catalina_francisco
Happily insatiable always
- Joined
- Jul 29, 2002
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I have seen and known many online dominants that have moved from online into RL without major issues. The key here is to be realistic in what you can expect. Online Dominance has a very different approach than RL but it is not less valid as a BDSM expression. The best thing an online dominant can do when he moves into RL is to go to a local group and attend their munches and workshops.
We RL people have a tendency to think of us as better than OL, yes there are some big jokes online, but I have also seen many big jokes that called themselves dominant in RL. Online is just another expression of BDSM and they deserve as much respect as Real lifers do.
Much of the interest and growth we have had in real life has to do with the explosive growth of online BDSM, both practitioners and resources. Without the Onliners we would not have BDSM Talk or BDSM Café both of which are an online expression of BDSM. Some of us think of ourselves as writers and write BDSM stories… well most of your readers will be Onliners.
The majority of the BDSM culture is online, there are forums, agendas, and complete communities that meet and keep in touch online. The first point of entry for many of the BDSM interested persons is online forums such as Literotica.
I welcome anyone who is interested in BDSM and wants to exchange ideas and experiences out of whatever side of BDSM they come.
Francisco.
We RL people have a tendency to think of us as better than OL, yes there are some big jokes online, but I have also seen many big jokes that called themselves dominant in RL. Online is just another expression of BDSM and they deserve as much respect as Real lifers do.
Much of the interest and growth we have had in real life has to do with the explosive growth of online BDSM, both practitioners and resources. Without the Onliners we would not have BDSM Talk or BDSM Café both of which are an online expression of BDSM. Some of us think of ourselves as writers and write BDSM stories… well most of your readers will be Onliners.
The majority of the BDSM culture is online, there are forums, agendas, and complete communities that meet and keep in touch online. The first point of entry for many of the BDSM interested persons is online forums such as Literotica.
I welcome anyone who is interested in BDSM and wants to exchange ideas and experiences out of whatever side of BDSM they come.
Francisco.