size of the wave, or motion of the ocean?
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If he has the size, but doesnt know what to do with it, then what good is he?
If he knows what to do, but it aint big enough to feel, then thats no good either.
I would like a combination of both.
If he knows what to do, but it aint big enough to feel, then thats no good either.
I would like a combination of both.
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i mean whats better...the size of the package or how well he uses it.
lets say hes big and hes ok at sex as compared to being ok in size and great at sex.
is it about size? can the penis ever be too big? could your hole be streched so wide it wont matter what the hell hes doing? could he be so great at everything until he enters you and the motion feels better than the actual stimulation?
lets say hes big and hes ok at sex as compared to being ok in size and great at sex.
is it about size? can the penis ever be too big? could your hole be streched so wide it wont matter what the hell hes doing? could he be so great at everything until he enters you and the motion feels better than the actual stimulation?
apexpark said:
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How well he uses it is what matters. As long as I can feel him inside me, then it's all good.
I would rather have a man who had me dripping and begging before we even got to the bedroom, as opposed to a man who thought his tool alone was going to do wonders to renovate my insides.
Is it about size? Nope.
Can the penis be too big? Technically? Yeah, for me. I've had one that was WAY too big. The trick is, again, in knowing HOW to use it. For a man who knows how to use it, it doesn't matter how big it is.
Can I be stretched so wide that I don't care what he's doing? If that were the case, I would be happy to fuck a large vegetable, and to hell with a man, right? "What he's doing" is the whole point of sex, not a cock simply sliding in and out of an orifice. It's all about him. ALL of him.
I don't get the last part of your question. I know that if a man is hot enough to stimulate my mind, my heart, and my body, the size of his cock is the LEAST of my worries.
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Ok look - big ones are great to look at, right? Like an ice cream cone with three scoops piled up on it looks way more tantalizing than one with a mere single. As a species, we humans love BIG things - dinosaurs, stepped pyramids, monster trucks.
But in reality, real life, as we actually live it - size is not entirely relevant. Some guys with big dicks expect a girl to be just so flat out amazed and enthralled at the sight of his manly protuberance, they figure they don't actually have to 'do' much. Or they bang away at your cervix like it's the keep of a medieval castle (which is, in case you are not aware, not at all pleasant).
So what I'm saying, then, is: motion.
But in reality, real life, as we actually live it - size is not entirely relevant. Some guys with big dicks expect a girl to be just so flat out amazed and enthralled at the sight of his manly protuberance, they figure they don't actually have to 'do' much. Or they bang away at your cervix like it's the keep of a medieval castle (which is, in case you are not aware, not at all pleasant).
So what I'm saying, then, is: motion.
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no actually i have a pretty big penis, people compliment me when i strip. im not so flattered though, i think its gross. like its so big and veiny and ugly. i just want a normal veinless one. and im not self conscience at all, no reason really...i consider myself a virgin, ive done it once, years ago and decided not to again until i find the right person. i might actually be "losing it" soon.
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It's definitely the motion . I once dated someone who was in all honesty , not bigger than 2-3 inches ..but mmmmm he used it well. And I have dated a guy or two that were at least nine , one was quick to finish ,left nothing for me to enjoy. And the other was clumsy , rough and was just caveman like in his use of it . Both sucked.
Just take your time sweetness , and explore and enjoy what you have with the person you care about. If you're wanting to brush up on technique , then that's who to do it with . Just have fun , ask questions . Size or not , it's all in how you use it. Learn to use it well .
Just take your time sweetness , and explore and enjoy what you have with the person you care about. If you're wanting to brush up on technique , then that's who to do it with . Just have fun , ask questions . Size or not , it's all in how you use it. Learn to use it well .
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lovetoread said:
Perfectly said.
Though I did have one guy that was huge but was so good I cried. Good times...
vixenshe said:
You have to answer it until you die, especially on a forum like this. I'm above average but before I lost my virginity I always thought I was small so I studied my ass off and asked girls all kinds of questions about sex. So, because I thought I was small I was determined to learn how to use it then I was told I was big so I ended up with the best of both worlds, the knowledge and the tool. Most women will say size doesn't matter though. In all honestly, if you can touch that g-spot during intercourse size will never be an issue. Also learn how to control yourself, the more sex you get the more control you'll have over your ejaculation and if you can hit the g-spot and go for a while you'll rock her world over and over and over and over again....
