Shadow's Seductions

spiritshadow67 said:
:eek: :eek: :eek: OMG... I am... why didn't you say something sooner??? lol

maybe you should help me get them back under control - hehehe :devil:


*Moves closer...opens the top of your uniform...puts my hands underneathe your bra clad breast...then lifts them up to slide them back inside your top* :D


There...better? ;)
 
Abner Devereaux said:
*Moves closer...opens the top of your uniform...puts my hands underneathe your bra clad breast...then lifts them up to slide them back inside your top* :D


There...better? ;)


ummm... nope just doesn't feel right hun....*wiggles and moans against your hands*
 
spiritshadow67 said:
ummm... nope just doesn't feel right hun....*wiggles and moans against your hands*




Here...*massages you breasts through you bra* *slips my hands inside your bra seeing if I can get them to drop inside the cups better*
 
Abner Devereaux said:
Here...*massages you breasts through you bra* *slips my hands inside your bra seeing if I can get them to drop inside the cups better*


mmmm...... little better *groans*.... maybe if i moved closer to you and put my arms here.... *wraps my arms around your neck... and kisses your neck*


*whispers* - you know I've never seen a real treehouse before......:kiss:
 
spiritshadow67 said:
mmmm...... little better *groans*.... maybe if i moved closer to you and put my arms here.... *wraps my arms around your neck... and kisses your neck*


*whispers* - you know I've never seen a real treehouse before......:kiss:

*Beating my chest* AAYHHHHH!!!!

*Picks you up and whisks you away to my place*
 
How to Seduce a Taurus​

Key Tactic: The way to a Taurean’s sexual organs is through the stomach.​

Taureans love food. The only happy Taurean is one with a full stomach.
Watching a lowly grub transform iinto a beauteous butterfly is nothing compared with observing the metamorphosis undergone by a hungry Taurean becoming a full, calm and happy one. To watch a hungry Taurean stuff his or her face is to watch an angry bull become a placid cow, a snarling Mr. Hyde become a beneficent Dr. Jekyll.
Never try to hold a conversation with a hungry Taurean. Never come between them and a meal—never even suggest waiting ten minutes. If you want to get into a Taurean’s good graces and stay there, feed them. If you’re a good cook, they will be putty in your hands.
Never commit the sin of inviting your Taurean for a meal that takes two hours to reach the table. This is a primary Taurean turn-off and will be taken as evidence of lack of consideration. A microwave could be considered a legitimate Taurean marital aid.
Keep the fridge well stocked with tidbits and gourmet treats ready to offer them the instant they walk in the door. This will ensure the they visit you frequently.
By now, you should have grasped the fundamental principle: you lure a Taurean to bed with a trail of food. Appetizer in the dining room, informal main course in the living room, dessert in the bedroom.
You could never seduce a hungry Taurean, it would be rape. Taurean logic: stomach first; sex second.
There is bound to be some particular sweet your Taurus cannot resist. Find out what it is. Never invite them back to your place for coffee. You must say, “Would you like to come back to my place for coffee and cake?”
If the scene of the seduction is to be your place, Taurus is probably the only Sun sign likely to be interested in the framed photograph of your grandfather. Reminisce about Gramps. You were so fond of the old boy that you’ve kept his spectacles.
At this stage, you shouldn’t be aiming to overexcite your Taurean. Rather, your aim has to be to make them feel safe. You need to get them mellow, make them confident that you are not going to do anything at all unorthodox or wild.
And since Taureans feel safest in familiar surroundings, their own bed is probably a better couch of seduction than yours.

Seduction 1: The Nudist
Nudity is a big turn-on for Taureans. They like flesh.
And they like to know what they are getting into! They don’t like surprise packages. They like to check you over before it’s too late.
Don’t worry if you don’t have the greatest body in the civilized world. They just like bodies. They are not usually into erotic underwear or striptease or slowly undressing you-they are into flesh, nudity and getting it off. Being confronted with naked flesh is a major form of Taurean foreplay.
The challenge, then, is to find a legitimate, wholesome way to get your gear off—and, even better, to get both of you naked simultaneously.
Here are some tried-and-true scenarios for offering your Taurean a sneak preview of delights to come.

Seduction 1{a}: Venus or Adonis Rising from the Waves. Arrive at their place hot and sweaty after physical work or exercise.
Apologize and request the use of the bath. Forget to lock the door. Treat them to your repertoire of Bizet, Puccini and Andrew Lloyd Webber. {Singing in the bath is a common Taurean hobby—remember, they like you to share their values!} Make sure your towel falls in the water and call out for them to bring you a dry one. Or ask for a drink.
If they deliver the goods, ask them to join you in singing the chorus. If the vibes are right, make a grab.
Apres bath, smother yourself in talcum powder and saunter out draped only in a towel that threatens to fall off at any moment.
Sit discomfiting close to them. Watch them sweat.
Ask them to apply talc or moisturizer to your back. The towel may sleip a bit. This is a good time to ask for a neck rub, a back rub… “Ouch, it’s my tennis muscle… lower back… down there… farther down… farther…”
We leave the rest up to you.

Seduction 1{b}: The Dorothy Lamour. A good scenario for getting both of you nude simultaneously—and apparently unpremeditatedly—is skinny-dipping.
This is a very, very good suggestion if you have the use of a friend’s private pool or have one of your own.
Perhaps you can find a way to combine skinny-dipping with the Taurean love of nature.
Imagine this: it’s a warm day. You and your Taurean date are driving in the country and you just happen to take an interesting little side road and just happen to stop by a pond or stream and it is so hot but neither of you brought a swimsuit. Oh well, why not just strip and jump in? it’s more natural, after all. If swimming in the nude surrounded by nature doesn’t get your Taurean aroused, you may have to start wondering about their hormone levels
Other possibilities for mutual wet nudity include a private sauna or hot tub..

Seduction 1 {c}: The Rubenesque Seduction. You may also try the subtler technique of perusing a book of artistic nudes with them. Or take them to an art gallery and wax romantic about the Arcadian nudes. If they are particularly taken with one, but the print, have it framed and present it to them. You could be rewarded. A sort of seduction by art gallery.

Seduction 2: Necking
The sign of Taurus rules the neck. For Taureans, the neck is a major erogenous zone. They can be quite turned on if you kiss and nibble their neck. A hot tip is to target the back of the neck, a neglected erogenous zone in the West but very popular in the East.
You might start out by offering to give them a neck and shoulder massage, then venture a peck or two, a nibble, a kiss. If you are favored with responsive squeaks or groans, keep focusing on the neck while you explore other zones with your hands.

Seduction 3: Dejuenur sur l’Herbe or Pig-Out in the Park
To make it very difficult for a Taurean to say no, combine nature and food.
{If your particular Taurean isn’t crazy about nature and the great outdoors, move the following scene to your backyard or dining room.}
Organize a picnic in a secluded dell. Pack the blankets, pack the pate, the cold chicken, the desserts, the condoms place delicately under the cheesecake in the picnic basket.
As you are laying out the first course, talk of nature. You feel one with Mother Earth. Aren’t animals inspiring? So natural and uninhibited. Here in the greenery, you experience your body as part of nature. You feel natural. You feel physical. Modern urban life is all in the head, isn’t it? We need to get back to the earth, etc.
This should all be smoothed over with a very fine bottle of wine.
The first course has been devoured by your Taurean target; only now may you venture a kiss or two. But don’t stand between them and dessert.
Make your move the instant dessert disappears. Mr. or Ms. Taurus is likely to be so caught up in the combination of earth, nature, food and animal passion that it will be difficult to say no.
Be aware that Taureans are legendary postlunch nappers. You must jump in through the window of opportunity while they are sensuously mellow but before their eyelids {and other things} begin to droop.
Having landed your Taurean, you too may now nap. As Taureans themselves so much enjoy the postprandial forty winks, they are unlikely to complain about your rolling over and going to sleep.

Seduction 4: The Tom Jones
Move the pig-out from the park indoors, and you have the basis of the Tom Jones Seduction. If you’ve never seen that unforgettable scene from the movie Tom Jones, rent the video.
The way you devour chicken should leave your Taurean in no doubt that this is what you want to do to them. Consider what is possible with a drumstick. Consider the tearing go flesh off the thigh; consider nibbling your way up the leg, pausing to lock your dining companion’s gaze before proceeding to suck meaningfully on the end.
Consider the uses of a stalk of asparagus, traditionally eaten with the fingers, dripping with butter. Reach for the tip with your tongue.
Consider what is possible with fruit. Consider the potential of a half-peeled banana and moistened lips. Consider what can be done with a bunch of grapes—or perhaps just two grapes placed slowly in the mouth and rolled around languidly before the final biting and swallowing.
Men should rehearse what they can do with the plump end of a fig.
Hopefully the Taurean will join in the spirit of things and start devouring found in like manner. See if you can turn it into a salacious competition. After which, there is only one truly suitable dessert…them.
The Tom Jones is an earthy, primordial seduction to be used on Taureans who have a sense of fun. It’s to be avoided with Librans and Virgos. This seduction is perfect whenever language is a problem. The way you approach a spoonful of ice cream may be all the sexual Esperanto you ever need.

Seduction 5: The Finger-Licking-Good
The more recent version of the Tom Jones seduction is the famous fridge scene from 9 ½ Weeks. {Again, rent the DVD if you need some tips.}
Instead of feeding yourself a la kama, you feed your Taurean a la Sutra.
Pop strawberries and cream in their mouth. Lick any spillage from their face. Hold a large strawberry in your mouth and get them to take it from you. Simultaneously tear flesh from a drumstick. Tease them with food you almost put in their mouth but not quite. Move them smoothly from eating out of your hand to eating you.
This seduction scenario may be intertwined with Peg-Out in the Park or the Tom Jones seduction.

Other good Taurean Seductions:
The Instant Breakfast {see Gemini}
The Declaration of Love {Cancer}
The Intimate Evening for Two {Cancer}
The Tasteful Dirty Weekend {Leo}
The Flower Shop {Leo}
The Slap-and-Tickle {Virgo}
The True Confession {Virgo}
Seduction by Potential {Libra}
The Cuddle Litmus Test {Pisces}
Seduction by Lethargy {Pisces}
 
Gemini/Scorpio

So I was born on June 1, making me a Gemini (Sun sign) However, my moon sign?,from the time or year or whatever I was born is a scorpio. Does this mean I am prone to being energetically kinky or something. Because personality wise it means I am supposed to be really outgoing yet private... which I pull off somehow.
 
OhioNE said:
So I was born on June 1, making me a Gemini (Sun sign) However, my moon sign?,from the time or year or whatever I was born is a scorpio. Does this mean I am prone to being energetically kinky or something. Because personality wise it means I am supposed to be really outgoing yet private... which I pull off somehow.


Hi and welcome {{NE}} most of the info I've posted deals mostly with Sun Signs... I look to see if i have anything to do with Moon signs for ya.... and let you know

check back soon... I try to update the thread as often as I can ;)
 
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It looks like you havnt been bumped for a few days shadow... we all need a good bump at least 3 times a week so ill help you out. Bump!
 
