Help! b/f forces me to taste cum!

curious_clem

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My b/f says he can never tell exactly when he's gonna cum, so he always ends up spraying a bit in my mouth after a blow job before I realize he's coming.. I don't mind the taste that much, but it leaves my throat so sticky & dry..

I talked to him about it, but he says he can't help it.. is he bullshitting me?
 
curious_clem said:
My b/f says he can never tell exactly when he's gonna cum, so he always ends up spraying a bit in my mouth after a blow job before I realize he's coming.. I don't mind the taste that much, but it leaves my throat so sticky & dry..

I talked to him about it, but he says he can't help it.. is he bullshitting me?

Oh yea, he knows. All guys know
 
I second and third that! Though it is sometimes a bit hard to control, a guy can always tell when the time cums :eek:
 
look, I don't mind taking it in my mouth.. but I don't like the way swallowing leaves my throat soooo dry! does it really give guys such a high to see a girl swallow? and btw - I hate it in my hair!! but my b/f isn't interested in that anyway..
 
curious_clem said:
look, I don't mind taking it in my mouth.. but I don't like the way swallowing leaves my throat soooo dry! does it really give guys such a high to see a girl swallow? and btw - I hate it in my hair!! but my b/f isn't interested in that anyway..

hehe, yes, we all love it when she swallows, why I dont know, maybe it's the feeling of her still sucking on it while you are cumming, which is a damn good feeling btw. :)
 
curious_clem said:
look, I don't mind taking it in my mouth.. but I don't like the way swallowing leaves my throat soooo dry! does it really give guys such a high to see a girl swallow? and btw - I hate it in my hair!! but my b/f isn't interested in that anyway..

Lets try this: You come over and give me a nice blow job, and I will tell you if I can tell when I am going to cum, my cum has special throat soothing properties that will leave your throat feeling very nice.
 
curious_clem said:
My b/f says he can never tell exactly when he's gonna cum
Your boyfriend is full of shit.

jransomar said:
So swallow and be a woman.
I swallow, and I quite enjoy it, but I fail to see the connection between womanliness and swallowing.

Perhaps you'd like me to get into the things that real men should be doing in bed? Ha. Didn't think so.
 
Eilan said:
Your boyfriend is full of shit.

I swallow, and I quite enjoy it, but I fail to see the connection between womanliness and swallowing.

Perhaps you'd like me to get into the things that real men should be doing in bed? Ha. Didn't think so.

YES! i hear you sister:))

loads of men are all talk & no endurance when it comes to girls cumming:))

but I'm curious.. You enjoy swallowing, what about the aftertaste *burn* any remedies?
I avoided swallowing once by sharing, any experience there?? only done it once..
 
curious_clem said:
You enjoy swallowing, what about the aftertaste *burn* any remedies?
It's never been that big of an issue with me. My throat will occasionally get scratchy afterward, but it goes away fairly quickly.

Oddly enough, I noticed this more with my ex than I have with my hubby.
 
curious_clem said:
YES! i hear you sister:))

loads of men are all talk & no endurance when it comes to girls cumming:))

but I'm curious.. You enjoy swallowing, what about the aftertaste *burn* any remedies?
I avoided swallowing once by sharing, any experience there?? only done it once..
I guess that depends on what you mean by endurance... it's true I'm not in good enough shape to screw all night long, but that doesn't mean anything.... there are other ways to make a girl cum....

oh.... and I only talk about it sometimes, so I'm not all talk ;)

and add me to the general consensus that your b/f is bullshitting you. I'll even go farther.... if he knows that you have a bad reaction to his cumming in your mouth and he insists on telling you he doesn't know when to tell you he's cumming... he's an asshole that's not showing any regard for your feelings.
 
mrtnmoon said:
I guess that depends on what you mean by endurance... it's true I'm not in good enough shape to screw all night long, but that doesn't mean anything.... there are other ways to make a girl cum....

oh.... and I only talk about it sometimes, so I'm not all talk ;)

and add me to the general consensus that your b/f is bullshitting you. I'll even go farther.... if he knows that you have a bad reaction to his cumming in your mouth and he insists on telling you he doesn't know when to tell you he's cumming... he's an asshole that's not showing any regard for your feelings.
love this response.

And may I add, can't you tell when he is about to cum? I can pretty much narrow it down to seconds... however I love the taste of it.. so I just stroke a little faster.
*giggles
 
Incandesce said:
love this response.

And may I add, can't you tell when he is about to cum? I can pretty much narrow it down to seconds... however I love the taste of it.. so I just stroke a little faster.
*giggles

Hehe, why can't you be my wife :)
Mine hates to swallow, only has like twice in the 10 years we've been together.
 
Incandesce said:
love this response.

And may I add, can't you tell when he is about to cum? I can pretty much narrow it down to seconds... however I love the taste of it.. so I just stroke a little faster.
*giggles
glad you liked my response... I liked yours, too, as well as the avatar. holy smokes!
 
Learn to tell when he's about to cum. Right when he starts squeeze the base of his penis real hard and don't let go. He'll get the message.
 
WriterDom said:
Learn to tell when he's about to cum. Right when he starts squeeze the base of his penis real hard and don't let go. He'll get the message.

Good Advice. He might even like it :)
 
Have him up his intake of pineapple juice and chocolate, that will take away the "sour" properties of his cum that is irritating to your throat. But I love the idea of stopping him from cumming...do it just once....he'll get the idea....
 
curious_clem said:
My b/f says he can never tell exactly when he's gonna cum, so he always ends up spraying a bit in my mouth after a blow job before I realize he's coming.. I don't mind the taste that much, but it leaves my throat so sticky & dry..

I talked to him about it, but he says he can't help it.. is he bullshitting me?

unless you enjoy him doing this to you I would refuse to give him any more bjs till he stops.He knows when he is going to cum...

I love for him to cum in my mouth and yes I swallow,but im not into being forced into something I might not wanna do...But again some women love to be forced :)
 
Bumpme said:
Lets try this: You come over and give me a nice blow job, and I will tell you if I can tell when I am going to cum, my cum has special throat soothing properties that will leave your throat feeling very nice.



i myself find swallowing highly soothing i get craby when i dont get to swallow ;)
 
when my wife & I were first married, I had a hard time knowing when I was about to cum in her mouth,(guess too young to know better) I now have that under control, but she doesn't want to take me in her mouth anymore. We have been married for 26 plus years and I wish I knew then what I know now. Maybe your boyfriend will learn over time.
 
All I have to say has already been said.

1) He is showing absolutely no respect for you and your feelings

2) Swallowing is hot but doesn't make you any less a "woman"

3) Keep him from cumming, if he can't control it you can do it for him

Let us know how it goes sweetie!

~ShyNymph :kiss:
 
I love it when a woman obviously loves oral and her swallowing is a turn on, just for the simple fact it is evidence of her enjoying cum, the act, the eroticism of it. I also selfishly repay that act if she chosses to allow me to cum in her mouth by sharing a hot, wet and erotic kiss with her. I also love to eat a woman out after I have filled her and that is usually welcomed... but I also do it because it is erotic and a turn on.

He probably is bullshitting you unless it is some premature ejaculation thing... don't know... but I think there needs to be a discussion or something, because if that is not your thing, you should not be forced to do it.
 
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