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apexpark said:
This post makes no sense at all. You say your penis is 'gross', big and veiny and ugly', and then in the next sentence claim to not be at all self conscious about it. Hello??????? And what is this 'people compliment me on it when i (sic) strip' business? Do you randomly wander about shedding clothes, and folks gasp "Say, Joe, that's some mighty fine big dick you got there, son"?
What are you playin at, pally?
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sheath said:LMAO!
Damn, peachy, you know how to get to the heart of the matter.
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Quote from a book I read recently:
"Best way to get to a man's heart? 6 inches of steel between his ribs. Sure, I could probably punch thru to most guys with 4, but as I am such a petite little girl, I prefer to take 6 and be sure."
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im sorry, when i explain things i just think that everyone knows what im talking about and i leave points out.
but i meant i wouldnt be self conscience because im not with someone right now, i still think that it looks gross though. and whenever me and my friends get drunk someone always dares me to strip for everyone so i end up doing it.
any more confusion?
but i meant i wouldnt be self conscience because im not with someone right now, i still think that it looks gross though. and whenever me and my friends get drunk someone always dares me to strip for everyone so i end up doing it.
any more confusion?
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apexpark said:
You know...I just don't even know where to go with this.
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dizzy said:
I agree, before I really started getting into it, I thought I had a wee weiner too, so I studied, and I still do. I have books on sex, my friends are used to me constantly asking them (girl friends I mean....) about positions, what they like, etc etc.
Although I do think a big dick provides a certain cushion. If you have a big dick and no skill, the girl can always throw you down and use you as a big dildo, and the bigger the dick, the less skill needed. If you're small, you need lots of skill to rock her world, whereas if you're big, you need less skill, since you have more raw material to work with.
(trying to get the thread back on track....)
Melesse
This may be another one of "those" threads but it still needs to be talked about because if a guy has a small one it could present several psychological problems in the future (if it hasn't already). There are a lot of people with a lot of knowledge on this board, all you have to do is dig. A good thread for any guy is "Try This & Report Back" in this same section. If you have a talented mouth and the knowledge to use it right as well as knowledge of the g-spot and how to use that then it doesn't matter how small you are because you will always please your woman.
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Oh yes, it helps if you have a creative romantic mind too. 3/4 of my game is getting into the womans head, in a good way. When your on a date you need to set the tone early. Every place you goto has a differen't mood to it. You can't change the feel of a place unless its your own place so make sure you pick the right places to take a lady. One of my favorite things to do is make a cd of slow dance songs before the date. Take her out to eat and/or a movie somewhere then drive to a dark spot of sky where you can see a lot of stars. Put the cd into your cd player, turn off all the lights then ask her to dance.
Dizzy
p.s. i know this post is kind of off-topic but i wanted to point out that for any guy, big or small, there is more than just the actual fucking part, there is the rest of it that one needs to pay particular attention to in order to ultimately be successful in bed.
Dizzy
p.s. i know this post is kind of off-topic but i wanted to point out that for any guy, big or small, there is more than just the actual fucking part, there is the rest of it that one needs to pay particular attention to in order to ultimately be successful in bed.
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sheath said:I had to read it twice, but I was finally able to follow that.
Welcome to lit.
S.
Thanks, sometimes my thoughts come out faster then I can type them.
I also had another thought, wouldn't you have to have a certain minimum length to reach the G-Spot? Not that you can't have enjoyable sex with less then that length, it's just unfortunate.
I got along for a couple years on size alone. While I was interested in learning, I was very shy about asking many things. Now that I'm in a long term relationship, things have been veeeeery different lol.
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sheath said:In answer...
How well he uses it is what matters. As long as I can feel him inside me, then it's all good.
I would rather have a man who had me dripping and begging before we even got to the bedroom, as opposed to a man who thought his tool alone was going to do wonders to renovate my insides.
Is it about size? Nope.
I don't get the last part of your question. I know that if a man is hot enough to stimulate my mind, my heart, and my body, the size of his cock is the LEAST of my worries.
S.
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