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How to Seduce a Scorpio
Sex for a Scorpio is often a power play. Tenderness, yes. Kisses, yes. But you must radiate mastery and confidence. Never appear uncertain that you will reach your sexual destination.
There is a sexual provocateur inside every Scorpio male and a provocatrice inside every Scorpio woman. This can be difficult sign to read. When push comes to shove and the panties are down, they may like to be taken forcefully. On the other hand, you could end up being charged with sexual harassment. Be careful. Better to err on the side of caution.
Typical Scorpios can go from passive to active very rapidly. Initial reluctance and outright apathy can be transformed into lightning arousal. You may get a shock when the seemingly cool Scorpio suddenly cuts off your would-be seduction by grabbing you where you’d most like to be grabbed.
Scorpios are into power. Some Scorpios hold back from the initial encounter to gain more power in the situation. They want to be certain the other person is completely in their thrall. They may even try to exercise power through use of “rules”: I don’t go to bed on the first date, I don’t enter the woman the first time. Watch for this. Remember it. At some later stage, shock and impress them by saying, “I have rules,” and then impose some of your own about what they can and can’t do.
The biggest danger is being attracted to a Scorpio who is going through a period of celibacy. Scorpios have been known to impose celibacy on themselves for many years. Many feel guilt about sex, which they transform into a “saint” mentality, as if abstinence makes them more powerful or more spiritually pure. Consider Mahatma Gandhi – a Libran but with Scorpio rising and Mars, Venus and Mercury in Scorpio. He swore off sex and to prove the strength of his will slept next to virgins! Scorpios have strong wills and can turn their willpower to strangling off their sexual desire.
If you meet a celibate Scorpio, it’s not necessarily a matter for total despair. They can alternate – abruptly – between whore and Madonna, saint and sinner, priest and pervert. If anything can tip them form abstinence to orgy, it will be the seductions outlined below.
There are other dangers with this sign too. Scorpios tend to equate sex with power. Your Scorpio may interpret your desire to get them into bed as an attempt to gain control over them. they may resist it for this reason – even though they want you badly. They may also withhold sex just for the delicious power thrill it gives them. they may withhold sex because sex alone is not enough – they want to plunge into the vortex of sexual obsession, all-consuming love, monogamy, twin-soul togetherness and dramatic instant marriage.
You have to watch what you’re getting into with a Scorpio. But if you successfully seduce one, the rewards can be orgiastic. And when you do, seduce to intrigue. Take them on a pile of silk cushions or a Persian carpet – forget the bed. Make love to them the first time in an unusual position.
Seduction 1: The Gothic Thriller
This is an excellent tactic for getting a Scorpio’s serious attention – it may not get them into bed right away, but I will make such a provocative impression on their subconscious that they will never be able to forget you.
The important thing here is that they must come over to your place at night. How you get them there is your business. You may invite them over for a drink or for dinner. Perhaps you were supposed to pick them up for a date but your car suddenly broke down, and you have to call them to come over and pick you up.
When you see them coming, unlock the front door and make your way into the bedroom. When they knock on the door, call out, “Come in! It’s unlocked!” When they enter, they won’t see you. Call out, “I’m in the bedroom. Come in.”
As they push open the door to the bedroom, they will see the quintessential Scorpionic bedroom fantasy come to life: purple candles, musky incense, wicked music. Perhaps organ music: Bach’s Toccata and Fugue in D minor, Camina Burana or “The Ride of the Valkyries,” Gregorian chant, Madonna’s Erotica, church hymns {perhaps “O Come, All Ye Faithful”}.
And, of course, there you are in the midst of all this: nude beneath a thin satin sheet. Perhaps you can think of an even more provocative way to display yourself.
Say nothing. Just reach out your hand to them.
They may not rise to the occasion. They may not be overwhelmed. They may be in shock. They may flee. They may scream. But you will have made your mark on their subconscious. You will have held out the promise of dark, mysterious sensuality – of sex on the edge.
If they run, phone them and invite them right back. Ask whether they didn’t like the music. Invite yourself over to their place.
No matter how they react, never apologize, and don’t explain yourself either – remember, you have to appear mysterious. Just smile…and proceed to one of the other seductions. Or, if you dar, repeat the exact scenario so that they know what’s coming.
Seduction 2: The Mutual Mental Masturbation Method
Now, this may come as something of a revelation. It is a secret Scorpios have long kept to themselves: Scorpios think about sex more than they actually do it
They like to be mentally provoked – by their own imaginations or by another’s. Sometimes they like this more than actual sex.
One way to get a Scorpio worked up is to play on this desire to be mentally titillated.
Mutual Mental Masturbation {i}: The Dry Run.
The idea here is to give them a verbal dry run of what you are planning to do once you get them back to your place. You might do this as you are driving home. Or you might combine this with the Vamp {see below} and whisper it to them in a public place. “The minute I get you alone, I’m going to pin you against the wall and start to undress you with my teeth. I’m going to take an hour just to undress you slowly, button by button. Then I’m going to lick every inch of your…” Etc.
Mutual Mental Masturbation {ii}: Folie a Deux.
Scorpios love to delve into the subconscious of others. They love sexual fantasies. Suddenly, in the middle of a conversation about something else, start to share your secret sexual fantasies with Mr. or Ms. Scorpio. Encourage them to share theirs. Keep trading fantasies. Cut them off in midsentence and demand that they come back to your place to act them out. Or take them on the spot.
Mutual Mental Masturbation {iii} The Dirty Phone Call.
