I thought I would just put a little reminder for everyone here, having had my eyes opened to what I have been doing to my current relationship. I was looking for ways to sort out some issues here rather than with the one who matters most - my partner!
My partner and I have been together for a little over 3 years. We have had our ups and our downs throughout that time, but the downs have almost always revolved around a lack of physical connection. In turn, that lack of connection was stuffing up everything else to varying degrees.
She knows who she is, and she has been very accepting of some recent revelations regarding what I like and don't like. I was too afraid to talk to her about a lot of those things and felt embarrassed about them. Ironically, by chatting to people here about them instead, things became even more internalised and were even harder to talk about. As it turns out, my concerns were unfounded (she was shocked, but far from revolted as I thought she might have been). Part of it was just because she is an accepting person, and the other part is that she is a sexy, kinky, horny minx who loves adventurous games and being close to me and what gets US off.
There will be people on this site like me who took the easy, somewhat selfish option more than once and got tangled up with things online. For those in that situation, I would suggest you talk to your partners sooner than later. I caused my partner a fair bit of heartache by handling things the wrong way, BUT now that she and I have talked, we look forward to using this place together to make things more fun for us both...
And "S", what we did last night was wonderful...
Love M.
My partner and I have been together for a little over 3 years. We have had our ups and our downs throughout that time, but the downs have almost always revolved around a lack of physical connection. In turn, that lack of connection was stuffing up everything else to varying degrees.
She knows who she is, and she has been very accepting of some recent revelations regarding what I like and don't like. I was too afraid to talk to her about a lot of those things and felt embarrassed about them. Ironically, by chatting to people here about them instead, things became even more internalised and were even harder to talk about. As it turns out, my concerns were unfounded (she was shocked, but far from revolted as I thought she might have been). Part of it was just because she is an accepting person, and the other part is that she is a sexy, kinky, horny minx who loves adventurous games and being close to me and what gets US off.
There will be people on this site like me who took the easy, somewhat selfish option more than once and got tangled up with things online. For those in that situation, I would suggest you talk to your partners sooner than later. I caused my partner a fair bit of heartache by handling things the wrong way, BUT now that she and I have talked, we look forward to using this place together to make things more fun for us both...
And "S", what we did last night was wonderful...
Love M.
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