Anal sex and cock size..

I am going to be fucking this guy in one month who is about 8 in long and 6.5 inch around... I've never taken anything that big into my ass before and wondered if it is possible? If so, should I work myself up to it with dildos increasing in size until that day? I *really* want to take it because no one has been able to handle his cock yet. Also, if I am doing a enema, how long before the night should I do it.. like a few hours?? Thanks

Yes it is a good idea to do some relaxing and work up to a size about the same diameter as him.

The depth should not be a problem if he is willing to go slow enough to start, as long as you don't have a "short" rectum before there is a turn in your lower bowel.

As for enema’s anything more than a couple of hours is too long unless you are going for a full colonic irrigation, you can always make an enema and some last minute stretching part of the foreplay, if he is open to the idea of anal sex he will most likely enjoy the idea of lubing you up and stretching you out himself.

Unless you are going the colonic route, a couple (2 or perhaps 3 saline enemas) will be plenty, used with a condom you are not going to be in much danger of an accident, I say a condom because you don’t know the guy and this sounds like a first time thing, start with protection for yourself and it helps make the clean up a breeze.

SouthernGirl11 said:

I am going to be fucking this guy in one month ...

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Nothing like planning ahead! Why wait a whole month?

He lives away at college at thats when he is coming down..

...I do know this guy and we both are bringing our currect STD test results so he can go bareback

I've done anal many, many times in the past (almost) four years, and I've never had an enema beforehand. I've always found the prospect of an enema more daunting than the possibility of a "mess" during anal.

The way I see it, sex (PIV, anal, whatever) can be messy--particularly if it's done right. People who can't handle that shouldn't have sex.

That's just my opinion. You do what feels right for you.

Good luck.

its a good idea....but u gonna need a lot of luvb

SouthernGirl11, I'm not trying to discourage further conversation here, but you might want to take a look at The Blank Manual, if you haven't already.

SouthernGirl11 said:

I am going to be fucking this guy in one month who is about 8 in long and 6.5 inch around... I've never taken anything that big into my ass before and wondered if it is possible?

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Honey, it's possible. My ex-h was monstrous, almost 10" and very thick. I'm SO thankful I don't fuck him anymore. It wasn't painful at all, not even the first time. LOADS OF LUBE...go super slow.

If you have any specific questions that are too embarassing, PM me.

It can be done.

At first I thought that your measurements of 6.5 inches in circumference sounded odd, but I just jacked myself 'til hard and took a measurement with a seamstress tape and I am was just shy of 6.25 inches all the way around. I'm about 7.5 long.

My first experience with anal sex was with a girl very small in frame - about 5'4" and 115 pounds. One of the first times we were together sexually, I was doing her from behind and she reached around with her hand and started fingering her own ass while I fucked her. This was the first time any girl had ever done this with me, so I was very surprised, but it was definitely a signal that she liked ass play. I moved out and started by licking her ass and fucking her with the tip of my tongue. I had not done this before, but it totally turned me on. I spent a lot of time warming her ass up, which is very important to successful anal sex.

Long story short - when I moved up to put my cock in her ass, we used lots of lube, and I worked very slowly to just pop my head inside beyond her ring. Once that was accomplished, we just let my cock sit there for a long time without thrusting, or any real movement. I shrunk a bit in the process, due to the lack of movement, and fear of hurting her, but it helped her adjust to the size. After a while I could feel her ass relax and she adjusted to my thickness. At that point I started to push in VERY small amounts while I grew to full erection again, and she continued to adjust as I grew in her ass. Basically, I just fucked her ass with my head real slow for a while. After about 7-10 minutes of this very slow movement, I was fully erect and penatrating with about 1/2 my length. I was just about hitting bottom at this point, and she had adjusting to my thickness without pain at this stage.

After allowing a proper amount of time for her to adjust, and to make sure I wasn't causing pain, I was able to thrust normally, albiet without the same depth as a pussy. It was an incredibly erotic experience for both us, and a very different feeling for me. I'll never forget that first time, or the feeling of cumming in someone's ass the first time.

After that first time, anal sex was a regular part of our routine, and we eventually bought some mutual toys so she could play with my ass too!

You'll also need to figure out which position is right for you depending on your shape and angles. We eventually determined that anal was easier with her on her back and legs pulled back. I used to fuck her ass this way while I watched her masterbate - more fun for me!

So, it can be done. Just take your time and communicate!

surf_naked said:

At first I thought that your measurements of 6.5 inches in circumference sounded odd

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Why should this be odd?

Maybe "odd" was the wrong word. I just meant it sounded unusually large - until I actually did the math that is.

surf_naked said:

Maybe "odd" was the wrong word. I just meant it sounded unusually large - until I actually did the math that is.

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Circumference vs. Diameter.

I had a few very unsuccessful attempts at anal early on in my life. I realize not that they were due to lovers that knew even less about what they were doing then I did. Most men, and especially young men, don't realize that a woman's ass is not like fucking her pussy. I think my early experiences are not uncommon. I also think that a lot of women develop an expectation that anal sex is going to be painful and it becomes a self fulfilling prophecy because they are not able to relax when a man tries to enter them.

After a few long talks with a girlfriend who is a rather enthusiastic devotee to the anal arts I decided to give it a try. I started off on my own with just a finger and soom progressed to larger and larger toys. I eventually worked up to a dildo the size of my then boyfriend. Not only did I learn how to relax, I also developed the confidence necessary to be able to relax. I knew that of I was sufficiently lubricated I didn't have to worry about taking even a relatively thick cock.

Now I do use enemas to clean myself out. I often use an anal plug as a prelude to anal sex to help stretch myself, although some extended anal play with your partner can be womderful too. My husband is over 7" in circumference and I have no problems at all taking him in my tushy. As a mater of fact I love it. Some of my best orgasms come from having him there. There is some minot discomfort when he first goes in, but I put that in the pleasure/pain type of category and it is not all that unpleasant for me.

Hope that helps. Enjoy!

CorsetLvr said:

Circumference vs. Diameter.

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Yup. It's geometry, folks. Y'all should have paid attention in high school. Circumference (πd or 2πr) is distance around; diameter is distance across.

There was a thread a few weeks back where a guy was saying that he was two inches around, and I was thinking, "Needledick!" However, he meant diameter and not circumference.

If you want to (try to) impress us, you have to use the terminology correctly.

Eilan said:

Yup. It's geometry, folks. Y'all should have paid attention in high school. Circumference (πd or 2πr) is distance around; diameter is distance across.

There was a thread a few weeks back where a guy was saying that he was two inches around, and I was thinking, "Needledick!" However, he meant diameter and not circumference.

If you want to (try to) impress us, you have to use the terminology correctly.

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I knew I'd find you here.

SouthernGirl11 said:

He lives away at college at thats when he is coming down..

...I do know this guy and we both are bringing our currect STD test results so he can go bareback

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So you were both tested twice, at least 6 months apart, and had no interaction with anyone between those tests or since? And you were both tested for HSV-1 and -2, and you're comfortable with the fact that men AREN'T tested for HPV?

AppleBiter said:

I knew I'd find you here.

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Strange. You're neither shocked nor appalled.

SweetErika said:

So you were both tested twice, at least 6 months apart, and had no interaction with anyone between those tests or since? And you were both tested for HSV-1 and -2, and you're comfortable with the fact that men AREN'T tested for HPV?

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Oh, sure. Inject logic into the ass-fuckfest. Or would that be assfuck-fest?