I know I will regret this..................

Shankara20 said:
I love to show off my tats - and it feels great to see someone looking at the ones they can see. Many people I know would welcome the question "mind if I look at your artwork?"

Ohhh do I hear music !!!

Dude your back. Ohhh yes please Mr Shankara can we see more of you tats :D
BTW hows the nipples doing ?
 
I too have long been fascinated by feudal Japan and the Geisha. It just pulls me. I loved the book the movie is based on but I am afraid to see the movie. I've heard bad things about it. I'm worried it will piss me off. As usual, I will wait until it's free at the library.

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
I too have long been fascinated by feudal Japan and the Geisha. It just pulls me. I loved the book the movie is based on but I am afraid to see the movie. I've heard bad things about it. I'm worried it will piss me off. As usual, I will wait until it's free at the library.

Fury :rose:

Morning :rose: Miss Fury :rose:

I am with you I am waiting untill its released on DVD here . I know Mr Pathfinder has seen it maybe if I ask really nicely he might give it a review here for us. I have had this article below for awhile now, wish I could credit where I pilfered it from originally :eek: . Anyway you might enjoy it .
love and hugs
@}-}rebecca----

Rediscovering and Modernizing The Geisha : New Submissive Perspectives In Contemporary BDSM

The geisha is a potential site for exploration and experimentation in the world of BDSM today. As the world undergoes a shrinkage, globalization allows cultural crossovers; this not only pervades into the economic world, it also diversifies sensual experience. Currently, the majority of "roles" that submissives play are of Western conception and development. Let us go then, you and I (ooops, shades of Eliot), go through a brief range of some mainstream submissive stereotypes. There is the repentant, who undergoes redemption under pain. The one who misbehaves intentionally in order to invite discipline - a discipline that is associated with sexual pleasure. The passive one lets the other party take full control in all aspects. There are numerous types.

Shy, bold, sensuous, chaste, blatant, secretive - there is a whole gamut of classifications we can ascribe to submissive individuals. Often, these subscriptions shift, altering and developing the sub as he/she matures and learns. Sometimes, too, they remain constant to a particular image as every individual finds an apt image and aligns herself with it (I will use the female gender in place, as a collective for ALL subs)

There is no need to return to the issues of the power exchange, yet a reiteration is vital. The transfers of power in bdsm situations occur, ranging from casual contact (within a D/S context) to a slave collaring. It is a mark of trust, a rescinding of a submissibe's right over the self up to a degree specified by mutual contract, be it written, verbal or silent, to the dominant.

This brings us to the concept of the geisha submissive. Cultural studies have indicated that ths private, highly rigid yet highly exotic sorrority is considered one of the most distinguishing characteristics of Japanese culture. Ethnic snobbery, though, is undercut by documentations of the existence of similar feminine roles of the kisaeng of Korea and the xiaoshu of China. The conception of a subculture of women comes from feusal times, this particular version unique to the Orient. The members of this sisterhood exist not only to serve men (as superiors), they also incorporate a regime of self-discipline into their lives.

The power transfer is symbolic in denoting and defining who is the sub, who is the dom. Feminism and individual rights are a way of life, most prominently in the West. THe role of the geisha falls under attack as they lack the self-distinguishing features of such mainstream trends. However, the geisha invites a different discourse in the world of BDSM. AFter the power exchange, the geisha loses her authority, but experiences empowerment. She becomes elevated, as the fundamental decision to serve is made by her. (crappy sentence)

The aspect of taming, wooing, and consciously tempting does not exist on the geisha's part. She is meant to be seductive without seeming to be seductive. The most important aspect of geisha activities centre around serving and entertaining - cultural geishas sing, converse, etc. It should be noted that the traditional geisha did NOT have sex with their patrons. These other duties were reserved for the occupants of the brothels. As we transcend these roles into D/S, modifications are needed in order to fulfill certain connotative requirements. This is where the geisha undergoes modernization to accomodate both the needs of the dominant and the submissive.

Therefore, in this chosen lifestyle, geishas may be of any sex, serving any sex. Each D/S contract permits different levels of freedom for this, in terms of what to do, how far to go. BDSM is sexual in its roots, therefore the largest modification of a traditional feminine figure, of course, lies in the transfer from the realm of the social to the sexual. Sexual relations between the geisha and her dom/domme, therefore, are of vital importance to the operation of this role. However, this is not a constant necessity in a relationshipt as the primary function of a geisha is to serve, not to service.

The basis of this type of treatment towards the dominant lies in the submissive initiative. This is an area, which remains unexplored to its full potential, if not sadly neglected as well. A geisha's performance rises to its full potential in a serious, intense D/S relationship. Both parties share an unspoken bond in which one can almost second guess the other's thoughts. From association and gradual familiarity, she meets her Master's/Mistress' needs almost before He/She anticipates them.

In casual D/S play, however, this role is faced with many limits. A rapport is needed for personalized service. This does not deter from simple things, such as serving food, massages, etc etc. Feeding by hand is a particularly delightful experience for both the dom and sub. The approval that is given by the dom is unlike any other that has been given before, likewise, the approval received by the geisha is an experience in itself.

