Temperature Play!?!

I LOVE temperature play! Do you? Please bring your stories here and let's discuss.

Tonight I prepared HOT tea with honey and ice. Surprise Honey, I do have an idea! Hehehe!

To say we had fun would be way understating it.

I could write a lot more about this, maybe I will later if folks want to know but in the meantime, what about you? Do you like temperature play?

Fury

I have a sub that likes it alot. I alternate between pouring hot wax and rubbing ice cubes on his cock.

Personally, I love hot/cold stone massages but I've never had temperature play done to me during BDSM play.

Miss Melody said:

I have a sub that likes it alot. I alternate between pouring hot wax and rubbing ice cubes on his cock.

Personally, I love hot/cold stone massages but I've never had temperature play done to me during BDSM play.

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Hi Miss Melody!

Sounds fun! I bet you have a happy sub.

Now here is an idea. Why not assign him or someone else the task of doing temperature play that you want done on you?

I tried hot wax and ice on myself recently and I LOVED it!!! It was an assignment! Love those too!

I've always enjoyed ice play. It's great on long lonely nights in hotel, business trips when you are trying to remain a virgin or be faithful and all that. Didn't have toys back then! Ice was NICE!!!

Fury

FurryFury said:

Hi Miss Melody!

Sounds fun! I bet you have a happy sub.

Now here is an idea. Why not assign him or someone else the task of doing temperature play that you want done on you?

I tried hot wax and ice on myself recently and I LOVED it!!! It was an assignment! Love those too!

I've always enjoyed ice play. It's great on long lonely nights in hotel, business trips when you are trying to remain a virgin or be faithful and all that. Didn't have toys back then! Ice was NICE!!!

Fury

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He Ms Fury. Seems you've been doing a lot of research. I wish You could try some out on me!

I'd never connected a certain sensation that I love with BDSM until now, but I've just had one of those "Eureka!" moments about something in my early vanilla life that was a precursor/predictor of my BDSM inclinations.

I grew up in the southwest--Arizona and Texas. In those places, a car left in a parking lot can get really hot, really fast. I used to love, and I mean LOVE, getting into a car that was literally 120-130 degrees (Fahrenheit, of course, just so the our international friends don't freak ). I'd fully extend my fingers, stretching them all the way, and then wrap them very, very slowly and very very tightly around the black leather steering wheel. (Wow! This memory involves leather, too! Didn't make that connection till that last sentence!)

Feeling the scalding heat of the steering wheel against my bare palms would send chills all up and down my back and my legs--almost like an extended, slow-motion orgasm, now that I think about it. At the time, I thought it was like a sauna or a hot tub, but with what I know now, I see that it was actually something a bit more profound and intimate...

mslv4Her said:

He Ms Fury. Seems you've been doing a lot of research. I wish You could try some out on me!

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Well I am quite the researcher and I like to conduct field tests! LOL! Ya never know. I like to see all that book and google learning put into real life play to see if it really is all that and a bag of chips. Umm! Chips!

*grins*

Fury

FurryFury said:

Well I am quite the researcher and I like to conduct field tests! LOL! Ya never know. I like to see all that book and google learning put into real life play to see if it really is all that and a bag of chips. Umm! Chips!

*grins*

Fury

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Well now that is the best near invitation i've had all day. But what about the chips?!?!?

Jay Davis said:

I'd never connected a certain sensation that I love with BDSM until now, but I've just had one of those "Eureka!" moments about something in my early vanilla life that was a precursor/predictor of my BDSM inclinations.

I grew up in the southwest--Arizona and Texas. In those places, a car left in a parking lot can get really hot, really fast. I used to love, and I mean LOVE, getting into a car that was literally 120-130 degrees (Fahrenheit, of course, just so the our international friends don't freak ). I'd fully extend my fingers, stretching them all the way, and then wrap them very, very slowly and very very tightly around the black leather steering wheel. (Wow! This memory involves leather, too! Didn't make that connection till that last sentence!)

Feeling the scalding heat of the steering wheel against my bare palms would send chills all up and down my back and my legs--almost like an extended, slow-motion orgasm, now that I think about it. At the time, I thought it was like a sauna or a hot tub, but with what I know now, I see that it was actually something a bit more profound and intimate...

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Hi Jay Davis!

Yes I still LOVE that! Leather and HEAT!!! Ahh!

