Killishandra
Literotica Ghost
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- Mar 31, 2005
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Some friends of mine (who are active in BDSM) showed me this website and it's checklist earlier this year. I just went to update it and I thought I'd let those who've never heard of it know what it's about.
Basically, when you go to their website, you can compile a checklist of 200 BDSM interests, complete with ratings (Love it, like it, dislike it, hate it, never tried it, etc.) Everyone gets their own unique profile and member name, and if someone gives you theirs you can go look up what their interests and experiences are. You can even type in both names and see what your compatibility is (as far as interests) or get suggested scenes to try together, based on your compatibility as a top and bottom.
You can fill out all 200 questions at once, or go by mini-lists. If you do it, I suggest just doing it all at once, because there are some questions that are on the main list that aren't on the mini lists and eventually (if you want it to be complete) you have to click through ALL the pages to get to those few unanswered questions. But be warned: It takes around 45 minutes to fill out all 200 (or at least it did for me, originally.)
For those people who are still looking for their SO(s), this might be an easier way to answer when people ask you what your interests and experiences are. Give them this website, your user name, and make sure you've allowed "public viewing" when you join. Then they could fill out a profile and you could get their info too. Also, getting the suggested scenes could be a funny ice-breaker, or at least give you a topic for conversation.
It might be fun to post your member name here so we can tease and harrass each other. *angelic look* There are certain people here who's lists I would love to peek at, but I'm not sure if any of those people will take the time to fill it out. *shrug*
Can't say I have many interests checked off, since my experience is limited, but my name there is Killishandra of course. Now, somebody interesting please post their member name here so I can be nosy.
Soul's Haven
Basically, when you go to their website, you can compile a checklist of 200 BDSM interests, complete with ratings (Love it, like it, dislike it, hate it, never tried it, etc.) Everyone gets their own unique profile and member name, and if someone gives you theirs you can go look up what their interests and experiences are. You can even type in both names and see what your compatibility is (as far as interests) or get suggested scenes to try together, based on your compatibility as a top and bottom.
You can fill out all 200 questions at once, or go by mini-lists. If you do it, I suggest just doing it all at once, because there are some questions that are on the main list that aren't on the mini lists and eventually (if you want it to be complete) you have to click through ALL the pages to get to those few unanswered questions. But be warned: It takes around 45 minutes to fill out all 200 (or at least it did for me, originally.)
For those people who are still looking for their SO(s), this might be an easier way to answer when people ask you what your interests and experiences are. Give them this website, your user name, and make sure you've allowed "public viewing" when you join. Then they could fill out a profile and you could get their info too. Also, getting the suggested scenes could be a funny ice-breaker, or at least give you a topic for conversation.
It might be fun to post your member name here so we can tease and harrass each other. *angelic look* There are certain people here who's lists I would love to peek at, but I'm not sure if any of those people will take the time to fill it out. *shrug*
Can't say I have many interests checked off, since my experience is limited, but my name there is Killishandra of course. Now, somebody interesting please post their member name here so I can be nosy.
Soul's Haven