A geisha may be flirtatious or outspoken, but she is never assertive in sex. Taking charge is paradoxical to the connotations of her name. Blatant exposure, rough and ready antics have no place in this realm of sexual discourse. Instead, the geisha operates on a level of one that undresses with modesty, in fact, does everything with delicacy. We speak of silk screens, disrobing with blushes. This mood may be hard to emulate, but we are concerned with the role of the player, not the player itself. Pillowing is taken over by the dominant's initiative, hence, this aspect depends purely on his decision to copulate/ whatever.

Sadomasochism does not play a strong role in this type of relationship, although it can be added according to individual tastes. The emphasis faithfully remains on submissive service. THere are many parts to this role that resists sexualization. But one must remember that BDSM is not only about sex. To be a good geisha does not take constant horniness, the crux of the role lies in constant self-discipline. The emulation of this role, too is impossible to achieve 24/7/365. Ther are too many constraints and demands from the outside world to permit constant exploration.

GEisha submission, therefore, is done through forays, experiments, not on a lifestyle basis. This paper confronts the tip of the iceberg, and hopefully "practical research" (har har) in this new submissive field will yield new discoveries.

END

Afternote: on the practicality of geishas. The best effect is achieved by role playing (on the sub's part) done gradually and in moderation. It is the subtlety of the role that is the engine of the consciousness of the power exchange, not immediate blatant role playing (which comes across as fake). For a more cultural taste, robes are difficult to find and expensive, so substitutes are a good choice. Sushi tastes as good as it looks (assuming you have no allergies to raw meat). Sake is an acquired taste.
 
That was an interesting article! I have many robes! I don't eat meat or fish but I have found some sushi I do like. I happen to really LOVE sake!

Oh! This yesterday, I got to try bubble tea in RL! That's from the Chinese culture, of course.

Fury :rose:
 
@}-}rebecca---- said:
WOO HOOOO submissive sake Party ............calls Alice and Jade...who else can we drag in :rose: Miss Fury :rose: :D ?

I can't drink if I'm not eating! LOL! We need some hot men with sharp knives cooking for us!!!

Fury :rose:
 
@}-}rebecca---- said:
Ohhh do I hear music !!!

Dude your back. Ohhh yes please Mr Shankara can we see more of you tats :D
BTW hows the nipples doing ?
This is me - more or less. This was several years ago. I no longer have the chin hair, I have a new tat on my left leg (to be shown later) and my nipples are now pierced. I will give some close up photos and tell the story about what is going on around my body in there is interest.

The nipplels are doing very well, thanks for asking.


http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f367/Shankara20/me/tats/me.jpg
 
Wow!

Nice art!

You have an intense expression on your face too! What were you thinking about?

Hey! You're covering up the goods. You aren't getting all shy on us are ya?

Fury :rose:
 
Shankara20 said:
This is me - more or less. This was several years ago. I no longer have the chin hair, I have a new tat on my left leg (to be shown later) and my nipples are now pierced. I will give some close up photos and tell the story about what is going on around my body in there is interest.

The nipplels are doing very well, thanks for asking.


http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f367/Shankara20/me/tats/me.jpg

Ohhh Shankara thank you for being so generous and sharing the picture with us.
The sword tattoo looks interesting as well. I was brought up to be intimidated by people with tattoos but I find them really intriguing on so many levels. Decorative, personal expression, providence of choice more of a visual feast to my eyes now.

My son and I had henna temporary tattoos done in Maui a few years ago. I remember the guys hand shook really badly as he did them but they were exquisite for what they were. Perhaps its because of what we chose, i had a Celtic band on my left wrist. He had a oriental style turtle on his lil shoulder blade........awwww. Raving again I must be tired today.

Hijack away here if you would like to Shankara with your new pictures etc. I am sure there will be many people interested as much as I know I am. Or set up a new Thread 'home' but please remember you are so welcome here .....smiles.......kind regards @}-}rebecca----
 
@}-}rebecca---- said:
Okay here is the list for you :rose: Miss Fury :rose:
Fury Vegan Japanese Food Link

:cool: Now you get the Dom/mes with knives :D


Ooh! Will the Dom/mes light a "volcano" on my tummy? *grins* Thanks for the link!

*Goes to check out link and have food fantasies. *

I dunno what my husband is cooking but dayum, it smells devine!

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
Wow!

Nice art!

You have an intense expression on your face too! What were you thinking about?

Hey! You're covering up the goods. You aren't getting all shy on us are ya?

Fury :rose:
Why no, I'm not shy at all - it's just the Lit rules and I NEVER NEVER push limits :cool:

unless asked, errr, begged
 
Shankara20 said:
Why no, I'm not shy at all - it's just the Lit rules and I NEVER NEVER push limits :cool:

unless asked, errr, begged

Riiiiight! :kiss:

I know you'd never, ever do that !

LOL.

Aww, I have to go eat now but I'll be back!

