposed to do them for 3 months and I think most are like me and give up long before then.
 
I'm sorry I know you have a serious issue here but all I can think of is that you are trying to benchpress or something with your penis. It just sounds really funny.
 
I'm sorry your girlfriend is turning her fantasy into an obsession, and is making you feel bad about your penis size. :rose:

I've always said penis size isn't important, and the man it belongs to is what matters. I know that many women feel that way.

My guess is that your girlfriend is young and doesn't realize how she's making you feel insecure, and she's naive to suggest stretching exercises (which will not make your penis bigger and could potentially damage the works!).

Don't get caught up in it! 6 inches is plenty. I would suggest telling her how you feel, and offering to get some larger dildos and vibrators that you can use on her if she is really wanting a bick dick.

If she knows she's making you feel insecure and keeps suggesting stretching exercises, then I'd give some serious thought to finding another girlfriend. Any guy that made me feel bad about my body and suggested altering it, wouldn't be my boyfriend very long.
 
alain88 said:
I've been seeing a girl that seems obsessed with big cocks. Unfortunately I came with your basic 6" model. Our sex life is great and she gives my cock lots of TLC. Like any male I'm insecure especially when she continually looks up pictures of huge cocks on the net and loves to watch porn featuring male pornstars that are hung like donkeys. She has suggested some penis stretching exercises which I have been trying for about a month. I don't notice any difference in length but she says my cock is definately thicker. There are exercises for both length and girth. Have any of you guys had any success with these penis exercises? You would think playing with your dick 30 minutes a day wouldn't be so bad but like any other exercise it gets boring and I don't really think they work. Althought you are supposed to do them for 3 months and I think most are like me and give up long before then.
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Ohmy! This is a serious issue. No matter the size as long as partners make each other to feel good about themselves and their body parts. I agree with Lady Jeanne. I had a husband who complained about my breasts being too big and saggy. I can't help that!! He wanted me to reduce them or make them like Barbie Doll's breasts. I had to breastfeed my children. Duh! I kicked him out of our marriage for that. If your partner continues to do that with you, then your self esteem will spiral down. Time to look for another girl who appreciate you, not the size of your cock.
 
Like LadyJeanne said, there are certain "exercises," like jelqing, that can actually damage your penis. Would your GF rather have a big cock that was damaged and didn't work properly or a perfectly average cock attached to a partner who's willing to make her cum in all sorts of ways?
 
6 inches seems like a dream for me at my present size.

It's just as everyone else says, six inches is enough, if she is too hung over her fantasy to love you for you (instead of loving little alain88), then dump her ass out on the street, it's just that simple.

If you want to make it work though then talk to her about her fantasy. Maybe you should try that one dude's technique:

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892


That is what a small guy like me would have to count on if he were lucky enough to bed a girl he thinks he can love.
 
LadyJeanne said:
I'm sorry your girlfriend is turning her fantasy into an obsession, and is making you feel bad about your penis size. :rose:

I've always said penis size isn't important, and the man it belongs to is what matters. I know that many women feel that way.

My guess is that your girlfriend is young and doesn't realize how she's making you feel insecure, and she's naive to suggest stretching exercises (which will not make your penis bigger and could potentially damage the works!).

Don't get caught up in it! 6 inches is plenty. I would suggest telling her how you feel, and offering to get some larger dildos and vibrators that you can use on her if she is really wanting a bick dick.

If she knows she's making you feel insecure and keeps suggesting stretching exercises, then I'd give some serious thought to finding another girlfriend. Any guy that made me feel bad about my body and suggested altering it, wouldn't be my boyfriend very long.
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From a older woman, LadyJeanne is correct.
I agree with her completly.
I have had more men then I care to count and size does not matter.
It is not the cock but who it is attached to.
It may be her young age and she will find what we say is true.
I wish you the best of luck.
 
My penis is kindly samll too, I'm insecure sometimes, especially when I was with a girl who apparently used to have a man with a bigger one. Although I know the size doesn't matter.
For my girlfriend, I can do much better than her another boyfriend with bigger one.
 
Jeez how horribly insensitive of her. I'd be happy with six. Mine's like five and a half, and I think it's perfectly adequate.
 
thirty said:
My penis is kindly samll too, I'm insecure sometimes, especially when I was with a girl who apparently used to have a man with a bigger one. Although I know the size doesn't matter.
For my girlfriend, I can do much better than her another boyfriend with bigger one.
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i am sure you will find women who are expecting more. my guess is that these will be the young ones who are inexperienced. but that dies you little good now. i suggest you concentrate on being a good lover, and you will find that is what a woman wants.

and i am sure it works both ways. you know that some men want women with big boobs, passing over smaller chested girls. maybe this will make you a little more sensitive, you that sensitivity to your advantage. the best lovers are the most sensitive.

and as my dear friend apple said "it ain't the cock, it is who it is attached too"
i think she stole that from me..
Imitation is the highest form of flattery
 
It works both ways.

alain88 said:
I've been seeing a girl that seems obsessed with big cocks. Unfortunately I came with your basic 6" model. Our sex life is great and she gives my cock lots of TLC. Like any male I'm insecure especially when she continually looks up pictures of huge cocks on the net and loves to watch porn featuring male pornstars that are hung like donkeys. She has suggested some penis stretching exercises which I have been trying for about a month. I don't notice any difference in length but she says my cock is definately thicker. There are exercises for both length and girth. Have any of you guys had any success with these penis exercises? You would think playing with your dick 30 minutes a day wouldn't be so bad but like any other exercise it gets boring and I don't really think they work. Althought you are supposed to do them for 3 months and I think most are like me and give up long before then.
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I'm not knocking her taste in big dicks, but she definately needs to work on her tact. I wonder if she's aware that a lot of men are self conscious about their penis size. My thoughts are that, if the sex is so great, why is she suggesting these exercises for you?

