If you had the chance, would you? Big girls?

This post is for the big girls. I'm putting the word R3SP3CT back in Voluptuous and to let all the bigger ladies know that it's perfectly fine to be a big girl in 2005. Fuck skinny. I'm all about the big sexy WOMEN.

I'm hoping perhaps sometime I will meet some women on here. I'm new here and I have a couple other posts. I thought I'd take a minute to describe myself. I'm 34, 6'0, 180lbs and pretty solid. Nice arms and a stomach like a rock and legs that can conform to any particular sexual position. I can pump, ladies.

I have to admit I do like the heavier ladies. Nothing wrong with that. It's society that is warped nowadays anyhow. Voluptuous use to be in, now whatever Hollywood says is in, is in. I call BULLSHIT. F Hollywood and their skinny rib exposed bimbo fakies. Give me a real woman.

I like a woman with a nice plump ass. Something you can grab. I like a woman that has a little bit of a belly. Every see a belly dancer? Tell me that ain't sexy and how would you be a belly dancer without a belly? I don't know. I also, like the other 3,302,323,469 men on this planet like a big set of boobs. That's a given, so I perhaps will not discuss that in detail.

I woman, especially a bigger girl must be treated in a certain way. They often feel left out, or self conscious, or feel that they just aren't how they should be. Well, ladies, that is bullshit. Also, there is one man here that will give you respect. Now I'm not just looking to meet some girls, I'm putting the word respect back into voluptuous here and describing things as how I see it.

I want all the big girls to rise up and be proud. It takes a strong woman to be big and be proud and ignore all of the worldly bullshit of what is right. You are you. You have to respect and accept yourself the way you are, because you are probably the only one that will. Well, besides me.

I get into a big girl. I worship big women. I like to feel their whole body, let them know they are to not be ashamed. Let them know that they aren't to be embarrassed, especially with me, as I will make love to every inch of you girl and make you realize how it is to be a real woman. I will suckle every inch of your body. There's nothing to be ashamed of. We're all made of the same stuff. Just some girls have a little more to offer than others. So be it.

Now as I said, I like to make a woman feel like a woman. Especially a big girl. They have to be treated in a certain way. Must be approached a little more delicately than your average girl. Big girls are sensitive, and very emotional. This is a blessing ladies. As once you open up to me, I will get you so wild. I will put you at ease and let you realize that it's ok to let go of all that fear and inhibition and let yourself go wild. Wild on me.

I will kiss you. I will kiss your lips softly, French kiss you like an expert. I will make you feel like a woman should feel. I will kiss your breasts, softly. Then suckle your nipples. I especially like to rub a big sexy lady down with baby oil.
I will show you what it is to be respected and what it feels like to be a woman. I will allow you to feel, to feel all of it. Uninhibited emotion, let loose.

Now if you can get a big girl into this position, to where she feels loved, you've got yourself a nice nice time ahead of you. Why, you ask? Caus big girls know how to fuck and they know how to cum. I've had big girls and I've had small girls. Big girls know how to fuck. Now I'm not dissing you ladies of a smaller size, not by any means. I love all women. I'm just showing the bigger girls some respect in this post, that's all. I really want to make some deserving sexy big girl feel like a woman. To not be ashamed. I'm the man that can make you feel real good baby. Really. Have you ever thought about what it would feel like to be fucked? Fucked properly, but a man that can go and go. I like to make to the ladies happy. I lose myself in the emotion that I am creating. I create an environment where all the shells of fear and inhibition fall away to allow a carnal desire to shine through.

I forget about myself when I'm in this mode. It's as if I move to another time and place. Totally lost in the passion I am creating for the woman. I am losing myself in the experience that I am creating for her. I forget about my selfish reptilian male desires. I can blow a load, anytime I want. However to create an experience like this for a woman. Well, that's what I'm after.

Now I'm not egotistical. I'm not Peter North. I'm just an average guy that knows how to properly treat a lady and how to properly treat the bigger girls. However, I'm not your average guy as well. I hate football and I don't sit on my ass all Saturday afternoon watching baseball while my bitch hands me beers. That's not how I operate. I am lust, passion, love and desire and a complete gentleman, all wrapped up into one package. I have learned how to control myself. I can wear you out if you want. Guaranteed. I can go for 2 hours, even more, nonstop without any fear of cumming. I am in complete control. I can take it easy on you, but I prefer to make love to you till your eyeballs roll in the back of your head. I live to make women orgasm. I can make it happen for you.

Now I want all of you girls to come out of the closet and tell me what you think about all of this. If you had the chance, would you?

The_Gentleman



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Hot damn!

Finally, a man on Lit is bold enough to say it and expound on it.

I, too, love women that are not all skin and bones. I've always been a fairly big guy (football-meets-teddybear build), and I guess I've always been afraid that I would break a skinny girl. I lost my virginity to a BBW who also lost hers to me, and she will always have a special place in my heart. I'm married now to a BBW who is insatiable, and orgasms bigger and louder than any woman I've ever been with.

I believe you hit the nail on the head, sir. And I'm right there alongside you saying, Yeah, big girls. Let your voices be heard.

