My fantasies went from Boobs to Cocks when i met my wife. Anybody else?

Mr. Briggs

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Hi. My sexual fantasies completely changed once i met my wife. Before I met my wife it was all about pussy. I'd fantasize about threesomes (mff), busty girls, hot asses, hot pussy. You name it.

Then I met my wife. She's the most amazing woman on the planet. When we first met we'd go out and there would be girls around that I knew and they would be very flirty and somewhat disrespectful to my wife (them being flirty knowing I was with her is just wrong). On top of that in our line of work we are exposed to beautiful women daily. Despite her being an absolutely beautiful woman I know she feels insecure at times. At first she was very protective. I think she didn't quite believe that i was 100% all hers (once she realised i was hers she became much less protective). We have no desire to be with anybody but each other however we definitely enjoy fantasizing.

When we started discussing fantasies it was very clear to me that she wasn't interested in anything that involved another woman with us. As time went by I realised the fantasies I had of Boobs, Ass and pussy added no spark in our bedroom. It was then that my fantasies started to change towards something that we could share. It went from Big Boobs to big cocks. I have no desire to see or fantasize about my wife with another man. However we both seem to be very hot on the following
- A big cock screwing my ass while I'm having sex with my wife.
- My wife screwing my ass with her strapon while i suck on a big cock
- My wife and i having sex and sucking a cock together and ultimately sharing the load ;)
- my wife watching as i put on a show for her and suck a cock.
- My wife screwing my ass with her huge strapon while an audience of men watches us and pleasures themselves possibly climaxing all over me ;)

It's never about a particular guy. It's really only about a big cock. The perfect cock in our minds. I don't find men attractive. I still am turned on by boobs like nothing else in this world. However visually I've also become more and more turned on by the site of large cocks and cumshots.

So my question is simple. Has this happened to anybody else? Has finding the right woman led anybody else to go from Big Boobs to Big Cocks in their fantasies?
 
If you like the sensation and you're open minded unlike some here, more power to you! I for one am glad you enjoy exploring. It's a great and healthy part of a relationship. Good for you!
 
Mr. Briggs said:
Hi. My sexual fantasies completely changed once i met my wife. Before I met my wife it was all about pussy. I'd fantasize about threesomes (mff), busty girls, hot asses, hot pussy. You name it.

Then I met my wife. She's the most amazing woman on the planet. When we first met we'd go out and there would be girls around that I knew and they would be very flirty and somewhat disrespectful to my wife (them being flirty knowing I was with her is just wrong). On top of that in our line of work we are exposed to beautiful women daily. Despite her being an absolutely beautiful woman I know she feels insecure at times. At first she was very protective. I think she didn't quite believe that i was 100% all hers (once she realised i was hers she became much less protective). We have no desire to be with anybody but each other however we definitely enjoy fantasizing.

When we started discussing fantasies it was very clear to me that she wasn't interested in anything that involved another woman with us. As time went by I realised the fantasies I had of Boobs, Ass and pussy added no spark in our bedroom. It was then that my fantasies started to change towards something that we could share. It went from Big Boobs to big cocks. I have no desire to see or fantasize about my wife with another man. However we both seem to be very hot on the following
- A big cock screwing my ass while I'm having sex with my wife.
- My wife screwing my ass with her strapon while i suck on a big cock
- My wife and i having sex and sucking a cock together and ultimately sharing the load ;)
- my wife watching as i put on a show for her and suck a cock.
- My wife screwing my ass with her huge strapon while an audience of men watches us and pleasures themselves possibly climaxing all over me ;)

It's never about a particular guy. It's really only about a big cock. The perfect cock in our minds. I don't find men attractive. I still am turned on by boobs like nothing else in this world. However visually I've also become more and more turned on by the site of large cocks and cumshots.

So my question is simple. Has this happened to anybody else? Has finding the right woman led anybody else to go from Big Boobs to Big Cocks in their fantasies?
2 words... PUSSY WHIPPED.
 
VermilionSkye said:
If you like the sensation and you're open minded unlike some here, more power to you! I for one am glad you enjoy exploring. It's a great and healthy part of a relationship. Good for you!


God I hate that...
 
Bohemian Blue said:
God I hate that...
what that someone is open minded enough to want to play that way? Why do you guys immediately have to jump in and say shit like "trained" and "gay" and "pussy whipped" because someone enjoys something like that?
 
VermilionSkye said:
what that someone is open minded enough to want to play that way? Why do you guys immediately have to jump in and say shit like "trained" and "gay" and "pussy whipped" because someone enjoys something like that?

I'm guessing they probably can't comprehend the connection two people can share. If you are able to connect and share the same fantasies with your SO I don't think it matters what the fantasies are. It's the connection that matters. I don't mind being called gay or pussy whipped. I know what I am and that's one lucky man ;)
 
VermilionSkye said:
...Why do you guys immediately have to jump in and say shit like "trained" and "gay" and "pussy whipped" because someone enjoys something like that?
It's a simple manifestation of insecurity, possibly also immaturity.
 
Mr. Briggs said:
I'm guessing they probably can't comprehend the connection two people can share. If you are able to connect and share the same fantasies with your SO I don't think it matters what the fantasies are. It's the connection that matters. I don't mind being called gay or pussy whipped. I know what I am and that's one lucky man ;)
I'm glad you think that way! :rose:
 
LukkyKnight said:
It's a simple manifestation of insecurity, possibly also immaturity.
my sentiments, exactly. As well as a dislike for women.
Myopic thinking if you ask me.
 
VermilionSkye said:
If you like the sensation and you're open minded unlike some here, more power to you! I for one am glad you enjoy exploring. It's a great and healthy part of a relationship. Good for you!

OK, let's explore, I'm up for it!
 
In my fantasies the cocks just keep getting bigger and bigger (and there are more and more of them too!)

I think it sounds like lots of fun!
 
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