OhioNE said:
It looks like you havnt been bumped for a few days shadow... we all need a good bump at least 3 times a week so ill help you out. Bump!

Thank you for the well need *Bump* Sweetie ;)

and oooh what I wouldn't give for 3 good bumps a week ;)
 
How to Seduce a Gemini​

“If it were done when ‘tis done, then ‘twere well it were done quickly.”
Carpe diem. Seize the day. Not just the day—the hour, the minute, the second. If you don’t in a heartbeat it can be gone forever. If a Gemini wants you, grab them now.
If you are out with a Gemini on the first date, throw away the book of dating rules. Forget rules like: I don’t go to bed on the first date, it has to happen in private, it has to be in bed, there has to be plenty of time for before and afterward. Mentally expunge them and go with the moment. If you don’t, you could miss out on having a relationship with that Gemini altogether.
It could have been wonderful; it could have been one of the great relationships of your life. Very true. But you’ll never convince them of that…. Après le moment. You’ve missed the moment so you’ve missed out. Forever.
Imagine this scenario. It is the first date. You are back at your Gemini’s place and incandescent passion is virtually setting fire to the black leather sofa.
But you pull back from proceeding to the actual deed. You’ve got big things on at work tomorrow. You have to get up at 5 a.m. You feel serious about this person, there’s real chemistry here, you want time to savor the event, to give a good account of yourself. It’s late. So you postpone the big moment…to the second date, when there will be more time.
The next day you call up your Gemini. Is this the same person? They’ve lost interest in you. They seem to have forgotten that the hot scene on the sofa ever took place. Do they have short-term memory loss? They say there’s really no electricity between you. In fact, they’re not interested in even seeing you again.
What? What’s happened here?
What’s happened is that you’ve missed that critical moment with the Gemini. And it will never come back. You’ve blown it—forever.
That’s just Geminis for you…
Geminis are notorious for mentally auditioning would-be sexual playmates. If you haven’t gotten a Gemini into bed with six days, they may have already mentally undressed you, had you and decided you weren’t worth the trouble. Been there, done that.
If thing heat up, never ever postpone your first physical encounter with a Gemini for any reason whatsoever. They are noted for super quick passionate responses. If they are turned on in the living room, don’t move to the bedroom. If they want you in the car, do it there and then. Five minutes from now they may have lost interest in you forever. Five minutes? If may only be thirty seconds.
And don’t drag the foreplay, even twoplay might take too long. If they want it, they want it now.
And don’t drag the sex out too long either. Geminis like long foreplay and long sex sometimes. But their quicksilver minds get bored very easily. They could be clawing your back with passion, then, two minutes later, staring at the ceiling wondering when in the hell you’re going to get it over and done with.
That’s a Gemini for you.
Mind you, they also have the reputation of being masters of foreplay. They are often superb manual craftsmen. Not only are they quickly aroused—they are quick at arousing their partner as well.
By definition Geminis are changeable, spontaneous, flexible. There is no best place or time or situation. The important thing is to act while the moment is hot and the juices are flowing. Never forget that they can dry up faster than a faucet in the desert. They turn off as fast as they turn on. Their response to everything in life including sex and lust is quick, short, sharp and terrific.
There can be a cockteasing element in the more negative Gemini female {and, indeed, the equivalent in some of the Gemini men}. Watch out for this. They know they have the capacity for being vivacious and titillating. A Gemini might drop quite a few hints and suggestive remarks, but this may not mean they actually intend to do the deed—at least with you. They like to test out their titillation rating. You can get more mixed signals from a Gemini than any other Sun sign.
So be careful. “No” always means “No!” even from a Gemini flirt.

Seduction1: The Instant Seduction
“Strike while the iron is hot” has to be the watchword when seducing Geminis. Accordingly, if you meet a Gemini and sense that the attraction is mutual, you must be scheming how to get them into bed—or against a wall—as soon as possible after hearing those magical words, “I’m a Gemini.”
Aim to bed them within 48 hours. The longer the period of seduction the higher the risk of failure. You must take advantage of any spare time they have—even if it’s only half an hour. You must be prepared to put your own life on hold until you’ve got them over the first hump.
Here, in order of alacrity, are some suggestions:

Seduction 1{a}: The Absolutely Instant Seduction. This unpremeditated seduction is only for those you are ever ready with portable contraception-and lucky.
The idea of this seduction is to sweep your Gemini off their feet at the very first meeting—and at the place of meeting.
How you accomplish this will depend on your particular Gemini and where you meet. If, for example, you meet at a party, suggest a stroll in the garden. See what you can do around the back of a large elm tree. Or perhaps there is a garden shed handy. Or tell them that the host has this great etching in his bedroom you must show them. If there is no etching when you get there say, “I lied because I just had to get you alone.” Make a move and see what happens.

Seduction 1{b}: The Instant Coffee. Perhaps the most traditional of all modern, fast-track seductions. This seduction is often a prelude to the one-night stand—though repeat performances may be an option.
You meet, you talk until you can’t wait any longer and then invite them back to your place for kissing, groping and bodily intertwining. {Translation: “Would you like to come back to my place for a cup of coffee?”}

Seduction 1{c}: The Instant Lift. A close second for popularity in modern fast-track seduction is the Instant Lift. Here you ask the person if they would like an opportunity to invite you in for a cup of coffee, i.e., for a session of kissing, groping, etc. {Translation: “Can I give you a lift home?”}
This is sometimes also a prelude to straining car-seat springs.
If you get them home and they miss their cue and don’t invite you in for coffee, ask if they could lend you a book on that subject you were talking about. Or insist on walking them to the door.

Seduction 1{d}: The Reverse Instant Lift. A bit subtler than the Instant Lift is the Reverse Instant Lift. Here you ask, “Could you give me a lift home?”
If they don’t have a car, suggest sharing a taxi.
The Reverse Instant Lift can sometimes be an amusing follow-up to the Instant Life. “Can I give you a lift home?” “Actually, I have my car with me.” “Oh good, then could you give me a lift home?’
If necessary, make some excuse about having had one too many drinks to be truly safe driving. Or tell them you forgot that you actually didn’t bring your car, but came with a friend. Or say nothing. The amusement value alone could be the driving force in getting you to first base.

Seduction 1{e}: The Instant Phone Call. Having met a Gemini earlier in the evening and said goodnight, calculate how long it will take them to get home, and phone them about five minutes later. Tell them you just had to share some thoughts you had after that great conversation. Geminis are phone-aholics, so this talk could go on for awhile. If the Gemini sounds wide awake {which is likely}, say you’re finding talking to them such a buzz that you know you won’t sleep for hours. “I know, why don’t I come over with a bottle of wine so we can talk some more? I’ve got this great book I must lend you too. Would you like me to pick up some pizza/cake/whatever on the way?” As soon as you get in the door, get them talking again—make your move.

Seduction 1{f}: The Instant Breakfast. The morning after meeting them, first thing, call them up and say you’re coming over with breakfast. Say you know this place that makes the most amazing croissants {or bagels or whatever’s trendy}.
Tell them to go back to bed—this is room service.

Seduction 2: The For-a-Good-Time-Call Seduction
Geminis are in love with their telephones. The long telephone chat is a major part of their social life.
Combine this insight with the Gemini susceptibility to surprise tactics and you have the For-a-Good-Time-Call Seduction. Anything that comes out of the blue they find highly stimulating.
Call them in the evening from your cell phone from around the corner. Your aim is to get them interested over the phone. Ideally, you want them to utter those romantic Gemini words: “How soon can you be here?” If you succeed, you must materialize promptly. Be on their doorstep within minutes of hanging up.
Good approaches are:

“I found our talk earlier tonight so stimulating, I just had to share these other ideas with you…are you buys? Can I come over and talk some more?”

“I had to phone you. I wanted to get an early night but I just couldn’t sleep. I couldn’t get you out of my mind. You looked so fabulous yesterday. Are you free? Would you like me to come over?”

“I’ve been thinking about you all day. I had the most amazing dream last night. You were in it. Couldn’t tell you about it over the phone. Are you busy? Can I come over?”



Seduction 3: The Fax of Love or Text Message of Love
A more techno-hip version of the For-A-Good-Time-Call Seduction is the Fax of Love or Text Message of Love. It’s the cyber-yuppie versions of Grandma’s love letters.
The idea is to carpet-bomb your Gemini with a B-52 or faxed or texted messages—start off with innocent invitations, progress to flirting and climax in the downright suggestive.
Turn it into a competition to see who can come up with the wittiest innuendo.
You may be able to use this technique to seduce someone you haven’t even spoken to yet. You can also use it to protect your ego from a full frontal turndown. It’s quick, it’s economical and it’s pre-trendy.
Aim for your final fax/text to read, “I’ll meet you downstairs at 5:30pm.” And their final fax/text to read, “Okay.”
You must make a presence in fax/text of eagerness and persistence.
Here are some messages to consider:

“I saw you at the party. Are you free tonight?” {If the reply comes back “No,” reply, “Suggest you cancel. Forget the rest. I’m better.”}

“You made a big impression on me. I’d like to have a chance to make a big impression on you.”

“Correction to last fax: I’d like a chance to make a big impression into you.”

“Do you like your eggs boiled, fried or scrambled?”

“Would you like to try out my electric toothbrush?”

“Are you a clock-watcher? I like to watch.”

“If music be the food of love, faxes/texts must be the score.”


This seduction may be combined with other Gemini seductions such as Seduction by Curiosity and….

Seduction 4: The Wild Escapade
One excellent tactic for getting inside the electric Gemini skin is to suddenly propose a totally over-the-top, outlandish escapade. Geminis are very spur-of-the-moment. Out of the blue, announce that you are going to another city to see a controversial show or exhibition and have a spare ticket—would they like to come? They’ll be impressed by your daring and spontaneity; they will find it very hard to say no to someone who obviously understands the thrill of the ad hoc adventure.

Seduction 5: The Public Provocation Proposition
The most outrageous of all Gemini seduction scenarios is the Public Provocation Proposition. This technique is only for the brave or the psychic. The PPP has only two possible outcomes: electrifying success and mortifying failure. It is based on the Geminian biological equation: mental stimulation + instant lubrication. The basic “Three P’s Technique is to drop in public a brazen, non-sequitur declaration of sexual intent while staying totally cool. You must be deliciously provocative without being vulgar.
An example. You are dining with a small group that includes Mr. or Ms. Gemini. You’ve got the Gemini’s brain at the boiling point with brilliant repartee on, say, the changing roles of men and women in society. Hook your Gemini into direct eye contract and say smoothly—so that others can hear—anything from the following list:

“Personally I don’t mind women {or men} on top. I think that’s where I’d like to see you. Care to workshop the idea back at my place?”

“You realize it’s not your brain but your body that’s driving me wild. But I’d be willing to wait until you’ve finished your dessert.”

“Could you wait twenty minutes for coffee? That’s how long it takes to drive back to my place.”

