Best Head - Male or Female? Why?

Shankara20

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A question for you bi-guys - who gives a better blow-job, over all, your boyfriend or your girlfriend? (Not that any are bad!)

Why?
 
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My wife is an accomplished cock sucker............but I have a gay friend that is the best............he's slurppy........deep throat artist who loves to draw back to my balls...........lick my lenght and then over the top to deep completion...he contracts his throat muscles to stroke my cock while impaling imself on my cock......great feeling....blows my nuts
 
I've never experienced from a guy (yet, hopefully) but I honestly don't see how it could be better than my wife. Of course, she knows exactly what buttons to push and she LOVES giving head so that makes it even better. I think it'd be nice to run an experiment though!
 
Generally, girls. They seem to enjoy it more (in my experience). When they look up at me and smile, it's the cutest thing.
 
The fella I was seeing before I met my current gf gave good head.My current partner not that good. why? different techniques I guess. He certainly knew what to do when it came to my tackle, licking certain parts and knowing how and when to stimulate other bits but shes certainly learning. I guess its all to do with practise rather than gender
 
guys I think...but still testing

definitely guys, we know what to do (...& I am pretty sure I know what to do !)
...plus we put more into it (just as he thought he was safe, the can of worms opened...)
cheers
MB
 
I Think

It depends on your mood. I posted a similar answer regarding kissing. In my experience if you want a good no nonsense rough teeth 'n' all blow job then it tends to be a guy [not all the time though]. If you want a sensous, luxurious, deep, wet, sluuurpy [love that word] all around 360 degree blow job, it tends to be a girl. But being bisexual, who cares. A blow job does as blow job is Lol :)
 
I don't know. I've never thought about it. My last bf used to give great head but he would always want to "top" me and I don't do "bottoming" ( deep phobia, explain later) so that probably didn't motivate him to try too hard. My last gf gave great head but she kept looking at me while doing it and she didn't like it when I came all over her face so that ruined it for me. My current gf lets me do anything. We've done it all. She has given me oral. I've given her oral. She even let me into her ass. She's awesome. She's also the only chick I know who likes bisexual and shemale porn as much as I do. She's great !!!!!!!
 
RickyRooster said:
...if you want a good no nonsense rough teeth 'n' all blow job then it tends to be a guy [not all the time though]. If you want a sensous, luxurious, deep, wet, sluuurpy [love that word] all around 360 degree blow job, it tends to be a girl.

Good point. I quess the ladies that have gone down on me really were not dedicated to the task at hand - er mouth. They have all been fine. But after having several blow job experiances at an all male bathhouse I know feel that men are more dedicated. They seen to "WANT" a hard cock to go after - no problem with gag reflex, no problem with getting messy, never a request/demand to "take it our before you cum" oh no - those men won't give your cock back till they have sucked it dry. Balls on chin - thrust all you want - make a wonderful mess.

But that is just how I feel about it. Come to think about it I may have a problem of hold back when I'm with a female and being willing to "go for it" when with a man. She might get hurt - he can take it. Hmmmm - gives me something to ponder.

I'll tell you about a mistake I made with a girl friend once about this later.

More thought?
 
Well, of course I'd like to think I'm the best for my husband, but when I watch how some men have done it to him, I've learned a thing or two.
 
Mari J said:
Well, of course I'd like to think I'm the best for my husband, but when I watch how some men have done it to him, I've learned a thing or two.

I'd love to here about you watching a man giving your husband a B/J - if you please.

:nana: :nana: :nana:
 
Man, that's a tough one. I have had a lot of blowjobs from both men and women and I am not sure. I have had good ones and bad ones from both. I would say that the one that were the best were from the ones who were really into it. The ones that were just doing it because they knew I liked it weren't so good.
 
Nudebeach23 said:
The ones that were just doing it because they knew I liked it weren't so good.

I find that the best BJ's can be messy - and not just from the cum. The girls that have gone down on me have had a problem with a little mess. But not the guys. Have I just made poor selections with the girls? :confused: :confused:

or am I just a guy with a messy dick? :D :D
 
This tends to be an indivdual thing. I've met women who refuse to give a blowjob... they think it's gross... and others who love the taste of cum.

The same with guys. I've met men who refuse to go there, and others who are on me like a Hoover vacuum cleaner.
 
crackherjack said:
What do you mean by messy? Spit and whatnot...or other fluids?
:kiss:

YES - spit and whatnot and other fluids :D :D
When I give a blowjob I quess I like to get messy, and when I get a blowjob I like it get sloppy and messy.
But that's just me. :p
 
wouldn't know but i would have to say most blowjobs are good and stefani nice new pic :)
 
Tymeless said:
wouldn't know but i would have to say most blowjobs are good and stefani nice new pic :)

Thanx doll. Wish my hair was still that long. Cut it off in May... it's just touching my shoulders now. The legs and butt are still the same. :rolleyes:
 
a new question

:kiss: If I were crossdressed and madeup well enough to pass for a women,
:kiss: and I picked you up and gave you a blowjob in the backseat of your car,
:kiss: with only my mouth on your cock to go by, :kiss:
:kiss: could you tell I'm a guy? :confused:
:kiss: :kiss:
 
Ever tell?

When it dawned on me that I was enjoying the blowjobs I was getting from males more than the blowjobs I had received for females I got really excited. As it happened I met a new female BDSM playmate, we both switched so we changed Top/bottom based on the mood of the night. We had played a bunch but had not had much “vanilla” sex (suck, fuck, etc.)

One night on the way to a play party I made a huge error. I told her that I liked head from a man better than I did from a woman.

She got mad. She got hurt. She got insulted. She got really really pissed. Opps.

It had nothing to do with HER. I did not turn down a blowjob offer from her – no way!

She just got mad for all the women in the world.

We were play partners for a long time after that, but guess what – never a blowjob. :confused:

Oh well. Any other stories out there?
 
This is really off-topic but Shankara20, your pic reallly bothers me, ouch!
 
Well, I'm bi and i luv oral sex. Men tell me I give great head (I've had the happy compliment of being called "best") I can tell you that all you need is enthusiasm. If you don't enjoy giving head then you suck at sucking.

The actual technique that any one guy likes is different for every guy, so if he teaches you to do him right and you have enthusiasm you cant fail.

However, most bi men are not true bis, they lean one way, so whichever way you lean...
 
I'm bi and i have to say from what my bi male lovers have told me I give the best all around just enough spit teeth at the right time and of course my all time claim to fame, deepthroating those who have never gotten it before and working the throat.

I have a fuckbuddy who had never had that done nor his sack played with- care to take a guess at what he usually wants when we play? hehe as for my female friends they say i eat them better than most other women do because i get so into to it. I love cum and I love the act of orgasm i have made girls squirt from my skill and I love it.

Ahhh I love to toot my own horn.
 
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