Women who fantasize about or want to watch their significant other with other people, and who would that other person/people be?

[BongoGal]

I did once have a very vivid dream about my then-bf having vigorous but furtive sex with a mutual friend of ours. I was watching this somehow, but they had no idea. I thought, "I can't believe they're doing this. I'm sort of mad, but it's also kind of erotic." I had thoughts of telling one or the other about this dream, but doing so seemed too creepy.

 

[zoso682001]

I did once have a very vivid dream about my then-bf having vigorous but furtive sex with a mutual friend of ours. I was watching this somehow, but they had no idea. I thought, "I can't believe they're doing this. I'm sort of mad, but it's also kind of erotic." I had thoughts of telling one or the other about this dream, but doing so seemed too creepy.

Your bf would love to hear all about it !

 

[AficionadoAngel]

It is something that I fantasize about more than I used to, but then I also haven't had a steady boyfriend for some time.

Back when I had a boyfriend in college I also had a female friend who was still a virgin and for some reason I really wanted her to have sex. After trying unsuccessfully to get her hooked up with numerous guys I came to the realization that I was turned on by the idea of her being with a guy for the first time and a part of me would have liked to see it, or even hear it happening. That led me to thinking, "would I let my boyfriend have sex with her if I got to be there?". I wasn't quite sure, but the idea started to arouse me more and more. It never would have happened because it would have just been too weird for all three of us, but I still fantasize about it down to every detail.

 

[ky81nea]

My ex used to enjoy watching me with other men. She was extremely aroused by that. I like watching her with other men also.

i wanted to see my husband fucked by another man but he has health issues and has NO desire for sex of any kind so i have a live in lesbian partner lol

 

[ky81nea]

I always wanted to watch my husband nail a man.. I watched him suck, and do other things, but never got to see that..I also have not see him bottom and wish i had . He has parkinsons and no longer has any interest in sex. Not with me or a man. I am sooo luck because i have my live in lesbian partner for my pleasure..

 

[Missthefriz]

Perhaps my situation is different as I have watched hubs with 6 other women in the past 3 years. However, the second part of the question intrigues me - I had never pondered it - what woman/women do I know that I would like to watch him with? Suddenly, I have a 'to-do' list

 

[Missthefriz]

Perhaps my situation is different as I have watched hubs with 6 other women in the past 3 years. However, the second part of the question intrigues me - I had never pondered it - what woman/women do I know that I would like to watch him with? Suddenly, I have a 'to-do' list

which keeps growing as I think about it

 

[Sienna62]

I never thought I’d say this, but this is a pretty hot fantasy. Not sure if it would work in real life and it may not be for everyone, but the thread intrigued me.
It’s somehow awoken something in me I didn’t think was there. I wouldn’t mind being the extra woman in these scenarios. Having his wife hold my hand or kiss me as her husbands cock pistons into me. Or having her instruct me on how he enjoys to have his cock pleasured as I have him in my mouth. Plus, I’m bi so I can please both any time, any way.

Or it could be that I just enjoy threesomes.

Just

 

[Naughty_Natalie]

You are not alone. I love watching my husband with other women. Just a week or so ago, my best friend told me that she discovered she is turned on by it after another friend of ours and gave her hubs a drunken BJ.

 

[ky81nea]

Just

i would like to see another woman pleasure my female partner and help her out some lol

 

[BronRay69]

It's not really my thing (although, I can't say I've never wondered what it would be like to be with two bi men - something I have not done before), and I am very sure it's not Hubby's thing, but I'm always supportive of people finding what makes them happy and fulfilled.

I'd love a wife who would enjoy watching me with another woman. Where can I find a wife like you?

 

[ky81nea]

I'd love a wife who would enjoy watching me with another woman. Where can I find a wife like you?

it is a matter of communication and sexual wellness for each.. But our society tells everyone they are not to be with anyone but the one well it does not always suit each couple sometimes just having the communication will work and talking about ones needs and desires.

 

[BronRay69]

it is a matter of communication and sexual wellness for each.. But our society tells everyone they are not to be with anyone but the one well it does not always suit each couple sometimes just having the communication will work and talking about ones needs and desires.

Actually my wife passed away so I don't have a sex life now

 

[BeMeLove]

Have you ever despised someone but for whatever reason your body just reacts sexually to them? For me, it was the team mom for my son's sports team. My husband was the head coach. From the first time we shook hands, something in my body lurched. I have had some attraction to females in my life but never like this.

She did not start out being an attention seeking whore but as soon as it was just her allowed at team meetings and late practices, her shorts got shorter, her neckline got lower and she was never without her hair and make-up done. I had a growing pit in my stomach each night when DH would get home later and later from practice.

The months passed and the more time my husband spent with her, the more contempt I had for her. He told me I was being a little crazy and nothing was going on, but one night I decided to ride over to the field well after practice should have finished. I found them talking, her leaned against his pickup and him standing with his arm resting above the window. Our boys were running around playing while they were [from my viewpoint] flirting.

A few nights later I decided to sneak a look into my husband's chat with the other coaches. My jaw dropped when they were discussing the Team Mom's end of the year gift and one of the other coaches suggested my husband get her something really nice with a few winky faces.

My internal battle continued for two months as the mere mention of her name had me simultaneously raging and dripping wet.

The season ended in a celebration where her gift was to be handed out, I purchased the gift card and flowers for her. Since she had brought a few instances of unrest to our marriage, I begged him to let anyone else present her with the flowers. He assured me he would.. but when the time came, in front of all of the team and all of the parents, he gave a glowing speech about her and called her to the front of the room and presented her with the flowers! She cried and they shared an embrace in front of everyone.

Anyway, she is who I think about when I rub my pussy. I imagine catching her riding him in the front seat of the pickup, instead of just standing there talking the night I followed him. I imagine my husband describing the way her pussy felt wrapped around his hard dick, to the other coaches in their group chat. And I imagine her giving him an extra thank you behind the rec building the night he gave her the flowers. I imagine her looking up at him with her beautiful doe eyes as she properly thanked him with her perfect mouth, pausing just to finish him off by having him shoot his ropes of cum on the flowers I picked out for her.


That's who I imagine.

 

[BronRay69]

Wow. This so intense. So you're straight and this is the only woman you're attracted to. Have you considered coming on to her to see how she reacts? I think about how a male wanked me to my first orgasm when I'm masturbating sometimes.