“Is it true what they say about Geminis being sexual virtuosos?”

“Freud could have been right after all—everything may be connected with sex. I don’t know about you, but this conversation is getting me really turned on. Could I drive you home?”

“Would you like to come back to my place and feel my etchings?”

“It was a great meal. What would you like for breakfast?”


Anything else you think you can get away with.

What you are looking for is an immediate twinkle in the eye of the Gemini and the attempt to suppress a smile. This is your sign of success.
Failure will be clearly indicated by a glass of wine over your head.
The PPP is to be handled suavely—in a cool, understated way. It is not for the uncouth, the inarticulate of those who blush easily. Good luck.

Seduction 6: Seduction by Curiosity
Many possible seductions are included in this category. But they all involve tapping into the huge Gemini propensity for curiosity. Straight to the gonads via the frontal lobe.
Most Geminis will admit that they had sex with at least one person out of curiosity.
How you pull off Seduction by Curiosity will depend on what physical and technical delights you use to intrigue them.
Remember, you can be daring and brash—they like that sort of thing. You could try one of the following:

“Wouldn’t you like to stop fantasizing about me ad get down to the real thing?”

“I read somewhere that Geminis mentally undress people they are attracted to and sexually test-drive them in their mind. Have you run me through yet? How did I rate? Wouldn’t you like to find out for real?”

“I dreamt about you last night.”
It is 100 percent certain the Gemini will be desperate to know about the dream. Be reluctant to reveal all. Be coy. Confess that you feel a bit embarrassed about uncovering such a Rabelaisian blockbuster in your own subconscious. Clearly they have had an amazing effect on you. They’ve released all sorts of latent primal urges. Any red-blooded Gemini will now be absolutely determined to wrench this juicy story out of you. See whether they will let you act out the bawdy tale.

Other good Gemini seductions:

The Outrageous Move {see Aries}
Unexpected Bedfellows {Aries}
The Dare {Aries}
The Passport to Unscheduled Delights {Sagittarius}
The I’m-Available {Sagittarius}
The Stop-I-Can’t-Wait {Sagittarius}
The Loose End {Sagittarius}
The Marcel Marceau {Capricorn}
Seduction by Humor {Aquarius}
The We-Shouldn’t-Do-This-So-Let’s {Aquarius}
 
How to Seduce a Cancer​

The seduction must be based on 1930s movies: Clark Gable and Carole Lombard, Nelson Eddy and Jeanette MacDonald, that sort of thing.
Dinners, dancing, arm around the waist, flowers, chocolates, candles on the table, a meal preferably cooked by you, holding hands while you pop exquisite chocolates in their mouth. Music should be unashamedly romantic—Chopin, collections of great love songs, etc.
Cancerians are great cuddlers. So it’s lots of cuddling at the early stages—but no sexual maurauding. This isn’t an Aries you’re dealing with. Cancerians need to feel safe and secure. They need to be gently guided into sexual union.
The key indicator to watch for is a “starry-eyed” look on their part. From then on, you should be just fine.
Cancerian women like their breast tended to. You could try to the hand on the shoulder sensitively dropped to the breast when the time is ripe. Pay her compliments about her bosom.
If you are sending out signals to a Cancerian male, display your cleavage to advantage. Titillation—to a Cancerian—can be just that.

Seduction 1: The Intimate Evening for Two
Plan an archetypal romantic dinner at home.
Make your first move during the coffee on the sofa—preferably in front of a fire warm enough to encourage the discarding of jackets, sweaters, etc.
Cancerians are touchy-feely, so the idea is to move them toward a situation where this is easy. Consider slow dancing cheek to cheek: set the CD player going, reach for their hand, pull them close. If they mold them against your body nicely, your chances are good {for other tips, see the Cuddle Litmus Test, Pisces.}
Key phrases that Cancerian love to hear are: “We were meant to meet.” “We were meant to be together.” “I think fate brought us together.” “We were destined to meet.” “It’s fate.” That sort of deterministic, anti-free-will stuff.
As you continue to move slowly, begin kissing them gently. All in time with the music. Listen for the first distinctive Cancerian squeaks, grunts or groans of pleasure. If you hear this, you are well and truly on the way to third base.

Seduction 2: The Reverse Seduction
Cancerians have a great fear of being used. One way to get them past this is for you to express your fear of being used.
Make them feel that they are ones who have taken the initiative and pushed you beyond your doubts. “I feel strongly toward you. I really do. You’re obviously a genuine caring person. But I’ve just been hurt so many times in the past that I don’t know if I can trust again. I just don’t want to be used.”
What you ware looking for is for them to say, “I know what you mean… I don’t want to be hurt either… I’d never hurt you.”
If you can get them to say, “I’d never hurt you.” you should move into trembling kisses, then slowly undressing yourself and them and …. the rest.

Seduction 3: The Polite Withdrawal
Like the Reverse Seduction, the Polite Withdrawal is a way to get your Cancerian past the fear of being used.
After much kissing, cuddling, nibbling and romantic canoodling, reluctantly but politely pull yourself away. Say how wonderful and special the evening has been, but that it’s perhaps too early in the relationship for anything too heavy. You’re serious aobut them and don’t want to lose their respect. You’re really worried that it might be too early in the relationship—for them. You don’t want to risk ruining thing because this may be the most important relationship of your life. You don’t want to rush them. you think this may be the real thing, and want them to be as sure as your are.
Now be irresistibly drawn back to kissing them. With monumental difficulty tear your lips away…again. “No, I want to wait. I don’t want to rush you. I want you to know you’re safe with me. I don’t want to spoil it. I want you to know that I have--.” Lose track of your speech because you are gazing into their eyes so deeply.
“I…..I…..I…..” Give up trying to find words and kiss them again.
What you are working toward is for them to interrupt all the procrastination, take the initiative and cut off your ramblings by kissing you or reassuring you: “No, I want you to stay,” or “Will you just shut up and get on with it.”
If this doesn’t happen and you don’t see that starry-eyed look, you may be with a very insecure Cancer indeed. You may have to wait until another night—until they make it plain that they definitely wouldn’t fee you were using them if you stayed the night.

Seduction 4: The Declaration of Love
Cancerians fall in love very easily and look for long-term emotional commitment. This is definitely a Sun sign to whom you can make a declaration of love before sexual consummation. “I love you. I’ll never hurt you. I just want to express my love for you. I hope you feel for me half of what I feel for you. I really do love you.”
Obviously it’s not advisable to say these things unless they’re true. What you are looking for is an admission that they love you or are starting to fall in love with you. Then you move to Seduction by Assumption {see Libra}. If they seem a bit coy about plunging into coital bliss, say, “But we love each other. This is the most romantic night of my life. I want to make it the best night of both our lives in every possible way. It will be beautiful.”
If you can say this without developing instant dental cavities, you should be okay.

Seduction 5: The Romantic Movie Move
If you can’t quite play the whole megaromance bit yourself, maybe you could get a movie to do it for you. Get some incredibly romantic video to watch with them. Consider films such as Love Story, Dr. Zhivago, or The Private Lives of Elizabeth and Essex.
Start crying openly. Hold their hand. Start kissing them as soon as the end credits start rolling. Move on.

Seduction 6: The Stray Dog Seduction.
Cancerians have a fetish for taking in stray dogs and cats. The idea of this seduction is to aim to have yourself added to the list of strays that have3 already moved into their home.
Having been forced to flee from your home to escape emotional carnage, arrive on the doorstep just before dinner with a backpack containing the Cancerian basics: a well-thumbed copy of Keats, your CD of Beethoven sonatas, a video/dvd of Gone with the Wind and a photo of your mother. Do this preferably on a cold and rainy evening. Knock tentatively on the door, your hair dripping with water, asking if you could possibly be put up for the night.
If you play it right—making every effort to observe and imitate their domestic rites and rituals {stacking the dishes their way, fluffing the cushions, wiping down the kitchen table spotlessly, gaining the acceptance of their cats}, it may take you only a short time to become part of their household unit.
It is then a short step from the narrow cot in the spare room to the palatial couch of Venus and Adonis in their bedroom.
As to how you actually play Venus to their Adonis or Adonis to their Venus, well…it depends. You could try stealing into their bedroom in desperate need of “just a cuddle,” or you could try Seduction 2, 3 or 4.

Seduction 7: The Romeo and Juliet Balcony Scene
This is a shortcut—either into the Cancerian’s boudoir or to wearing a bucket of water.
This is to be attempted only if you are {a} athletic, {b} capable of reading poetry without smirking, {c} a ham, {d} a Monty Python fan.
Let’s face it, you’d have to win the Cancer’s amusement and romantic Brownie points for even trying this one.
On a moonlit, balmy summer evening, position yourself under the Cancer’s bedroom window. Come equipped with roses and chocolates. Throw small pebbles at the window to attract attention. The instant the Cancer leans over the balcony or windowsill, sing or recite something suitably romantic. Recommended readings: Byron, Shelley, excerpts from the balcony scene in Romeo and Juliet, Robbie Burns, Keats.
If you can’t quite handle all this retro-Cancerian nostalgia, bring the scenario into the nineties and hire a karaoke system to serenade them. Become a modern troubadour. Plug in your system and mime or sing some suitably romantic number. What this is will depend on the taste of you Cancerian. Consider: Harry Connick, Jr., Pavarotti, Julio Iglesias, Madonna, Barbra Streisand.
Your Cancerian may well rush you inside simple to stop the neighbors from coming out to stare.
{P.S. If they do pour water over you, beg to come in to dry off and avoid pneumonia. Appeal to guilt and the Cancerian’s caring nature.}

Other good Cancerian Seductions:
The Tom Jones {see Taurus}
The Flower Shop {Leo}
The True Confession {Virgo}
The Slap-and-Tickle {Virgo}
The I-Need-You {Virgo}
The Cuddle Litmus Test {Pisces}
The Bath {Pisces}
Seduction by Lethargy {Pisces}
Whispers in the Dark {Pisces}

 
How to Seduce a Leo​

It’s simple, really: The want the best, so convince them that you are the best.
Leos are impressed by confidence, by the wordly I-know-what-I’m-doing-and-where-this-is-going approach. Act as if you are in command of the situation.
Once you are sure the groundwork is well and truly laid, and that the next thing to be laid is them, you shouldn’t have too much trouble with that part. Leos are seldom shy or coy.
But don’t let the time get overripe. Leos are a pretty lustful lot. Two weeks is a long courtship for your typical Leo.
Leos are at their very best at the beginning of a relationship. They positively glow in the drama, passion and rituals of courtship. They have colossal nerve and don’t generally experience the doubt and fear of rejection most people go through at the beginning of a relationship.

Key Tip: For Leos, a good aphrodisiac is having a lot of money spent on them.

The key word is “lavish.” Lavish praise on them. Lavish dinners with tehm. Lavish presents for them
It’s not that the Leo wants to bankrupt you. But they do want you to indulge them within your means. You’re being tested. Leos know that people spend money on things they value. They want to be sure you realize that they are the most valuable thing in your life. And just maybe they are. You’ve probably made worse investments.
Frankly, the more you spend, the more likely you are to get them into bed. This leads us to….

