Dear safe Litster,
May I just say, from one Lit goddess to another, I adore your profile pic!! That top is gorgeous, and you wear it very well indeed.
In awe Litster
Dear Sassy...
Sorry you are hurting...But be proud of the kind of friend you are...that kind is rare...HUG
But I really want her to know that she has given me a true honest to god moment of self introspection. So here goes...
I'm trying but I can't find her. Lol. And I'm afraid that any comment I make will be lost in the midst of other comments and she won't see it.
Dear Goddess Litster,
I saw your AV and it was absolutely breathtaking. Blew my mind and has sparked something in me. I have discounted a lot of when people tell me they like my body because being plus size has always been something I struggled with. It has been a struggle just for me to accept it and be happy but I never reached the point where I thought anyone could look at it and see beauty. I honestly thought that the best I could do was reach a level of acceptance.
Seeing your AV, my first thought was "holy fuck balls that's gorgeous!". Then I really looked at it and thought "shit she looks like me!" Lol. For the first time ever, I realize that maybe just maybe what someone else sees in me, is what I saw in your picture.
Crazy to think that at my age, I am only just now, today, recognizing that self love isn't just accepting your body (at whatever size) but it's about finding the beauty of it.
So thank you. Thank you so much! (I really really hope you see this!)
signed,
a very grateful Litster
You know that's a rather well articulated comment as to how a lister's AV pic provided you with a transformative change in how you also now perceive yourself. So while you recognize the beauty in the AV you are raving about you can also see your own beauty now through different eyes. So yeah, Deal Lister. Keep appreciating you and call this all a win!!!
I'm trying but I can't find her. Lol. And I'm afraid that any comment I make will be lost in the midst of other comments and she won't see it.
Dear Goddess Litster,
I saw your AV and it was absolutely breathtaking. Blew my mind and has sparked something in me. I have discounted a lot of when people tell me they like my body because being plus size has always been something I struggled with. It has been a struggle just for me to accept it and be happy but I never reached the point where I thought anyone could look at it and see beauty. I honestly thought that the best I could do was reach a level of acceptance.
Seeing your AV, my first thought was "holy fuck balls that's gorgeous!". Then I really looked at it and thought "shit she looks like me!" Lol. For the first time ever, I realize that maybe just maybe what someone else sees in me, is what I saw in your picture.
Crazy to think that at my age, I am only just now, today, recognizing that self love isn't just accepting your body (at whatever size) but it's about finding the beauty of it.
So thank you. Thank you so much! (I really really hope you see this!)
signed,
a very grateful Litster
It's for you....wholeheartedly.
Dear Litster,
Is it presumptive of me to thank you for a compliment that might not have been directed at me?
Signed,
More than a little fluffy
Dear Litster,
Is it presumptive of me to thank you for a compliment that might not have been directed at me?
Signed,
More than a little fluffy
Dear Litster,
Is it presumptive of me to thank you for a compliment that might not have been directed at me?
Signed,
More than a little fluffy
Dear Freudian Litster...
Dear Bendy,
just to make sure you're ok.
Dear Fawning But (thank God) not Fingering..lol
Yanno? I think my work here is done. I have been singled out twice now in just a few days by you beautiful women, tossing accolades my way, and I'm humbled.
I will always struggle with acceptance of my body habitus.
Media, photoshopping, dumb fuck commentary, etc.. hell even "plus size" models aren't exactly representative of what "plus size" can be. So, it's an everyday struggle.
To look and see my fat skirt..
To know I can hold shit securely under my boobs without fear of it falling down...
To deal with heat rash, thigh rubbing, etc...
The stretch marks from PUBERTY, not to mention those from two glorious pregnancies when I sported a frame that could rival the broad side of a barn..
A husband who was too ashamed to eat with me in public because it looked like I'd already had enough...
Then you've got the ass whacks online who think that posting their sexual preference towards "no one 30+lbs overweight " is somehow euphamized by the notion that they're simply stating their preference, and fail to see how hurtful their *ahem* honesty is..
I get it, but I'm sure the penile-challenged aren't any more appreciative of a size Queen's honesty about his wee willy than a robust woman is endeared toward being called fat by a man she might be attracted to.
It takes work, but the fact that my actions can have such a profound impact on others is rewarding. I'm thrilled my IDGAF attitude can be viewed in a positive light and give courage to others.
Thank you, again, for the compliments. I'll tuck them away in one of these rolls for safe keeping.
Signed,
Humbled, but never speechless
Dear Fawning But (thank God) not Fingering..lol
Yanno? I think my work here is done. I have been singled out twice now in just a few days by you beautiful women, tossing accolades my way, and I'm humbled.
I will always struggle with acceptance of my body habitus.
Media, photoshopping, dumb fuck commentary, etc.. hell even "plus size" models aren't exactly representative of what "plus size" can be. So, it's an everyday struggle.
To look and see my fat skirt..
To know I can hold shit securely under my boobs without fear of it falling down...
To deal with heat rash, thigh rubbing, etc...
The stretch marks from PUBERTY, not to mention those from two glorious pregnancies when I sported a frame that could rival the broad side of a barn..
A husband who was too ashamed to eat with me in public because it looked like I'd already had enough...
Then you've got the ass whacks online who think that posting their sexual preference towards "no one 30+lbs overweight " is somehow euphamized by the notion that they're simply stating their preference, and fail to see how hurtful their *ahem* honesty is..
I get it, but I'm sure the penile-challenged aren't any more appreciative of a size Queen's honesty about his wee willy than a robust woman is endeared toward being called fat by a man she might be attracted to.
It takes work, but the fact that my actions can have such a profound impact on others is rewarding. I'm thrilled my IDGAF attitude can be viewed in a positive light and give courage to others.
Thank you, again, for the compliments. I'll tuck them away in one of these rolls for safe keeping.
Signed,
Humbled, but never speechless
