Cock Talk

[MindYaBitness]

Ya know- I've never done a girl:girl JOI

Hope you don't mind a novice, this phenomenon is fairly new to me

 

[jimmyipeek]

how is the best way to make ur dick and balls smooth? is there a video or something that shows how 2 do it ?

 

[MindYaBitness]

how is the best way to make ur dick and balls smooth? is there a video or something that shows how 2 do it ?

Cirépil Blue hard wax, lots of it, a skilled aesthetician, and a piece of leather to bite down on, should do the trick

 

[hotoldrguy]

just did a Lit forum search in titles for JOI. Did not expect any results and yet....

 

[Artfan2]

Ya know- I've never done a girl:girl JOI

Yet ...not yet.

 

[Apisto42]

Does anyone use “JOI” (jerk off instruction) videos?
*blinks*

I ... did not know this was a thing.

me neither!

Lit, the place that still surprises me.

 

[crazychemgirl]

Does anyone use “JOI” (jerk off instruction) videos?
I wasn’t aware such a thing existed … do men need such a thing?
Do you find them sexy or just odd?
it is a bit odd, I guess? … I dunno… I’ve never seen one so I guess I don’t really have an opinion on the matter


Is there a Jill Off Instruction version of this?
no … but I have written “Jill off” instructions for a friend of mine… she had never been able to orgasm so I just told her (in detail) what I do to get off… without any toys.
She messaged me a week later and said she had her first ever orgasm. I enjoyed being the orgasm fairy.

When you look at porn, do you imagine yourself as the person in the video, or do you feel more voyeuristic?
sometimes both … it varies.

Does breaking the fourth wall ruin the fantasy or increase it?
again… depends on the video.

 

[Hornymwtxn]

just did a Lit forum search in titles for JOI. Did not expect any results and yet....

Be sure and share the findings of your research efforts.

 

[jimmyipeek]

Cirépil Blue hard wax, lots of it, a skilled aesthetician, and a piece of leather to bite down on, should do the trick

haha

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Gotta love a good coach.

Speaking of a good coach . . .

Does anyone use “JOI” (jerk off instruction) videos?

I have once. It was fun, but definitely requires the proper mindset.

Do you find them sexy or just odd?

Some are ridiculous. Some are great - just like every other category.

Have you ever made a JOI for a friend?

Nope, but if a friend wants one, just let me know!

Is there a Jill Off Instruction version of this?

I'm like a blind deer, because I have no-eyed-deer!

When you look at porn, do you imagine yourself as the person in the video, or do you feel more voyeuristic?

Almost always a participant.

Does breaking the fourth wall ruin the fantasy or increase it?

Depends on the video, but there have been some that reference a "plow cam" and that can be hot. Just watching a woman's facial expressions can be incredibly erotic. Breaking that wall also makes it more voyeuristic, which can be good too.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Does anyone use “JOI” (jerk off instruction) videos?
I don't. I'd be down to try with someone I knew but for me it's about the timing of an orgasm. My body is stubborn and will orgasm when it feels like it, my preferences be damned.
That's why I like receiving jerk off instructions in real life. The instructor (enny safe link) can read the room (and by room, I mean my vagina) to coach me over the edge

Do you find them sexy or just odd?
Some are sexy
Most are odd to me, but the guys seem to like them, so power to them.

Have you ever made a JOI for a friend?
Not recorded.
I've given oral instruction. Highly recommend.

Is there a Jill Off Instruction version of this?
There ought to be
It seems like I need to talk to @crazychemgirl

When you look at porn, do you imagine yourself as the person in the video, or do you feel more voyeuristic?
I do imagine myself as the girl when I watch these. Maybe that's why I find a lot of them silly and odd; I can't personally relate.

This is what I think of when I think of JOI (not even slightly enny safe)

 

[Endless_Night]

First, thank you for the link tagging!

Seriously, thank you.

Is there a Jill Off Instruction version of this?
There ought to be

This is how I . . . you know, when, you know, play is happening.

Either voice or recording. I've never experienced it real time. And it's never occurred to me to go looking for it outside of an actual play partner. I'm wondering if it would work. Maybe?

It seems like I need to talk to @crazychemgirl

I think we may all need to talk to @crazychemgirl.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I'm wondering if it would work. Maybe?

There's one audio that may work for you. You can PM me to ask more and request it. I really like it. Not JOI exactly but a dominating aural experience in the same kind of way.

 

[Endless_Night]

There's one audio that may work for you. You can PM me to ask more and request it. I really like it. Not JOI exactly but a dominating aural experience in the same kind of way.

*ears perk*

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Hell, I'm feeling reckless tonight. (< That's the audio. It won't auto play)

Nerdy, softcore, nerd, domination, orgasm denial, library, degradation

 

[Endless_Night]

Hell, I'm feeling reckless tonight

Well, just cancel that PM.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Well, just cancel that PM.

I sent it so you can easily find it again, and again, and again...

 

[Endless_Night]

I sent it so you can easily find it again, and again, and again...

That good?!

It works that well?

Wow. Well now I'm just all kinds of curious.

 

[hotwords229_A]

It never ceases to amaze me how the questions I think will go nowhere suddenly take a hot turn!

It’s almost like I have no idea what I’m doing.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

It never ceases to amaze me how the questions I think will go nowhere suddenly take a hot turn!

It’s almost like I have no idea what I’m doing.

Do you need me to record in delicious detail what it is you need to do?

 

[Endless_Night]

Do you need me to record in delicious detail what it is you need to do?

*thunk*

 

[smtst5]

 

[aussiegeekygal]

*thunk*

You need me to?

 

[hotwords229_A]

Do you need me to record in delicious detail what it is you need to do?

Sounds like you might be able to straighten me out.

 

[Bbl87]

Do you have a date night with your partner?

No, we've tried in the past. It worked for awhile but then they ended up getting "postponed" regularly and never rescheduled.

Do you/should you have a “let’s try something new” sex night scheduled in a relationship?

I would like to. I'd like to try some new things, but she's not usually down for it. Getting her to participate in the old standbys is difficult enough.

Do you regularly have a conversation (feedback, etc.) about sex with your partner?

I try to, but she generally doesn't want to talk about it. Or it somehow turns into a fight.

If you told your partner “Anything goes” for sex one night, what do you think they would come up with?

Going to sleep.

What would you come up with?

Anything from my bucket list that I havent gotten to experience, which is quite extensive. Sex outside, sex in a car, threescore, sex in a hottub, anal just off the top of my head...

What is a sexual act you want to try, but you’re too shy, concerned, hesitant or embarrassed to bring up with your partner now or in the past?

See above. Only had 2 partners, so not much chance to try much outside the basics.

How do you keep sex alive and well in a relationship?

If you figure out the secret, let me know. I've ben trying for 12 years.