Seduction 1: The Five-Star Seduction or La Seduction de Luxe
This is to be attempted only with clean credit cards.
You take them for disgustingly lavish meal in the formal restaurant of your local Hilton or some other five-star hotel.
After the lobster a l’imperiale, you say, “The maitre d’ has arranged for dessert to be served privately upstairs. Shall we go now?”
{Some advice to men attempting to seduce Leo women: At this stage, you may end up with the remainder of the bottle of wine poured over your head. This expression of public outrage is a favorite sexual fantasy of all Fire sign women. All eyes on you—this is now a public performance.
Remember, Leos love boldness and style. Employ both now. If she doesn’t immediately storm off after dousing you, all is not lost. Take her by the wrist, pull her toward you and say, “I always knew you had real fire in you. Shall we go now?” }
Upstairs will be found the archetypal Leo seduction: the king-size bed, the French champagne on ice, flowers, chocolates. Leo heaven.
Mutual heaven.
The ultimate variation on this is to provide the same indulgence in Paris, New York or London.
Jet overseas on business. Phone to say you miss them. Say you’ve bought a first-class ticket for them to join you for a week. How could they resist?

Seduction 2: A Streetcar Named Desire
This is a more mobile version of the Five-Star Seduction. You hire a chauffeur-driven stretch limousine for a few hours. Champagne, chocolates and caviar await your Leo in the rear of the limo. The soundproof, opaque window is up between you and the driver, of course. You have arranged that he will take you on a long ride somewhere.
This is certainly a way to get the Leo motor purring. A good opportunity to shift their gear, floor the accelerator and move into overdrive.
Definitely worth considering for the more daring Leo.

Seduction 3: The One-Star Seduction or The Intimate Liqueur
If you budget doesn’t run to the above, don’t despair of winning the generous-hearted Leo. Try the same seduction at home.
Suggest that they come back to your place to share the fifty-year-old port you’ve been saving for a special occasion. Have suitable treats waiting: handmade chocolates, pastries, deluxe ice cream, strawberries.
When you get them back to your place, wait on them hand and foot, see to their every comfort and move confidently from hand-feeding them to having them eating out of your hand.

Seduction 4: The No-Star Seduction
One crude but nevertheless effective piece of advice is: get them drinking. Leo is a Sun sign for whom alcohol is a definite leg-opener or at least a zipper-loosener.
Leos certainly love glamour, but they can at times be basic and raunchy. A little medicinal alcohol helps to move them swiftly from the graceful and glamorous to the wicked and wanton.

Seduction 5: The Flower Shop
Leos love to be the center of attention. They also adore grand, over-the-top theatrical gestures.
The day after your first date, have a minimum of six dozen roses delivered to their office. It must make a show. They’ll bask in the puzzled and envious glances of their colleagues. Almost certainly they will call you to acknowledge your tribute. When they do, invite them to either the Five-Star or One-Star Seduction. You may, with luck, receive an invitation to dine at their place.
If you haven’t heard from them within twenty-four hours, send them another four dozen roses with a note saying, “Dinner at my place 8 pm.” If Leo doesn’t phone you to accept or postpone, or if they don’t turn up, forget it. They don’t want you. Move on.

Seduction 6: The Tasteful Dirty Weekend
This is really a seduction by implicit mutual agreement and consists of inviting Mr. or Ms. Leo for a weekend away.
Leos require a certain amount of official courtly behavior. You know you have a dirty weekend in mind and so do they, but you don’t say, “Let’s go away for a dirty weekend.”
No, no, no, no, no.
You say, “Would you like to come away for the weekend? I know this absolutely charming bed-and-breakfast with this wonderful atmosphere in the vineyard district. There are wine-tastings all around. I’d love you to come.”
Leo will know what other tastings are being suggested besides wine.
Leos are so open and lacking in deviousness that it would be a rare one indeed who would agree to go away with you and not sample all you have to offer. They would feel guilty about exploiting you.
You will, of course, ensure that you are booked into a single suite with only one double bed and champagne waiting on ice. There should be no problem.

Seduction 7: The Bacchanalia
This is the Leo seduction par excellence—pull-out-all-the-stops, over-the-top, Leo-style.
The ideas is to re-create the ambience of a Roman orgy: a Felliniesque overindulgence in wine, food {etc.!}—all just for two.
You invite Mr. or Ms. Leo to your place for dinner.
The soon-to-be-seduced Leo arrives at your door, expecting to be winded and dined but definitely not suspecting the Bacchanalia you have prepared.
Open the door dressed in a casual, off-the-shoulder, semiformal toga. They will be laughing with delight as you thrust them the first of many inhibition-loosening glasses into their hand and point them in the direction of the bedroom, where their own toga is laid out ready for them to slip into.
Have them recline on the divan and ottomans near a table laden with wine, grapes, candles, smoked salmon, oysters, caviar, figs, cheeses, pistachios, strawberries, sorbets, etc.
From there it’s simple—keep them drinking, keep their glass full, serve them grapes. Lavish them with attention.
Pretty soon there will be room for two on the divan. A quick flip of the toga and it’s Et tu, Brute.

Seduction 8: The Surprise Formal Dinner
A less theatrical version of the Bacchanalia is the Surprise Formal Dinner.
Send the Leo a formally printed invitation to a dinner party: Black tie. RSVP.
They will think it’s a dinner party for twelve to twenty people.
But it’s not. It’s just for the two of you.
When they arrive, you will be dressed to kill—of course. And there will be crystal, silverware, candelabra, roses everywhere. If your culinary skills fall short of haute cuisine, have your affair catered.
When Leo asks, “Am I the first to arrive?” say meaningfully, “My dear, tonight, all this is just for you.”
If they ask what’s the occasion, reply: “I’m selfish. I just wanted you all to myself for the evening.”
If they stay on for the first course, they will probably still there for breakfast.

Seduction 9: The Cecil B. DeMille
This seduction taps into the Leo desire for self-adornment, theatricality, meagromance, role-playing and ritualized mating behavior.
The difference between this and the Bacchanalia and the Surprise Foraml Dinner is that those should come as a delightful surprise, whereas in this seduction the object of your passions participates in the staging and plays along from the very beginning.
Suggest to your Leo that you have long fantasized about staging a dinner for two in the style of Gone With the Wind: Rhett Butler, Scarlett O’Hara, mint juleps and Southern chivalry. Ask if they’re game.
A good costume rental shop should be able to provide all the paraphernalia. You will cook the Southern friend chick and pecan pie.
Hopefully, theatrical Leo will get so caught up in their role opposite your Scarlett or Rhett that they’ll melt into your arms by sheer force of surrogate passion
Part of the alluring delight of this seduction is the sheer fantasy thrill of ripping off voluminous petticoats, unzipping long leather boots, unbuttoning bodices.
Of course, it doesn’t have to be Scarlett and Rhett. It could be any number of femme fatale/home fatal historical couplings. Consider:

Cleopatra and Marc Antony
The geisha girl and the samurai
The sultan and the new girl in the harem
The Egyptian high priest and the temple virgin
The French courtesan and the musketeer
The Hawaiian princess and the buccaneer
Anything else you think you can get away with

Seduction 10: Hey, Big Spender
“I shop therefore I am” is the Leo motto. Leos love to shop—whether they buy or not. See if you can exploit this obsession for a sexual seduction. Go shopping with the Leo.
The basic idea is for the man to buy Ms. Leo some sexy, extraordinarily expensive lingerie, “On the condition, of course, that you let me take it off you later tonight.” Be suave, but be brazen. Remember: Leos respect boldness.
The female variation is to go shopping with Mr. Leo and ask his opinion on some sexy lingerie. Whisper in his ear, “If you buy me this for Christmas, I’ll let you take if off me.” How could any red-blooded Leo refuse? Who cares if it’s only September? He cold still fill your stockings.

Other good Leo Seductions:
The Challenge {see Aries}
The Dare {Aries}
The Tom Jones {Taurus}
The Romeo and Julie Balcony Scene {Cancer}
The Declaration of Love {Cancer}
The Return of the Old Flame {Libra}
The Gold-Plated Seduction {Libra}
The Passport to Unscheduled Delights {Sagittarius}
The Seduce-Me {Capricorn}
Seduction by Lethargy {Pisces}
 
spiritshadow67 said:
How to Seduce a Taurus​

Key Tactic: The way to a Taurean’s sexual organs is through the stomach.​

Taureans love food. The only happy Taurean is one with a full stomach.
Watching a lowly grub transform iinto a beauteous butterfly is nothing compared with observing the metamorphosis undergone by a hungry Taurean becoming a full, calm and happy one. To watch a hungry Taurean stuff his or her face is to watch an angry bull become a placid cow, a snarling Mr. Hyde become a beneficent Dr. Jekyll.
Never try to hold a conversation with a hungry Taurean. Never come between them and a meal—never even suggest waiting ten minutes. If you want to get into a Taurean’s good graces and stay there, feed them. If you’re a good cook, they will be putty in your hands.
Never commit the sin of inviting your Taurean for a meal that takes two hours to reach the table. This is a primary Taurean turn-off and will be taken as evidence of lack of consideration. A microwave could be considered a legitimate Taurean marital aid.
Keep the fridge well stocked with tidbits and gourmet treats ready to offer them the instant they walk in the door. This will ensure the they visit you frequently.
By now, you should have grasped the fundamental principle: you lure a Taurean to bed with a trail of food. Appetizer in the dining room, informal main course in the living room, dessert in the bedroom.
You could never seduce a hungry Taurean, it would be rape. Taurean logic: stomach first; sex second.
There is bound to be some particular sweet your Taurus cannot resist. Find out what it is. Never invite them back to your place for coffee. You must say, “Would you like to come back to my place for coffee and cake?”
If the scene of the seduction is to be your place, Taurus is probably the only Sun sign likely to be interested in the framed photograph of your grandfather. Reminisce about Gramps. You were so fond of the old boy that you’ve kept his spectacles.
At this stage, you shouldn’t be aiming to overexcite your Taurean. Rather, your aim has to be to make them feel safe. You need to get them mellow, make them confident that you are not going to do anything at all unorthodox or wild.
And since Taureans feel safest in familiar surroundings, their own bed is probably a better couch of seduction than yours.

Seduction 1: The Nudist
Nudity is a big turn-on for Taureans. They like flesh.
And they like to know what they are getting into! They don’t like surprise packages. They like to check you over before it’s too late.
Don’t worry if you don’t have the greatest body in the civilized world. They just like bodies. They are not usually into erotic underwear or striptease or slowly undressing you-they are into flesh, nudity and getting it off. Being confronted with naked flesh is a major form of Taurean foreplay.
The challenge, then, is to find a legitimate, wholesome way to get your gear off—and, even better, to get both of you naked simultaneously.
Here are some tried-and-true scenarios for offering your Taurean a sneak preview of delights to come.