*winks*

Fury :rose:
 
@}-}rebecca---- said:
Ohhh Shankara thank you for being so generous and sharing the picture with us.
The sword tattoo looks interesting as well. I was brought up to be intimidated by people with tattoos but I find them really intriguing on so many levels. Decorative, personal expression, providence of choice more of a visual feast to my eyes now.

My son and I had henna temporary tattoos done in Maui a few years ago. I remember the guys hand shook really badly as he did them but they were exquisite for what they were. Perhaps its because of what we chose, i had a Celtic band on my left wrist. He had a oriental style turtle on his lil shoulder blade........awwww. Raving again I must be tired today.

Hijack away here if you would like to Shankara with your new pictures etc. I am sure there will be many people interested as much as I know I am. Or set up a new Thread 'home' but please remember you are so welcome here .....smiles.......kind regards @}-}rebecca----
I'll hang around here with these, thanks for the invite. Please don't stop working out the party plans.

I'll get a better pic of the sword in a few days.

This is my back side. Idexa, the woman who did this body tat, asked how far down my butt she could go with the root of the vines tat and I let her set the limit - ouch!!

http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f367/Shankara20/me/tats/back.jpg
 
Shankara20 said:
I'll hang around here with these, thanks for the invite. Please don't stop working out the party plans.

I'll get a better pic of the sword in a few days.

This is my back side. Idexa, the woman who did this body tat, asked how far down my butt she could go with the root of the vines tat and I let her set the limit - ouch!!

http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f367/Shankara20/me/tats/back.jpg

Think I am going to go have a snooze (midday here, I know kind of appalling huh) soooooo not sleeping well currently and its so humid today. Hmmmn I got the giggles at your last comment Shankara "asked how far down my butt she could go with the root of the vines tat and I let her set the limit - ouch!! " . Now bare with me please but somehow reading that and seeing the vines on your skin made me think of having a kind of 'snakes and ladders' type tattoo directed to and away from varying erogenous zones on the body........laughs. Have I lost the plot ? Could have hot and cold dice as well.....oh my :eek: . Ahhhh me go sleepy for awhile now think about the party as well.........smiles :rose:
 
@}-}rebecca---- said:
Think I am going to go have a snooze (midday here, I know kind of appalling huh) soooooo not sleeping well currently and its so humid today. Hmmmn I got the giggles at your last comment Shankara "asked how far down my butt she could go with the root of the vines tat and I let her set the limit - ouch!! " . Now bare with me please but somehow reading that and seeing the vines on your skin made me think of having a kind of 'snakes and ladders' type tattoo directed to and away from varying erogenous zones on the body........laughs. Have I lost the plot ? Could have hot and cold dice as well.....oh my :eek: . Ahhhh me go sleepy for awhile now think about the party as well.........smiles :rose:

"of having a kind of 'snakes and ladders' type tattoo directed to and away from varying erogenous zones on the body........laughs"

sounds cool to me - when do we get to see it? :D :D


This is the first past of the body tat I had done - as you can see it is fire on my pubic mound - the fire of passion. You can also see the very start of what will become the vines - the growth that can come from passion...

have a good rest - the tour of my body can resume at your request...


http://i51.photobucket.com/albums/f367/Shankara20/me/tats/fire.jpg
 
Hell on Earth ?

I have chosen to delete this post and may explain later .
kind regards
@}-}rebecca----​
 
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@}-}rebecca---- said:
WOO HOOOO submissive sake Party ............calls Alice and Jade...who else can we drag in :rose: Miss Fury :rose: :D ?

Holy crap, I'm missing the sake party with japanese food? How the hell'd I miss that notice?! :D
 
jadefirefly said:
Woohoo!!! :D

I'll trade you my avocado rolls and anything ginger for something... oh... without avocado? :D

*shakes head*

Girl you better at least try it! Then I'll trade you! You might be surprised!!! (My husband HATES avocado but he loved these!)

Fury :rose:
 
FurryFury said:
*shakes head*

Girl you better at least try it! Then I'll trade you! You might be surprised!!! (My husband HATES avocado but he loved these!)

Fury :rose:

I dunno.

It's.... green. And sorta slimy. And... green. :p
 
looks up at her friends....laughs

hmmn .......party was a week off but hey

slams down a cup of sake ....... :eek: then another :eek: and another :eek: ohhhh babeeee :D flicks avocado at all currently present then decides Karoke is a reaaaaaaaaaaaaally :cool: idea suddenly............

picks up the microphone..........

Come with me
My love
To the sea
The sea of love

I wanna tell you
Just how much
I love you


I wanna tell you
Just how much
I love you

Come with me
To the sea
of love

Come with me
My love
To the sea
The sea of love

I wanna tell you
How much
I love you

I wanna tell you
Just how much
I love you

Do you remember
When we met
That's the day
I knew you were my pet :rolleyes:

I wanna tell you
Just how much
I love yooooooooooooou............ Hiccc


:rose: ~ bows ~ :rose:

http://i28.photobucket.com/albums/c224/rebecca000/dancers.jpg
 
jadefirefly said:
I dunno.

It's.... green. And sorta slimy. And... green. :p

You have to give things a try. There is NO green showing in this roll. Now taste it! Take a chance!

Fury :rose:
 
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