I fully endorse the above two posts!!

OMG a guy that doesn't want a size 2!

Major support!!!

I am an 18Yo plus sized girl. I am in college and have forever have found it hard to find a lover. I left my 2 year boyfriend because he couldn't handle the fact that I got bigger. I am now a size 18 and have lovely 40DD's. I work out and tan and could never be more proud of myself. Thanks for the support.

I've always been extrememly petite and I must say that I've always found more voluptuous women very beautiful. It's very natural and soft.

I personally don't like the 'small' girls. To me they're just fake. I don't want to be with a pile of bones and worry about 'breaking her'. Seriously though I prefer a bit more of a larger woman. If she carries herself well and take care of herself, what's the big deal. Why do most men think they could never be with a larger than average woman. I tend to find them sexy, but I can be kinda picky as well

THE_GENTLEMAN said:

Now I want all of you girls to come out of the closet and tell me what you think about all of this. If you had the chance, would you?

The_Gentleman

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In a word, hell yes.

Pm me if you have any questions.

~hellbaby~ said:

I'm curious, what size is considered 'big'? I ask because I'm 5'8.5" and a lil less than 150lbs. not skinny,not fat; a lil belly but my height carries weight very well, size 10 clothes are roomy. I never thought of myself as a 'big' person but now I'm told I am, so is 'big' considered anything not a size six and skin and bones?Meaning no disrespect with this question.

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That would be what I like - not too big, not too small - everyone though has a different view on what would be 'too big'...to me that would be 300+, maybe a little more.

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Heck Yes.

THE_GENTLEMAN said:

Now I want all of you girls to come out of the closet and tell me what you think about all of this. If you had the chance, would you?

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I always hated the "meet & greet" with friends and friends of friends. When the mutual frind disappears the other person (man) present usually makes excuses and leaves soon after. The one guy who didn't, I'm currently having fun with in IM and e-mail that has gone on for about a year and a half off and on. Darn it all if he doesn't make me feel hot all over and ready to pop.

He's clear on the other side of the US from me so I wont be doing much directly with him... But I have to tell you, I'd really like to chance to have more from the relationship. <sigh> At least I feel very sexy.

Wow, that was the best, most insperationally erotic thing I have ever read. I am what is considered a bigger woman and I do feel the way you described most bigger women do. Which is sad.....it's not always about "fixing it" or what not.
I have respect for you, for writing this lengthy post, for expressing yourself, your views and your love of bigger women.
I also thank you, for making me smile and making me think that perhaps there is hope for me yet. *smile*

(And not to toot my own horn, but I also resemble your remark about "knowing how to fuck". If given half the chance, if ever I were to be made to feel special and loved by someone, they would see that I am indeed a wanton sex goddess that does everything and anything to please her man...to include, giving myself and my intense orgasms to him over and over again. When done properly, with the right person, with the right amount of emotion, I am left weeping, shaking and a total spasming mess *smile*. And my pussy locks on like a vice, only to relax and let go about ten to fifteen minutes later....*giggle*)

Again, I thank you for that wonderful, inspiring post........and my answer is......I would.

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sassylilthang said:

I am a big girl.....5'5" and about 220#'s. My answer first of all is yes! Second....I would love to find a man like you that really gets it! I have had some wonderful lovers that truly seemed to enjoy my body and the sex we had. It was wonderful....the thing that was missing was not necessarily respect, but options. Neither of these people could or would have made me there gf. Now, I am not sitting here crying over it...lol. I would just like to find the one man that would treat me like a princess, li ke many of my "little" friends seem to have on a reg basis. As for really knowing how to fuck....I have received numerous compliments from the men I have been with...mainly my oral abilities, but many have said how good I was in bed. ANd even though they may not have wanted me in there lives....they have come crawling back for more. Heehee! Thanks for a post that gave me a real boost hon when I really needed one. Keep em coming everone, I love to hear what you all have to say!

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I have to agree with your post sassy......im about the same size you are and i too have had those that have said how great i was in bed but yet they dont want to "date me"........they do come back, asking for more, begging for more, but generally im too pissed off to give them anymore...LOL. Have you found it to be or just me........lots of men want to fuck me but nobody wants to date me. kind of makes me wonder what is wrong with me.....anyway, keep your chin up......and this is for you

anyone who wants to fuck but not date and keep such gorgeous women in their lives is a fucking idiot!

thelovemaker said:

anyone who wants to fuck but not date and keep such gorgeous women in their lives is a fucking idiot!

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Amen! My best love was not a woman that is "skinny". She always treated me well, we had great sex, and she loved me with all of her heart. Too bad that I fucked it up. I just wish I had been mature enough to realize that I could maintain stable relationship. Don't get me wrong, I did not go for a skinny woman that came along. I just was too young to realize true love (from both sides).