Seduction 1{a}: Venus or Adonis Rising from the Waves. Arrive at their place hot and sweaty after physical work or exercise.
Apologize and request the use of the bath. Forget to lock the door. Treat them to your repertoire of Bizet, Puccini and Andrew Lloyd Webber. {Singing in the bath is a common Taurean hobby—remember, they like you to share their values!} Make sure your towel falls in the water and call out for them to bring you a dry one. Or ask for a drink.
If they deliver the goods, ask them to join you in singing the chorus. If the vibes are right, make a grab.
Apres bath, smother yourself in talcum powder and saunter out draped only in a towel that threatens to fall off at any moment.
Sit discomfiting close to them. Watch them sweat.
Ask them to apply talc or moisturizer to your back. The towel may sleip a bit. This is a good time to ask for a neck rub, a back rub… “Ouch, it’s my tennis muscle… lower back… down there… farther down… farther…”
We leave the rest up to you.

Seduction 1{b}: The Dorothy Lamour. A good scenario for getting both of you nude simultaneously—and apparently unpremeditatedly—is skinny-dipping.
This is a very, very good suggestion if you have the use of a friend’s private pool or have one of your own.
Perhaps you can find a way to combine skinny-dipping with the Taurean love of nature.
Imagine this: it’s a warm day. You and your Taurean date are driving in the country and you just happen to take an interesting little side road and just happen to stop by a pond or stream and it is so hot but neither of you brought a swimsuit. Oh well, why not just strip and jump in? it’s more natural, after all. If swimming in the nude surrounded by nature doesn’t get your Taurean aroused, you may have to start wondering about their hormone levels
Other possibilities for mutual wet nudity include a private sauna or hot tub..

Seduction 1 {c}: The Rubenesque Seduction. You may also try the subtler technique of perusing a book of artistic nudes with them. Or take them to an art gallery and wax romantic about the Arcadian nudes. If they are particularly taken with one, but the print, have it framed and present it to them. You could be rewarded. A sort of seduction by art gallery.

Seduction 2: Necking
The sign of Taurus rules the neck. For Taureans, the neck is a major erogenous zone. They can be quite turned on if you kiss and nibble their neck. A hot tip is to target the back of the neck, a neglected erogenous zone in the West but very popular in the East.
You might start out by offering to give them a neck and shoulder massage, then venture a peck or two, a nibble, a kiss. If you are favored with responsive squeaks or groans, keep focusing on the neck while you explore other zones with your hands.

Seduction 3: Dejuenur sur l’Herbe or Pig-Out in the Park
To make it very difficult for a Taurean to say no, combine nature and food.
{If your particular Taurean isn’t crazy about nature and the great outdoors, move the following scene to your backyard or dining room.}
Organize a picnic in a secluded dell. Pack the blankets, pack the pate, the cold chicken, the desserts, the condoms place delicately under the cheesecake in the picnic basket.
As you are laying out the first course, talk of nature. You feel one with Mother Earth. Aren’t animals inspiring? So natural and uninhibited. Here in the greenery, you experience your body as part of nature. You feel natural. You feel physical. Modern urban life is all in the head, isn’t it? We need to get back to the earth, etc.
This should all be smoothed over with a very fine bottle of wine.
The first course has been devoured by your Taurean target; only now may you venture a kiss or two. But don’t stand between them and dessert.
Make your move the instant dessert disappears. Mr. or Ms. Taurus is likely to be so caught up in the combination of earth, nature, food and animal passion that it will be difficult to say no.
Be aware that Taureans are legendary postlunch nappers. You must jump in through the window of opportunity while they are sensuously mellow but before their eyelids {and other things} begin to droop.
Having landed your Taurean, you too may now nap. As Taureans themselves so much enjoy the postprandial forty winks, they are unlikely to complain about your rolling over and going to sleep.

Seduction 4: The Tom Jones
Move the pig-out from the park indoors, and you have the basis of the Tom Jones Seduction. If you’ve never seen that unforgettable scene from the movie Tom Jones, rent the video.
The way you devour chicken should leave your Taurean in no doubt that this is what you want to do to them. Consider what is possible with a drumstick. Consider the tearing go flesh off the thigh; consider nibbling your way up the leg, pausing to lock your dining companion’s gaze before proceeding to suck meaningfully on the end.
Consider the uses of a stalk of asparagus, traditionally eaten with the fingers, dripping with butter. Reach for the tip with your tongue.
Consider what is possible with fruit. Consider the potential of a half-peeled banana and moistened lips. Consider what can be done with a bunch of grapes—or perhaps just two grapes placed slowly in the mouth and rolled around languidly before the final biting and swallowing.
Men should rehearse what they can do with the plump end of a fig.
Hopefully the Taurean will join in the spirit of things and start devouring found in like manner. See if you can turn it into a salacious competition. After which, there is only one truly suitable dessert…them.
The Tom Jones is an earthy, primordial seduction to be used on Taureans who have a sense of fun. It’s to be avoided with Librans and Virgos. This seduction is perfect whenever language is a problem. The way you approach a spoonful of ice cream may be all the sexual Esperanto you ever need.

Seduction 5: The Finger-Licking-Good
The more recent version of the Tom Jones seduction is the famous fridge scene from 9 ½ Weeks. {Again, rent the DVD if you need some tips.}
Instead of feeding yourself a la kama, you feed your Taurean a la Sutra.
Pop strawberries and cream in their mouth. Lick any spillage from their face. Hold a large strawberry in your mouth and get them to take it from you. Simultaneously tear flesh from a drumstick. Tease them with food you almost put in their mouth but not quite. Move them smoothly from eating out of your hand to eating you.
This seduction scenario may be intertwined with Peg-Out in the Park or the Tom Jones seduction.

Other good Taurean Seductions:
The Instant Breakfast {see Gemini}
The Declaration of Love {Cancer}
The Intimate Evening for Two {Cancer}
The Tasteful Dirty Weekend {Leo}
The Flower Shop {Leo}
The Slap-and-Tickle {Virgo}
The True Confession {Virgo}
Seduction by Potential {Libra}
The Cuddle Litmus Test {Pisces}
Seduction by Lethargy {Pisces}
How to seduce a Taurus.........Hmmm........ :catgrin:
 
How to Seduce a Virgo​

Key tip number one: Don’t freak them out or stun them in any way during the seductive process.

No shock tactics. Most Virgos will feel threatened rather than excited if you try to sweep them off their feet. There must be no alarming moments.
“If it were done when ‘tis done, then ‘twere well it were done slowly.” it would be a grave mistake to try to pounce on an archetypal Virgo.
If you freak them out, all your previous efforts will have been in vain. They will retreat into prissy and prudish mode and your solid groundwork will turn to mud.
Do not jump this person in a parking lot, behind a bush or especially at work. None of that. Work is taken very seriously. Modesty and propriety demand that the venue be lock-sure, triple-bolted, super-private.
Don’t expect your archetypal Virgo to be overcome by a surge of raw lust because this is your first time together and they just can’t wait. Nor should you expect to be delighted by a delicious lack of inhibition. They often need long foreplay. In fact, they may well need eight-, nine-, or ten-play.
There is hardly a hint of the devil in your archetypal Virgo, which is why spontaneously jumping them is contraindicated. A certain amount of patience is necessary. A spirit of urgency will tend to put them off. Virgos believe in considering things—and then considering them some more. Then sleeping on them and considering them again.

Key tip number two: Never ever present sex as an illicit thrill.

It would be a terminal mistake to try to excite a Virgoan by playing up the wicked we-shouldn’t-really-do-this-so-we-must-do-it-now illicit lure of sex. Virgoan thinking would be, “If we shouldn’t really do this, we most certainly won’t. why have you even suggested it, you degraded animal?”
Virgos are very self-critical. They are terrible moralizers, so you have to tease them along a bit to convince them that what they are about to do is not only terribly moral, but good for their health because it’s natural.

Key tip number three:] Support their sexual egos.

Virgoan egos are often more than a bit behind their actual worth. They often need bolstering—especially in seeing themselves as sexually desirable.
Gently and with extreme diplomacy express your appreciation of their physical appeal. Support the building of confidence on all levels of their life—their career, their social activities, their talents—including those performed in a horizontal position.
This can have long-term sexual benefits for you. It’s worth memorizing this equation:

Reinforcement = Confidence = “I’m sexy” = “I like sex”​

a final warning: don’t necessarily expect a Virgo to pick up on the sexual vibes you put out. Virgos can be sexually obtuse. They can lack talent in sexual banter. Many people carry torches for Virgos for years: they go out with them, lunch with them, drink endless cups of herbal tea with them, have deep conversations with them and, in all this time, it never occurs to the Virgo that this person has the hots for them.

Seduction 1: The True Confession
Honesty is a good tactic in the seduction of a Virgo.
Confess that you are sexually attracted to them. They may be shocked {or pretend to be shocked}, they may even blush, but they will respect your honesty.
This acknowledgment of their sexual attractiveness will also help to increase their sexual self-esteem, which is, as we said, important for Virgos.
Perhaps it may be best to make this confession in a safe public place where they know you won’t jump them. Now retreat for a reasonable period, hours or days, depending on your Virgo, and give them time to assimilate this disturbing news. Return to politely test the waters. If the temperature is right, take the plunge.
Proceed to the Cuddle Litmus Test {Pisces}, or proceed to….

Seduction 2: The Slow-Motion Seduction

Key tactic: Ease along the guilty part of your ego.

Bear in mind that guilt can be a big issue with Virgos—especially guilt about sex. The adult part of them senses where the two of you are going, but the guilty inner child may still be quietly freaking out. Try easing them along, making each step feel very safe, as if nothing is going to happen—certainly nothing at all untoward. “Let’s go back to my place for a cup of coffee… yes, I have decaf…. Why don’t we sit on the couch.” {After much kissing and slowly, slowly, slowly fondling} “We be much more comfortable lying down… Let me rub your neck for you… your back… oh, my belt’s tight after all that food, I’ll just loosen it… You much be hot… can I help you with your shirt… your skin feels so nice… let’s just lie here and hug for a while.”

Seduction 3: The Slap-and-Tickle
One helpful tactic for the seduction of Virgos is to unleash the playful child that is buried under all those parental injunctions against sex. You need to create a bona fide excuse for them to be silly, have fun and let it all hang out.
Tickling could work. If you can get them giggling—tag, water fights, mud fights. Take them to the swings and the merry-go-round. Lots of potential for back-to-back, front-to-front, pelvis-to-pelvis contact here. Double up on the swings, head for the seesaw, use your imagination. Consider a trip to an amusement park. Consider the possibilities of dark tunnel rides.

Seduction 4: Pig-Out in the Park {w/Reduced Fats & Sugars}
Like Taurus, Virgo is an Earth sign. As such, sex in the great outdoors can be quite a stimulating idea. See Pig-Out in the Park {Taurus}. However, modify the menu a la Virgo. Pack your picnic basket at the organic foods store.