Try out either {i} or {ii} above or one of the Vamps {below} over the telephone. Or call up to share an erotic nightmare you just had. Tell them you are coming over. Arrive naked under a trench coat.
Seduction 3: The Vamp
The Vamp is a particularly good technique for women to use on Scorpio men. {Daring men might like to try out Vamps 3 or 4.} Like Mutual Mental Masturbations, it works on the Scorpionic desire to be sexually titillated. Suddenly and unexpectedly, turn into a combination of Mata Hari, Lolita and Marilyn Monroe.
Practice speaking breathily. And prepare for meltdown.
Vamp No. 1: The Secret Vamp
You are dining with your Scorpio man, perhaps with his friends or relatives – maybe even his parents. You are wearing a very short black dress – perhaps a veritable fig leaf of a miniskirt. You lean over ot Mr. Scorpio and whisper in his ear, “I have no underpants on.” Not just his ears will prick up.
If you’ve got the basic instinct for it, you might dare to tread closer to that furry line between the erotic and the vulgar. Having abandoned your underwear, find an appropriate place and time to cross and uncross your legs in the direction of your Scorpio man. {See the famous scene in the movie Basic Instinct.}
Vamp No. 2: The Happy Hooker
You arrange to meet Mr. Scorpio at a particular place. He is expecting you to be wearing normal attire. Instead you are decked out like a cross between a high-class socialite and a street hooker—with a decide emphasis on the latter: black skirt, black stockings, even fishnets, lots of makeup, dangerous cleavage. Before the shock wears off, make your demands: “It’s not dinner I’m interested in eating tonight. Take me home.” If you want to try an even more outrageous version of this, consider dressing up as a schoolgirl—except with sheer black stockings and heavy makeup.
Vamp No. 3: The Don’t-Get-Excited-Please
You should try to pull this one off only if you have perfected the husky, breathless, seductive voice: evil and innocent at the same time. The idea is to use this voice to taunt your Scorpio with rhetorical questions. You can try this in public, at a restaurant table perhaps, at the movies, in their car, on your sofa. You may even place your hand on some soft of their body and stroke it—the flesh above the elbow perhaps. Whisper breathily: “You’re not excited, are you? I don’t want you to get excited. Who knows what might happen if you got excited. I ‘m not ready. I’m not sure if I want to. You wouldn’t make me, would you? That wouldn’t be right. Oh, don’t tell me you’re getting excited. Don’t get excited. Stop getting excited. Don’t think about it. Think about something else. You don’t want to make me do it, do you?”
If Mr. Scorpio is not desperate to claw the clothes off you after this, forget him.
Vamp No. 4: The Morticia Addams
Remember how Morticia Addams used to drive Gomez wild with desire by speaking French? Here the idea is to drive your Scorpionic man wild by talking to him about erotic delights in a foreign language. Of course, the precondition is that you know at least one foreign tongue. {Or at least a few phrases.} Again, you must speak to him in breathless Marily Monroe tones. French is good, of course. Or, Italian, Spanish, almost any language in which you can sound erotic. {Cantonese and African dialect incorporating glottal stops are not recommended.} Lean over and whisper in his ear. When he asks what you said, don’t provide a translation. Instead say, “Things I’d be too embarrassed to ask for in English.”
Vamp No. 5: The Reverse Happy Hooker
This is a really Scorpionic one. The idea here is to offer to pay the Scorpio for sex.
Be overcome with lust—preferably in public. Lean toward them and speak urgently, sotto voce: “I have to have you. I want you so badly. I can’t wait. I can’t believe how badly I want you. How much do you normally charge? Whatever it costs. I just want you so bad, I’m melting. Tell me what I get for the money. Describe it to me. I have to hear.”
Seduction 4: The Whip-Me-Chain-Me-Take-Me
This is the fast-track short-circuit Scorpio seduction. Say, “I want to be used and abused. Take me home.”
Not generally recommended as the opener to a serious relationship. But if you are primarily interested in short-term sex and if you really do want to be sexually used, if you are ready to be on the receiving end of the full Scorpionic sexual treatment, this will get their immediate attention.
You may try adding a touch of class by combining this seduction with the Vamp.
Seduction 5: The Reverse Grab
If you are certain you have your Scorpio on the boil or you just feel daring, why not try the boldest seduction of them all: the Reverse Grab.
Instead of you grabbing them, the idea is to take one of their hands and place it on one of your erogenous zones.
You’ll certainly make an impression—of some sort. if they swiftly withdraw their hand in shock, it failed. If they are noticeably slow to withdraw, proceed to Vamp them. If they don’t withdraw their hand at all….well, if you need things explained from there, maybe you should consider crocheting as a hobby instead.
Seduction 6: The Striptease
Scorpios love to be titillated, so if you’ve got the body and the dancing ability, perform a striptease for them. Quintessentially Scorpionic. Play Joe Cocker singing “You Can Leave Your Hat On” and go for it.
Worthwhile variation: engage them in a game of strip poker.
Other good Scorpio seductions:
The Dare {see Aries}
The Initiation {see Aries}
The Pretend Virgin {see Aries}
The Tom Jones {see Taurus}
The Public Provocation Proposition {see Gemini}
Seduction by Competition {See Libra}
The We-Shouldn’t-Do-This-So-Let’s {see Aquarius}
The Freebie {see Aquarius}
The Sexual Sorcerer/Sorceress {see Pisces}
Portents of Passion {see Pisces}