I also love sauna's and hot tubs but not steam rooms (I feel like I can't breathe in those things.). In fact one of my first cybers I set in a public sauna with a stranger. Damn it was a good one.

In RL, my Dad got a sauna kit and put together what looked like a huge barrel for four in our basement. I LOVED that thing! I used it a LOT! *grins like a bad child*

Isn't cool when little moments of suspire come up like this and make your life seem just a tad more connected to your current obsessions? I love that too!

Fury

mslv4Her said:

Well now that is the best near invitation i've had all day. But what about the chips?!?!?

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Honey you want to play with me, it's always a good idea to bring presents. Food is a great present! Chips, veggies, dip, I get hungry after I play and even during! Sour dough, cherries, skor bars, wine, soft drinks, come on bring it on.

Fury

PS I'm still losing weight! He he! Down to 132 lbs. *grins*

Fury

FurryFury said:

Honey you want to play with me, it's always a good idea to bring presents. Food is a great present! Chips, veggies, dip, I get hungry after I play and even during! Sour dough, cherries, skor bars, wine, soft drinks, come on bring it on.

Fury

PS I'm still losing weight! He he! Down to 132 lbs. *grins*

Fury

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And what (hee hee ) have you been doing to lose it

FurryFury said:

Honey you want to play with me, it's always a good idea to bring presents. Food is a great present! Chips, veggies, dip, I get hungry after I play and even during! Sour dough, cherries, skor bars, wine, soft drinks, come on bring it on.

Fury

PS I'm still losing weight! He he! Down to 132 lbs. *grins*

Fury

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Hmmmm pouring a little wine and drinking it from strategic spots.....that does sound delightful!

And 132 sounds like just about the right size to keep me in line!

FurryFury said:

Hi Jay Davis!

Isn't cool when little moments of suspire come up like this and make your life seem just a tad more connected to your current obsessions? I love that too!

Fury

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SOOO much of my life makes more sense now that I've gotten some kind of handle on my sensuality...wierd little things that felt good, like that hot steering wheel; jobs I've done well in and jobs I've languished in; amazingly stupid and self-destructive relationships (even a marriage!) I've gotten myself into.

Finally grasping my submissive sexuality was like finding the thread that connected a million seemingly unrelated thrills and frustrations I'd felt all my life. Learning how it influences every aspect of my life, and every relationship (be it romantic, platonic, or even professional), is allowing me to put myself in situations where it is an asset, and avoid those where it's a liability or vulnerability. As a result, my life is becoming a lot happier and more successful these days.

Hats off to the friends, lovers, fellow D/s'ers and the therapist who've helped me sort out the jumbled mess that has always been my psyche!

raven2 said:

And what (hee hee ) have you been doing to lose it

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My special diet! I call it The Internet Diet.

First start role playing on the Internet. Become completely obsessed to the point where you actually have withdrawal symptoms if you are away from the computer for more than ten minutes.

Segue into cyber next. Get even more obsessed. You begin to have shaking hands when they are NOT on the key board. You literally burn all the time if you are not rping, or cybering you are researching or masturbating. You resent your real but wonderful life interfering with your play!

At this point, you always keep two bottles of water near you. You have NO idea what is in the fridge and at the grocery store if you even go you look for things you can eat at the computer with a spoon so your fingers don't get sticky or salty.

Otherwise you only eat before gigs in the morning, usually a pop tart, coffee, one slice of Cheddar cheese.

Lunch, is usually a veja link on a bun with miracle whip while you watch the kids eat a more balanced meal that you made as quickly as possible.

Then dinner is what your husband makes when he drags you to the table.

Now start going to the gym every day until your gym partner complains and wants to take at least two days off a week and/or you get sick and have to bail.

Which leaves you with the following exercise. SEX!!! Dancing in the car!!! And walks under the starts on nights that are not too cold or hot.

BAM! You have weight loss!

Months later, cyber is kinda boring with most. The role play kids have turned into little bitches mostly and you have moved onto Lit.

Lately you are thinking of taking a break from Lit even to work on your novel, picture books or song writing.

I also highly recommend what I will now name The "Placebo" Diet. In which one eats things that make you feel very full but which go right through you such as watermelon, and water or roughage such as popcorn only without all the fat on it.

These diets can be use concurrently and contiguously!