Seduction 5: The Clean Weekend
The idea here is to invite your Virgo away fro a weekend—not a dirty one but a clean one. You must, if pressed, be able to state clearly that you don’t intend to hit on them—even though you do.
Possible scenarios include inviting them to join a party at a friend’s vacation home, inviting them to go camping with a group, taking them away to a country inn with “separate bedrooms, of course.”
Your “chaperoning” friends can be forewarned to disappear at the lift of an eyebrow. Many things are possible. At least you will have gotten your Virgo away from work, duties, responsibilities, chores. You may have the opportunity to try some of the other seductions outlined here.
Even if you don’t succeed in getting lost in the garden of earthly delights, you’ll have a fighting chance of putting in some good spadework and planting the seeds of pleasures to come.

Seduction 6: The I-Need-You
Virgos often see sex as another skill they need to learn in order to have a neat, “normal,” healthy life.
Tell them how much you need them in every way. Talk sincerely about how much you respect them, how you need them to be part of your life, how you need them to want you, how you want them to need you, how you need them to need you the way you need them. They may well yield in response to this professed need{even if only just to shut you up}.
Searingly passionate sex mi9ght not be the result, but it could be a good starting point. Practice makes perfect.

Seduction 7: The Masters-and-Johnson
Virgos often see sex as another skill they need to learn in order to have a neat, “normal,” healthy life.
This suggests a possible avenue of seduction: holding out the carrot of sexual education. Formulate a plan based on the age, experience and background of the particular Virgo.
Quote Chairman Mao: “There is no correct theory without practice.”
If you have found yourself a Virgoan woman who confesses to sexual hang-ups, you might engage her in a highly theoretical discussion of possible courses of action. Buy here a copy of the brilliant book Nice Girls Do by Irene kassorla. Lend her your annotated copy. Offer yourself as a therapeutic assistant.

Seduction 8: The It’s-Good-for-You
This is the last resort for seduction of a Virgo.
If you reach an impasse where their urge to do the deed is being paralyzed by the equal and opposite force of their inhibitions, it may help to emphasize how necessary a good sex life is for proper health. Talk about Chinese medicine and how sex is necessary to properly balance your yin and yang. Discuss its beneficial effects on the thymus gland. Drop in some talk of Wilhelm Reich and how the orgasm is the major way that the body throws off stress. Mention how doctors now believe that correct hormonal function depends on having a decent sex life, how sex stimulates the production of endorphins, which have a deep natural regulating effect on the brain…and that sex improves sleep, digestion and performance at work.
It could help.

Seduction 9: The Mrs. Robinson
Middle-aged Virgos have often had a chance to work through the sexual repression of their youth. They can then be almost desperate to make up for lost time. In this mode, Virgos have been known to suddenly throw themselves at the most inappropriate people.
The tramp within the lady is now prepared to embrace all manner of sexual peccadilloes.
If you think you have spotted a Virgoan Lady Chatterley, look through the Scorpio seductions for some ideas to tempt her.

Other good Virgo seductions:

Seduction by Curiosity {See Gemini}
The Intimate Evening for Two {Cancer}
The Declaration of Love {Cancer}
The Stray Dog {Cancer}
The Polite Withdrawal {Cancer}
Seduction by Assumption {Libra}
The Relationships Workshop {Libra}
The Discreet Overture {Capricorn}
The Cuddle Litmus Test {Pisces}
Whispers in the Dark {Pisces}

 
How to Seduce a Libra

Librans receive plenty of dates and invitations -- and they are not generally reluctant to exploit their attractiveness in an apparently cynical fashion by acting the temptress/tempter and playing hard to get. in this sense, Librans can be perceived as terrible prickteasers or pussyteasers. this could be a bit unfair to them. in their eyes, they are simply presenting themselves at their best in case Mr. Right or Ms. Right happens to walk into the room. Librans are great relationship shoppers and are always in the market for a better model than their current one.
The fact that they have gone on a few dates with you does not mean you have been placed in the Mr. or Ms Right category -- you may not even be in the Mr. or Ms Possible category. So be sensitive to the vibes. The fact that you are drippingly hormonal does not mean they want you in the same way. You may be a fill-in -- a temporary dinner date as they continue their search for Mr. or Ms. Perfect.
Librans fear rejection. In consequence, they tend to be passive in matters of passion and aim to be pursued rather than pursue. They actively wait for the right person to come their way and then try to draw in a potential prospect using their physical appeal.
Librans are the Venus flytrap of the Zodiac. Their good looks and Marlene Dietrich aloofness can drive would-be lovers wild with the dual desire to place them on a pedestal and ravish them on the spot.
Don't give in to the second impulse. Direct tactics make Librans uncomfortable. They are amazingly adept at defusing direct questions like "Do you like me?"
Classic Librans like to hold on to this courtship stage for a long time -- they enjoy playing the tease while being pampered and idolized. They feel powerful and in control when playing hard to get. Libran women in particular like to drive men to a frenzy, then retreat as if in fear, pulling away from a horny male showing signes of rampant sexual desperation.
The more desperate you are for them, the cooler you must appear. they don't like the idea of being overwhelmed by animalistic passion. This is not a Sun sign to try to impress with the earth-shaking magnitude of your lust. They expect decorum.
At this stage, they require endless attention -- even to the point of fawning. The women especially will expect the full courtship bit: doors opened for them, constant solicitous questioning about their welfare, flowers, expensive gifts, hand-holding.
As they are tempting and tantalizing you, they themselves are deeply involved in a process of evalutating you -- and reevaluating you. This continuing assessment can be a very protracted business. Librans are renowned for taking a long time to make up their minds

Key Tip
The seduction process must be geared around making it easy for them to decide to have a relationship with you

Or, better still, easy for you to make the decision for them.
Which leads us to.....

Seduction 1: Seduction by Asumption
The power of the unspoken word.
The key here is to act as if they have invited you back to their place for coffee. You just naturally accompany themto the door. You jus naturally follow them inside. You just naturally take their hand and draw them to you. You just naturally lead them to the bedroom. You just naturally remove your jacket and drape it carefully over a chair. You just naturally commence kissing and undressing them.
Calm confidence. Certainty. No urgency. Allegro non troppo.
The point of this is that, if they don't want you, it forces them to make a decision in the negative. They have to get together their iddentity enough to decide one way or the other.
Should you be rejected outright -- "I'm just not sexually attracted to you" -- well, there are other fish in the sea. At least you can stop wasting your time on being strung along by the vacillating Libran.
Should you be postponed -- "I'm not sure if I'm ready for this yet" -- you may proceed to Seduction 2.

Seduction 2: The Relationship Workshop or The Rhetorical Seduction
The aim here is to get them to admit that they do feel attracted to you.
You can hold this Relationship Workshop anywhere -- candlelit dinner at your place, coffee at their place, a walk along a beach. The strategy is to see whether you can whip up some enthusiasm on their part.
Let us assume that you are taking this slowly and, after a repectable length of time -- say two or three dates -- you park the care at a suitably romantic spot: the sun setting, the moon rising, the stars appearing. Now look earnestly at them and say, "I need to know where our relationship is heading. I need to know how you feel about me."
The trick now is to guid the discussion in such a way that they don't have to express their own enthusiasm. What you are after is guided consent. You know they want you. You know they won't tell you they want you. Therefore, you must tell them that you know you both want it -- but subtly, carefully, delicately.
A good idea is to make statements and ask rhetorical questions. Ideally all they have to do is nod. "I feel this special engery between us. Don't you feel that? All relationships are a risk but the way I feel about you, I want to take those risks. Don't you?"
If you can get a nod at this stage, move in then and there for some physical preliminaries, break away, allow a moment or two fo deep and meaningful eye contact, start the car and drive them back to your place. See Seduction by Assumption.

Seduction 3: The Sickeningly Sincere Candlelit Dinner
A good seduction scenario is to entertain your Libran with an elegant, private meal at your home: several small and exquisite courses,your best silverware, red roses everywhere.
All other aspects of your home must look immaculate. You yourself must eat slowly, displaying impeccable manners, tending to their every pleasure. If you normally chow down {like a good Taurean, for instance}, snack before they arrive.
As the meal progresses, compliment themon how they look. {Flattery will get you everywhere, remember.} Draw them out so that they start thinking and talking -- not about sex, but about relationships, of course.
Emphasize that you want to build a relationship of real significance. You might get them talking about their past relationships-- or you could talk about yours. {See tips under the Relationship Workshop.}
Serve them coffee on the couch, sit close and move into deeper more personal talk. Tell them you feel very glad they have come into your life. Say that even though you know this relationship is only beginning, you just know it is going somewhere significant. "I find you very attractive. I feel this could be a very significant relationship. I feel this could have a real future. I feel that this is the most important relationship I've had for a long time. You're like nobody else I've ever met."
Don't blow it by moving too quickly, but it might be worth heading toward the remark, "Don't you think lovemaking is the absolute foundation of a good relationship between a man and a woman?"
As you move into more intimate contact, be solicitous of their feelings. Never be too eager, but when the "moment de pounce" arrives be suavely dominant. Seduce with sophistication.
A key tip for this and all seduction of Librans: Conceal your physical flaws. And allow them the chance to conceal theirs.
Librans are very fussy about physical appearances -- their own and their partner's. Accordingly you are well advised to cover up any parts of you that fail the trim, taut and terrific test.
Lights out -- or one candle -- could be the solution. That way they won't start rating your physical flaws -- or be too self-conscious about any portion of their anatomy that is in less than professional model condition.

Seduction 4: The Sugar Daddy or Sugar Mama
This seduction preys on the Libran tendency to keep one eye open for a better-placed lover.
Libran women are secretly impressed by the bank account and the savoir faire of an older man with a good position in society: style, status and security all in one package. You need not be as weathly as they like to think you are, but timely mutterings about gold shares, property deals and mergers will slip from your lis between moutfuls of pistachioed turkey ballottine.
You must be well off enough to dress well and provide the essentail string of tasteful little gifts. You could have a bit more dash than cash, but you must have some cash. Your Libran must be left with the impression that you are defiitely able to take care of them: you're solid, wise, experienced. You have a Gold Card personality.
This is a seduction to be undertaken at your leisure and pleasure. It is unlikely to yield fast results, but with solid, regular work on your part and assuming no better prospects present themselves to your Libra, within a few weeks you should be all right.
This seduction is best used in pursuit of a lengthier relationshipwith a Libran. It allows them time to marinate. Suave, polished, urbane is the way to come across.

Seduction 5: The Gold-Plated Seduction
This is an archetypal short-circuit seduction for Libra provided you're loaded.
This is a seduction by royal tribute: Sheba bringing tribute to Solomon or Caesar bringing tribute to Cleopatra.
Head straight for the nearest Cartier's, Neiman Marcus, Tiffany's, etc. Seek advice from some sales assistant with good taste. You are after something solid, classic and loaded with platinum, twenty-two-karat gold, diamonds, emeralds, etc. Some possiblities: diamond earrings, a Rolex, a string of pearls, a gold bracelet. Have it professionally gift-wrapped, of course.
Present it that evening over dinner at your local equivalent of the Ritz. Proceed to Seduction by Assumption.