Here's a solution: get a large dildo and double penetrate her. Your choice of your cock in her pussy or her ass. If she likes being stretched so much then that ought to do the trick.
 
Thanks for all your kind advice. This girl is not young so that is no excuse. She says it makes no actual difference, but she just gets excited by the idea of a big cock. She claims it makes no difference when it come to the act of love making. I am guilty of the same thing when it comes to big breasts, but I don't let it affect my choice in women. Sure, I find big tits arousing, but when it comes right down to who I end up being truely attracted to, breast size usually has little to do with it. I am disappointed in her though, because she should realize many men are insecure. I've always been happy with my size before so I'm quitting those stupid exercises...if they worked all men would be doing them.
 
alain88 said:
I've always been happy with my size before so I'm quitting those stupid exercises...if they worked all men would be doing them.
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Good for you! :)
 
Counter her by telling her you like "tight pussies" and start recommending exercises to get her's back into shape as well as website touting tight virgin pussies, etc...see how she reacts and then smile while asking her how the same medicine tastes :D
 
You have a nice size

Hi...I know people say that size does not matter but....sure you want a connection with a guy but it sure would be nice if that guy also has a good sized penis ;) I think that it sounds like you have a nice size already and she should be happy with that....when i've been with guys that might have been a bit larger in a perfect world, we've made it up with vibrators and dildos...I don't think it is healthy to pretend that it isn't small...i love to feel full.
 
i am not sure any more...

i too used to think and i do still believe on some level that a man's skills as a lover have nothing to do with the size of his penis. however, i then met a man who is larger than average (mostly in thickness) and i enjoy him tremendously.

the bigger issue is how you as a couple deal with your fears. if she has big cock fantasies, explore those with her through toys, porn, and possibly even playing with other men or couples. if you deal with it together you are much more likely to inspire trust and attachment than if you deal with your fantasies and fears alone.

i have been with men so small they could not achieve penetration. i know how this can make a man feel. so i know that penis size can indeed be a source of confusion and pain.

develop your skills as a lover, especially orally and i do not believe it matters so much anymore. remember too that average for men is 51/2 to 6 " fully erect. love seems to make that number irrelevant.
 
I agree with everyone here... if she loves you, she loves you for YOU, not your penis size.

I do also believe in some sense that penis size does matter to a certain degree. I believe all of us, men and women, have a certain size that feels best for us, just like women have different tightnesses of vaginas. I personally like a man who is thicker rather than longer, because I have a sensitive cervix. But if I fall in love with someone, it will be for the man, not for his penis. Unfortuately sex is a big enough issue in a relationship that it could potentially tear people apart and lead them to have self esteem issues, like your girlfriend is doing to you.

I think you need to reevaluate your relationship and see how much she really means to you, and then talk to her about how she is making you feel. You may be happier with another woman (I think 6 is perfect! Any longer hurts me--ouch!), or maybe she just doesn't realize she's hurting you. And I also agree about the exercises, you should stop them immediately.
 
buntinggurl said:
i too used to think and i do still believe on some level that a man's skills as a lover have nothing to do with the size of his penis. however, i then met a man who is larger than average (mostly in thickness) and i enjoy him tremendously.
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But is that because of the size of his cock or because he knows what he's doing with it?
 
I have to agree with everyone here. Tell her to like it or kick her to the curb man. Im a guy with an above average sized penis, and to tell you the truth it isnt a good thing most of the time. My thickness proves to be a pain to some, and throughout highschool especially, I had to stop 99% of the time due to hurting the girl. Now i have a girl that can take it perfectly, although she cant handle anal sex with me. So see Being Larger than average isnt a great thing. I wish I was around 6-7 inches to be honest.
 
well

Eilan said:
But is that because of the size of his cock or because he knows what he's doing with it?
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it is indeed a combination of both. he has a nice cock and he knows how to use it. extra thick cocks give me the shivers...
 
tactless

Liking big cocks is fine. You can both look at big cocks and enjoy her excitement. You can get big dildos, cucumbers, eggplants, whatever. But asking someone to try to actually get a bigger cock is a poor relationship strategy, like asking people to lose weight, get bigger breasts, make more money, etc. Sounds like she is shopping for a piece of meat instead of a person. Penises are attached to people and it is people, not penises, that we have sex with.

Steve
 
i agree

StevenWill said:
Liking big cocks is fine. You can both look at big cocks and enjoy her excitement. You can get big dildos, cucumbers, eggplants, whatever. But asking someone to try to actually get a bigger cock is a poor relationship strategy, like asking people to lose weight, get bigger breasts, make more money, etc. Sounds like she is shopping for a piece of meat instead of a person. Penises are attached to people and it is people, not penises, that we have sex with.

Steve
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well said, steve. it would be akin to asking for a smaller pussy. bigger breasts could be obtained surgically but if i were to be asked by my man to do this it would raise a big ole red flag.
 
Purchase some big dildos and fuck her with those after you've fucked her with yours. Otherwise, any sexual partner that blatantly makes the other feel inadequate isn't worth the genetalia between his/her legs. I'd be sick of that shit pretty quick and movin' on down the road if she didn't realign that particular thought process. Any dick that a guy can get the job done with is the right dick for the job, obviously.

:cool:
 
alain88
You have what you have, be secure in that, the problem isn`t yours,it is hers.
I wouldn`t worry about it, yours is average , it apparently works, so be happy.
 
I agree

mrpenis said:
Counter her by telling her you like "tight pussies" and start recommending exercises to get her's back into shape as well as website touting tight virgin pussies, etc...see how she reacts and then smile while asking her how the same medicine tastes :D
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This had me lmao...perfect way to help her be a nicer girl.
 
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