Bill

sassylilthang said:

I am a big girl.....5'5" and about 220#'s. My answer first of all is yes! Second....I would love to find a man like you that really gets it! I have had some wonderful lovers that truly seemed to enjoy my body and the sex we had. It was wonderful....the thing that was missing was not necessarily respect, but options. Neither of these people could or would have made me there gf. Now, I am not sitting here crying over it...lol. I would just like to find the one man that would treat me like a princess, li ke many of my "little" friends seem to have on a reg basis. As for really knowing how to fuck....I have received numerous compliments from the men I have been with...mainly my oral abilities, but many have said how good I was in bed. ANd even though they may not have wanted me in there lives....they have come crawling back for more. Heehee! Thanks for a post that gave me a real boost hon when I really needed one. Keep em coming everone, I love to hear what you all have to say!

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I have to say that a big girl in my opinion can fuck like nobody else - I've had alot better sex with the big girls i've been with compared with the few small girls. They seem to just want to get fucked. They're like women say guys are - just wanna get off and then roll over to fall asleep. The big girls were more into it, they made it more interesting and were genuinely interested in pleasing me, in addition to letting me please them.

They seem to be so much better than skinny ones who think they know it all...nothing beats holding a big girl

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WOW! SO I'm fucking out of the closet!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BIG,PROUD,BOLD, AND BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I love a man that can hold his own; and say what you said. REAL men are secure in their own masuclinity enough to say what you said. GIRLS: WE ARE AMAZING CREATURES! Up till about 5 months ago; I was broken. Then little things in my life started happening to me. First, I became infinantly aware of the powerful sexual woman I AM......Second, I realized I deserve more then to be treated like a cook & clean......Souless, and abandoned. I didn't start out that way; and at 32 won't let myself live this way forever!!!!!!!!
Its beauty of the spirit, which we ALL have in abundance. First off; sex/fucking is fleeting. GET INTO ANY WOMANS MIND, and you'll be amazed at her RAW emotional and physical POWER. Now some people on this board may not agree in my directness.....My "IN YOUR FUCKING FACE SO DEAL WITH IT" attitude. But ladies I can't stand hearing another woman say,"HE DOESN"T LOVE ME CAUSE I'M FAT". you know what? FUCK HIM!!!!!!!!!!! Go on down to Nawlins. Those Southern Boys,(And main boys too I hear) love us..........Apsolutely. 100% hot. I haven't found the man who wants to dig into my brain yet, but I will. AND WHEN I DO........Step back!!!!!!!!!!!Cause no more games; BABY'S BACK!!!!!!!!!!!! AND ITS HER RULES NOW........Girls your worth the same.


LOVE AND RESPECT TO ALL US PLUS SIZE BEAUTIES>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

MS. BETHANY

Seshena said:

I have to agree with your post sassy......im about the same size you are and i too have had those that have said how great i was in bed but yet they dont want to "date me"........they do come back, asking for more, begging for more, but generally im too pissed off to give them anymore...LOL. Have you found it to be or just me........lots of men want to fuck me but nobody wants to date me. kind of makes me wonder what is wrong with me.....anyway, keep your chin up......and this is for you

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Hi there hon...thanks for the post. SOrry your road had not been easy. Breaks my heart cause you seem like a sweetie....and I can tell that just from one post. Good for you though, not giving into the man's wants and needs after not treating you right. Too often I have been weak and let them come back thinking things will change. NOthing ever does, and then i am just heartbroken again. One guy was the worst, he got my heart involved by calling lots and really getting to know me, even met the fam. He said that he cared about me and if we had been closer he would have wanted to be with me. I guess part of me thinks that is just waht sounded good at the time. I was always counselor to him about his ex gf....teh 5'6" 115# beauty......and how he would never again meet someoen so wonderful, though she treated him like shit. He would never find someone perfect, the combo of beauty and personality. It made me feel bad. Real bad cause as I am falling, he is still looking, hurts to know you will never be enough for someone, to hear them say that it is important to them to have someone on there arm they can be proud of. There is nothing wrong with you hon....took me a long time to see it. But now I know it is not me, and they are truely missing out on a good thing. You will find a guy who knows that personality is truely the tip of the iceberg and that character is the base that supports the iceberg. I heard that on tv, and it just clicked for me. Keep your chin up too hon.....and he will come. Tell the others to FU and do not ever settle hon....never ever ever. Kisses and hugs to you gorgeous. FInd me if you wanna compare battle scars!

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sassylilthang said:

Glad you had such good experiences hon...but us big gals still liek to be cuddled and made to feel special too! Sometimes we just do not know to ask for it or are afraid because lots of us have had such bad experiences with men that were real assholes. The best thing a guy did for me one time was when I did roll over to nod off, cause I did not think he would deem me worht a cuddle, he took time for me. He kissed and licked and sucked my back neck and shoulders and told me that next time he would massage me, get some oils ot make it special. I was floored adn amazed and felt so taken care of and loved....because of that he got totally manhandled! LOL....it was awesome sexually, but the emotion of bieng cared for and protected is what stays with me.

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ok I'll come climb into your bed and cuddle you, then I'll manhandle you and cuddle you some more heheh

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sassylilthang said:

Yes please is all I can say to that! Manhandle each other and then some!

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ok i'll be ther ein a moment, get ready heheh