Seduction 6: Sedcution by Potential {The Poor Man's Seduction}
This seduction is to be attempted only by impoverished but terribly refined intellectuals. Soisticated, in-depth intellectual discussions can be a way to make a large impression on a Libran and can constitute a form of foreplay. Libra, like Gemini and Aquarius, is an Air sign and all Air signs are susceptible to seduction via foreplay of the cerebral cortex.
At this stage and we mean at this stage, you may not be able to live up to the normal Libran requirements, but you will soon because you have heaps of potential. Ideally, you are completing a degree in some disgustingly profitable field and are due to be snapped up by a multinational corporation and fast-tracked into their senior executive ranks.
You may happen to mention -- briefly, tastefully, only once {fear not, they will take note} -- that the other people you will be working with are taking home a minimum of a hundred grand a year.
Say you will need new suits. What do they think about Gianni Versace? Do they prefer Giorgio Armani? Would they help you shop for your new wardrobe?
This seduction relies on the fac that Librans don't want you to be the one that got away.
Proceed to the Sickeningly Sincere Candlelit Dinner and emphasize in the course of conversation that you are looking for someone to "build a life with."

Seduction 7: Seduction by Competition
A key tip for getting a Libran sexually interested is to come across as Hot Property.
If you're not actually a star, if you're not as declicious as Mel Gibson or as delectable as Michelle Pfeiffer, If you're not rich or famous...never mind. There is a simple technique for appearing to be Hot Property: make it known that many members of the opposite sex are in pursuit of you.
If the Libran sees others pursuing you, this will convince them you are desirable; therefore they will desire you. Libran logic at work. They want someone everyone else wants.
Librans like others to compete for their favors and, in turn, they see a potential partner as more valuable if they have to compete for him or her.
If you aren't actually being pursued by a horde of hunks or a battalion of beauties, don't despair -- all you need is the appearance of being pursued. For this you can use techniques such as the Return of the Old Flame, the Phantom Lover or the Hot Hunk.
There is another plus to using Seduction by Competition. Librans are terrible vacillators, and this includes deciding whether to jump into bed with you. If they feel they are in competition with another person, they may leap into bed with you a lot sooner ofr fear of losing you to another and so having you become the one that got away.

Seduction by Competition {i}: The Return of the Old Flame.
One way to accelerate the Libran seduction process is to tellthem about an old flame who is about to return from overseas. You may talk of Stefan or Jacqueline, who phoned to say they'll be back next week and wants to have a serious talk with you. If the Libran doesn't immediately suggest that theymight be interested in getting back together, mention the possiblity yourself. Make no comment about what your thoughts on the matter might be. Or consider saying, "Yeah, so he/she's good-looking and rich, but I don't know... I want someone who understands the importance of a relationship. Then again, maybe they've changed."
Your value and the urgency of the situation have now skyrocketed inthe Libran's mind. Proceed to Sickeningly Sincere Candlelit Dinner.

Seduction by Competition {ii}: The Phantom Lover.
Here you increase your desirability in the eyesof the Libran by creating a smokescreen of phantom lovers who are eager to sample your charms. Send yourself flowers when and where the Libran will take note. Ensure that the Libran is there when you hear certain message on your answering machine. Have the Libran continually catching you on the phone turning down a date. Perhaps you could receive unsigned love letters from someone promising you the earth and too shy to reveal their identity -- yet. Ask the Libran if is was he or she who sent them.

Seduction by Competition {iii}: The Hot Hunk or Blond Bombshell Techinque
You arrive at a party where you know your Libran target will be. Draped over your arm is the most exquiste enhancement to your appeal and desirability: the quintessential Blond Bombshell or Hot Hunk. Arrive an hour late and make a grand entrance. Jaws must drop as you enter the room with BB or HH at your side.
Where you find them is your own business. In the abssense of a friend, neighbor, cousin or old classmate who fills the bill, phone an escort agency.
Your desirability to the Libran has jumped exponentially. You must be highly desirable because you have such a highly desirable person with you. Therefore, they desire you. Once again, this is Libran logic.
Congratulations, you're now Hot Property. Move in fast. Proceed to Seduction by Flattery, followed quickly by Seduction by Assumption.

Seduction by Competition {iv}: Seduction by Social Expectation
Librans have been known to take a lover simply because "everybody else is doing it." If all their other friends are having affairs and they aren't, they will be tempted to begin one simply to keep up with the Joneses.
How you pull this one off will depend on their social milieu. If you can impress on the Libran that their riends are engaging in something they are missing out on -- you will have gotten their attention. If you can further convince them that their friends will be jealous of their having gotten you, you will be halfway home.

Seduction 8: Seduction by Flattery
All Libran seductions should be complemented by Seduction by Flattery.
In this method, you focus specifically on the narcissist inside every Libran.

Stage-One Flattery{at first meeting}

"You've got fabulous hair."

"You look stunning in that outfit."

"Haven't I seen you before somewhere? Do you ever lunch at the Russian Tea Room?"

"Are you a model? Haven't I seen you in a magazaine somewhere?"

"Are you dressed by Bijan?"

"I couldn't help noticing your {some item of clothing}."

"I couldn't help noticing your dress. Is it a _________?"

"Have you ever been told you look a bit like Brigitte Bardot/Catherine Deneuve/Sharon Stone/Michelle Pfeiffer/Elle MacPherson?"

"Something about you strongly reminds me of Sean Connery/Kevin Costner/Patrick Swayze/Clint Eastwood/Robert Redford/Mel Gibson."

Stage-Two Flattery {more intimate -- one-on-one}

"You've got a fabulous figure."

"How oftern do you work out?"

"You've got stunning eyes."

"You've got great legs."

"I love your shoulders."

Stage-Three Flattery {between first and second base}

"You drive me crazy."

"You're absolutely gorgeous."

"I've never met a woman/man like you."

"You're the woman/man I've been looking for all my life."

"I can't believe we found each other."

"you've got skin like silk." {Your hand should be covering a fairly wide territory by this stage.}

"Did you know that you've been driving me wild with desire for weeks?" At this stage, you can express more than verbal appreciation.

Proceed to Seduction by Assumption.
The time lapse betweeen Stage One and Stage Three could be months, or days, or even hours, depending on your Libran and whether the stars are with you.

Seduction 9: The Libran Wedding Fantasy
Plan this seduction for the night after a wedding -- not your own, someone else's. This will have Libra's romantic juices flowing. The whole wedding atmosphere is a major form of foreplay for a Libran. Indeed, you may not have to wait until after the wedding -- remember The Godfather. There's more than one use for an organ loft.

Other good Libran seductions:

Seduction on the Battlefield {intellectual battle only - see Aries}
The Polite Withdrawal {Cancer}
The Romanitc Movie Move {Cancer}
The Declaration of Love {Cancer}
The Five-Star Seduction {Leo}
The Surprise Formal Dinner {Leo}
The I-Need-You {Virgo}
Whispers in the Dark {Pisces}
Portents of Passion {Pisces}
 
Haha, holy fuck, that whole gemini schpiel is so true of me... :D

I’m not schizophrenic –
We’re a Gemini.
 
spiritshadow67 said:
How to Seduce a Libra

Librans receive plenty of dates and invitations -- and they are not generally reluctant to exploit their attractiveness in an apparently cynical fashion by acting the temptress/tempter and playing hard to get. in this sense, Librans can be perceived as terrible prickteasers or pussyteasers. this could be a bit unfair to them. in their eyes, they are simply presenting themselves at their best in case Mr. Right or Ms. Right happens to walk into the room. Librans are great relationship shoppers and are always in the market for a better model than their current one.
The fact that they have gone on a few dates with you does not mean you have been placed in the Mr. or Ms Right category -- you may not even be in the Mr. or Ms Possible category. So be sensitive to the vibes. The fact that you are drippingly hormonal does not mean they want you in the same way. You may be a fill-in -- a temporary dinner date as they continue their search for Mr. or Ms. Perfect.
Librans fear rejection. In consequence, they tend to be passive in matters of passion and aim to be pursued rather than pursue. They actively wait for the right person to come their way and then try to draw in a potential prospect using their physical appeal.
Librans are the Venus flytrap of the Zodiac. Their good looks and Marlene Dietrich aloofness can drive would-be lovers wild with the dual desire to place them on a pedestal and ravish them on the spot.
Don't give in to the second impulse. Direct tactics make Librans uncomfortable. They are amazingly adept at defusing direct questions like "Do you like me?"
Classic Librans like to hold on to this courtship stage for a long time -- they enjoy playing the tease while being pampered and idolized. They feel powerful and in control when playing hard to get. Libran women in particular like to drive men to a frenzy, then retreat as if in fear, pulling away from a horny male showing signes of rampant sexual desperation.
The more desperate you are for them, the cooler you must appear. they don't like the idea of being overwhelmed by animalistic passion. This is not a Sun sign to try to impress with the earth-shaking magnitude of your lust. They expect decorum.
At this stage, they require endless attention -- even to the point of fawning. The women especially will expect the full courtship bit: doors opened for them, constant solicitous questioning about their welfare, flowers, expensive gifts, hand-holding.
As they are tempting and tantalizing you, they themselves are deeply involved in a process of evalutating you -- and reevaluating you. This continuing assessment can be a very protracted business. Librans are renowned for taking a long time to make up their minds

Key Tip
The seduction process must be geared around making it easy for them to decide to have a relationship with you

Or, better still, easy for you to make the decision for them.
Which leads us to.....

Seduction 1: Seduction by Asumption
The power of the unspoken word.
The key here is to act as if they have invited you back to their place for coffee. You just naturally accompany themto the door. You jus naturally follow them inside. You just naturally take their hand and draw them to you. You just naturally lead them to the bedroom. You just naturally remove your jacket and drape it carefully over a chair. You just naturally commence kissing and undressing them.
Calm confidence. Certainty. No urgency. Allegro non troppo.
The point of this is that, if they don't want you, it forces them to make a decision in the negative. They have to get together their iddentity enough to decide one way or the other.
Should you be rejected outright -- "I'm just not sexually attracted to you" -- well, there are other fish in the sea. At least you can stop wasting your time on being strung along by the vacillating Libran.
Should you be postponed -- "I'm not sure if I'm ready for this yet" -- you may proceed to Seduction 2.

Seduction 2: The Relationship Workshop or The Rhetorical Seduction
The aim here is to get them to admit that they do feel attracted to you.
You can hold this Relationship Workshop anywhere -- candlelit dinner at your place, coffee at their place, a walk along a beach. The strategy is to see whether you can whip up some enthusiasm on their part.
Let us assume that you are taking this slowly and, after a repectable length of time -- say two or three dates -- you park the care at a suitably romantic spot: the sun setting, the moon rising, the stars appearing. Now look earnestly at them and say, "I need to know where our relationship is heading. I need to know how you feel about me."
The trick now is to guid the discussion in such a way that they don't have to express their own enthusiasm. What you are after is guided consent. You know they want you. You know they won't tell you they want you. Therefore, you must tell them that you know you both want it -- but subtly, carefully, delicately.
A good idea is to make statements and ask rhetorical questions. Ideally all they have to do is nod. "I feel this special engery between us. Don't you feel that? All relationships are a risk but the way I feel about you, I want to take those risks. Don't you?"
If you can get a nod at this stage, move in then and there for some physical preliminaries, break away, allow a moment or two fo deep and meaningful eye contact, start the car and drive them back to your place. See Seduction by Assumption.