Mileage may vary, see a doctor if you get the shakes or side effects that you deem unpleasant. I'm down to a size eight and shrinking.

I can't eat half of what I used to. Eating out is kind of a waste but I do have left overs!

Fury

mslv4Her said:

Hmmmm pouring a little wine and drinking it from strategic spots.....that does sound delightful!

And 132 sounds like just about the right size to keep me in line!

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Oh I COULD keep you in line! Cause that is what you want now isn't it? *grins* Now you'd have to EARN drinking from certain strategic spots wouldn't you?

*cracks the whip a little*

*L*

Fury

Jay Davis said:

SOOO much of my life makes more sense now that I've gotten some kind of handle on my sensuality...wierd little things that felt good, like that hot steering wheel; jobs I've done well in and jobs I've languished in; amazingly stupid and self-destructive relationships (even a marriage!) I've gotten myself into.

Finally grasping my submissive sexuality was like finding the thread that connected a million seemingly unrelated thrills and frustrations I'd felt all my life. Learning how it influences every aspect of my life, and every relationship (be it romantic, platonic, or even professional), is allowing me to put myself in situations where it is an asset, and avoid those where it's a liability or vulnerability. As a result, my life is becoming a lot happier and more successful these days.

Hats off to the friends, lovers, fellow D/s'ers and the therapist who've helped me sort out the jumbled mess that has always been my psyche!

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Good for you Sugah!

I know just what you mean I really do!

*huggles*

Fury

FurryFury said:

Oh I COULD keep you in line! Cause that is what you want now isn't it? *grins* Now you'd have to EARN drinking from certain strategic spots wouldn't you?

*cracks the whip a little*

*L*

Fury

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You've definitely got that right, Ms Fury. And just how might i earn those drinking spots, hmmmmm.

Oh, that's a very nice whip You have....owwwwww!

mslv4Her said:

You've definitely got that right, Ms Fury. And just how might i earn those drinking spots, hmmmmm.

Oh, that's a very nice whip You have....owwwwww!

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LOL!

Are you sure you want to know?

*crack*


Fury

FurryFury said:

LOL!

Are you sure you want to know?

*crack*


Fury

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Mmmmm...aaaahhhh....oh, yes. Pleaseeeeeeee, Ms Fury!

mslv4Her said:

Mmmmm...aaaahhhh....oh, yes. Pleaseeeeeeee, Ms Fury!

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Willing and eager, I have to love that! LOL!

Fury

FurryFury said:

Willing and eager, I have to love that! LOL!

Fury

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i do aim to please, Ms Fury!

FurryFury said:

I LOVE temperature play! Do you? Please bring your stories here and let's discuss.

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Haven't used it in play yet, but I like using ice/cold packs and heat packs on my back and neck.

I like my AC ice cold (if frost isn't forming on the outside of the window it isn't cold enough), and my baths steamin' hot (wish I could afford a spa/hot tub).

I like frosty drinks sometimes and soothing hot ones other times...

I think I would enjoy temp play too...

Private_Label said:

Haven't used it in play yet, but I like using ice/cold packs and heat packs on my back and neck.

I like my AC ice cold (if frost isn't forming on the outside of the window it isn't cold enough), and my baths steamin' hot (wish I could afford a spa/hot tub).

I like frosty drinks sometimes and soothing hot ones other times...

I think I would enjoy temp play too...

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Private_Label!

You sound like a PRIME candidate for temp play! You should so try it!

*grins*

I too like the HOT showers! I mean my skin is RED when I come out. I don't take baths anymore, those bring up bad thoughts and really my tub isn't working, I want to replace it with a spa tub which brings up really yummy thoughts, someday!

*hugs*

Fury

Private_Label said:

Haven't used it in play yet, but I like using ice/cold packs and heat packs on my back and neck.

I like my AC ice cold (if frost isn't forming on the outside of the window it isn't cold enough), and my baths steamin' hot (wish I could afford a spa/hot tub).

I like frosty drinks sometimes and soothing hot ones other times...

I think I would enjoy temp play too...

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so pretty much you enjoy different temperatures at different times so you naturally assume that you would like temperature play? that's like someone assuming they should buy a whip and tie up their boyfriend because they like leather shoes.

mslv4Her said:

i do aim to please, Ms Fury!

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Aim is important. Very.

Fury

I don't know about 'heat play', but I LOVE ice.