Seduction 3: The Sickeningly Sincere Candlelit Dinner
A good seduction scenario is to entertain your Libran with an elegant, private meal at your home: several small and exquisite courses,your best silverware, red roses everywhere.
All other aspects of your home must look immaculate. You yourself must eat slowly, displaying impeccable manners, tending to their every pleasure. If you normally chow down {like a good Taurean, for instance}, snack before they arrive.
As the meal progresses, compliment themon how they look. {Flattery will get you everywhere, remember.} Draw them out so that they start thinking and talking -- not about sex, but about relationships, of course.
Emphasize that you want to build a relationship of real significance. You might get them talking about their past relationships-- or you could talk about yours. {See tips under the Relationship Workshop.}
Serve them coffee on the couch, sit close and move into deeper more personal talk. Tell them you feel very glad they have come into your life. Say that even though you know this relationship is only beginning, you just know it is going somewhere significant. "I find you very attractive. I feel this could be a very significant relationship. I feel this could have a real future. I feel that this is the most important relationship I've had for a long time. You're like nobody else I've ever met."
Don't blow it by moving too quickly, but it might be worth heading toward the remark, "Don't you think lovemaking is the absolute foundation of a good relationship between a man and a woman?"
As you move into more intimate contact, be solicitous of their feelings. Never be too eager, but when the "moment de pounce" arrives be suavely dominant. Seduce with sophistication.
A key tip for this and all seduction of Librans: Conceal your physical flaws. And allow them the chance to conceal theirs.
Librans are very fussy about physical appearances -- their own and their partner's. Accordingly you are well advised to cover up any parts of you that fail the trim, taut and terrific test.
Lights out -- or one candle -- could be the solution. That way they won't start rating your physical flaws -- or be too self-conscious about any portion of their anatomy that is in less than professional model condition.

Seduction 4: The Sugar Daddy or Sugar Mama
This seduction preys on the Libran tendency to keep one eye open for a better-placed lover.
Libran women are secretly impressed by the bank account and the savoir faire of an older man with a good position in society: style, status and security all in one package. You need not be as weathly as they like to think you are, but timely mutterings about gold shares, property deals and mergers will slip from your lis between moutfuls of pistachioed turkey ballottine.
You must be well off enough to dress well and provide the essentail string of tasteful little gifts. You could have a bit more dash than cash, but you must have some cash. Your Libran must be left with the impression that you are defiitely able to take care of them: you're solid, wise, experienced. You have a Gold Card personality.
This is a seduction to be undertaken at your leisure and pleasure. It is unlikely to yield fast results, but with solid, regular work on your part and assuming no better prospects present themselves to your Libra, within a few weeks you should be all right.
This seduction is best used in pursuit of a lengthier relationshipwith a Libran. It allows them time to marinate. Suave, polished, urbane is the way to come across.

Seduction 5: The Gold-Plated Seduction
This is an archetypal short-circuit seduction for Libra provided you're loaded.
This is a seduction by royal tribute: Sheba bringing tribute to Solomon or Caesar bringing tribute to Cleopatra.
Head straight for the nearest Cartier's, Neiman Marcus, Tiffany's, etc. Seek advice from some sales assistant with good taste. You are after something solid, classic and loaded with platinum, twenty-two-karat gold, diamonds, emeralds, etc. Some possiblities: diamond earrings, a Rolex, a string of pearls, a gold bracelet. Have it professionally gift-wrapped, of course.
Present it that evening over dinner at your local equivalent of the Ritz. Proceed to Seduction by Assumption.

Seduction 6: Sedcution by Potential {The Poor Man's Seduction}
This seduction is to be attempted only by impoverished but terribly refined intellectuals. Soisticated, in-depth intellectual discussions can be a way to make a large impression on a Libran and can constitute a form of foreplay. Libra, like Gemini and Aquarius, is an Air sign and all Air signs are susceptible to seduction via foreplay of the cerebral cortex.
At this stage and we mean at this stage, you may not be able to live up to the normal Libran requirements, but you will soon because you have heaps of potential. Ideally, you are completing a degree in some disgustingly profitable field and are due to be snapped up by a multinational corporation and fast-tracked into their senior executive ranks.
You may happen to mention -- briefly, tastefully, only once {fear not, they will take note} -- that the other people you will be working with are taking home a minimum of a hundred grand a year.
Say you will need new suits. What do they think about Gianni Versace? Do they prefer Giorgio Armani? Would they help you shop for your new wardrobe?
This seduction relies on the fac that Librans don't want you to be the one that got away.
Proceed to the Sickeningly Sincere Candlelit Dinner and emphasize in the course of conversation that you are looking for someone to "build a life with."

Seduction 7: Seduction by Competition
A key tip for getting a Libran sexually interested is to come across as Hot Property.
If you're not actually a star, if you're not as declicious as Mel Gibson or as delectable as Michelle Pfeiffer, If you're not rich or famous...never mind. There is a simple technique for appearing to be Hot Property: make it known that many members of the opposite sex are in pursuit of you.
If the Libran sees others pursuing you, this will convince them you are desirable; therefore they will desire you. Libran logic at work. They want someone everyone else wants.
Librans like others to compete for their favors and, in turn, they see a potential partner as more valuable if they have to compete for him or her.
If you aren't actually being pursued by a horde of hunks or a battalion of beauties, don't despair -- all you need is the appearance of being pursued. For this you can use techniques such as the Return of the Old Flame, the Phantom Lover or the Hot Hunk.
There is another plus to using Seduction by Competition. Librans are terrible vacillators, and this includes deciding whether to jump into bed with you. If they feel they are in competition with another person, they may leap into bed with you a lot sooner ofr fear of losing you to another and so having you become the one that got away.

Seduction by Competition {i}: The Return of the Old Flame.
One way to accelerate the Libran seduction process is to tellthem about an old flame who is about to return from overseas. You may talk of Stefan or Jacqueline, who phoned to say they'll be back next week and wants to have a serious talk with you. If the Libran doesn't immediately suggest that theymight be interested in getting back together, mention the possiblity yourself. Make no comment about what your thoughts on the matter might be. Or consider saying, "Yeah, so he/she's good-looking and rich, but I don't know... I want someone who understands the importance of a relationship. Then again, maybe they've changed."
Your value and the urgency of the situation have now skyrocketed inthe Libran's mind. Proceed to Sickeningly Sincere Candlelit Dinner.

Seduction by Competition {ii}: The Phantom Lover.
Here you increase your desirability in the eyesof the Libran by creating a smokescreen of phantom lovers who are eager to sample your charms. Send yourself flowers when and where the Libran will take note. Ensure that the Libran is there when you hear certain message on your answering machine. Have the Libran continually catching you on the phone turning down a date. Perhaps you could receive unsigned love letters from someone promising you the earth and too shy to reveal their identity -- yet. Ask the Libran if is was he or she who sent them.

Seduction by Competition {iii}: The Hot Hunk or Blond Bombshell Techinque
You arrive at a party where you know your Libran target will be. Draped over your arm is the most exquiste enhancement to your appeal and desirability: the quintessential Blond Bombshell or Hot Hunk. Arrive an hour late and make a grand entrance. Jaws must drop as you enter the room with BB or HH at your side.
Where you find them is your own business. In the abssense of a friend, neighbor, cousin or old classmate who fills the bill, phone an escort agency.
Your desirability to the Libran has jumped exponentially. You must be highly desirable because you have such a highly desirable person with you. Therefore, they desire you. Once again, this is Libran logic.
Congratulations, you're now Hot Property. Move in fast. Proceed to Seduction by Flattery, followed quickly by Seduction by Assumption.

Seduction by Competition {iv}: Seduction by Social Expectation
Librans have been known to take a lover simply because "everybody else is doing it." If all their other friends are having affairs and they aren't, they will be tempted to begin one simply to keep up with the Joneses.
How you pull this one off will depend on their social milieu. If you can impress on the Libran that their riends are engaging in something they are missing out on -- you will have gotten their attention. If you can further convince them that their friends will be jealous of their having gotten you, you will be halfway home.

Seduction 8: Seduction by Flattery
All Libran seductions should be complemented by Seduction by Flattery.
In this method, you focus specifically on the narcissist inside every Libran.

Stage-One Flattery{at first meeting}

"You've got fabulous hair."

"You look stunning in that outfit."

"Haven't I seen you before somewhere? Do you ever lunch at the Russian Tea Room?"

"Are you a model? Haven't I seen you in a magazaine somewhere?"

"Are you dressed by Bijan?"

"I couldn't help noticing your {some item of clothing}."

"I couldn't help noticing your dress. Is it a _________?"

"Have you ever been told you look a bit like Brigitte Bardot/Catherine Deneuve/Sharon Stone/Michelle Pfeiffer/Elle MacPherson?"

"Something about you strongly reminds me of Sean Connery/Kevin Costner/Patrick Swayze/Clint Eastwood/Robert Redford/Mel Gibson."

Stage-Two Flattery {more intimate -- one-on-one}

"You've got a fabulous figure."

"How oftern do you work out?"

"You've got stunning eyes."

"You've got great legs."

"I love your shoulders."

Stage-Three Flattery {between first and second base}

"You drive me crazy."

"You're absolutely gorgeous."

"I've never met a woman/man like you."

"You're the woman/man I've been looking for all my life."

"I can't believe we found each other."

"you've got skin like silk." {Your hand should be covering a fairly wide territory by this stage.}

"Did you know that you've been driving me wild with desire for weeks?" At this stage, you can express more than verbal appreciation.

Proceed to Seduction by Assumption.
The time lapse betweeen Stage One and Stage Three could be months, or days, or even hours, depending on your Libran and whether the stars are with you.

Seduction 9: The Libran Wedding Fantasy
Plan this seduction for the night after a wedding -- not your own, someone else's. This will have Libra's romantic juices flowing. The whole wedding atmosphere is a major form of foreplay for a Libran. Indeed, you may not have to wait until after the wedding -- remember The Godfather. There's more than one use for an organ loft.

Other good Libran seductions:

Seduction on the Battlefield {intellectual battle only - see Aries}
The Polite Withdrawal {Cancer}
The Romanitc Movie Move {Cancer}
The Declaration of Love {Cancer}
The Five-Star Seduction {Leo}
The Surprise Formal Dinner {Leo}
The I-Need-You {Virgo}
Whispers in the Dark {Pisces}
Portents of Passion {Pisces}
What about a Aquarius, must be simpler.
 
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