Chaos: Don't Stress, Undress

[MindYaBitness]

Having been the other half to a eerily similar story, I understand your feelings. Similar 8-9 hours and all that goes with it. Far more common than people realize.
Thank you for sharing.

There isn't an appropriate reaction in the set of options here to express the combination of emotions I myself feel when I come to understand what our twisted priorities do to women. It's good that you are able to find the care you needed to restore some sense of better, but I'm sorry you had to go through that

I hate our whole medical system. But to you and every other mother out there, if anyone disparages anything about the toll you and your bodies underwent to bring new life - fuck them. You don't deserve that shit.

You're miracle workers, all of you.

Thank you, gentleman, all I ask is you love & support the women in your life, as I'm sure they've had to slay a medical Goliath more than once. Changing the institutional patriarchy that is western medicine is going yo take a frustratingly long time to fix.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

2024 - Thyroidectomy after cancer

 

[y=mx+b]

Voldemort

 

[Lmizzler]

So many cool scars and incredible stories to go with them. Thanks for sharing everyone

 

[fishnfool]

Bringing life into this world is a feat that we as a society take for granted as some sort of common place miracle, whether of god or evolution, while ignoring the steep cost to a woman's body. The price was unexpectedly higher than I anticipated. And, a decade+ later I felt like the mob enforcer of womanhood was knocking on my abs telling me to pay up or live with innumerable issues for the rest of my life.

My 5 hour surgery ended up taking 8 hours. My scars, larger, and more numerous than initially planned. Someday they'll fade to white. Someday I won't give them a second thought. Someday, someday, someday...but for now they're a garish reminder that doctors & insurance viewed my body as disposable, and anything to do with motherhood was par for the course. I found my own surgeon, paid out of pocket, just to have a chance at a better quality of life. Worth it.
https://i.ibb.co/3F7QkRs/Scars.jpg

The scars bore a beautiful outcome. They are to be treasured.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

This scar on the back of my upper arm is left over from wrasslin’ with my dog years ago. He was just playing and didn’t mean to scratch me, but those big German Shepherd paws can pack a punch sometimes.

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[DannieB]

Once upon a time, I didn’t like my C-section scars. I think I saw them as something they took from me rather than giving me the two best people in my life.

When I got pregnant with my son I so wanted to give birth naturally. The scariest day of my life was sitting in that hospital room and seeing his heart rate disappear off of the monitor.

I had my daughter a year and a half later and after hearing all of the risks with a natural birth without giving the scar tissue enough time to heal, I opted for another C-section.

I’ve been told I didn’t actually give birth since they were cut out of me and I should’ve taken the risks even if it could’ve caused them and/or me major health issues or our lives.

I love those scars now and see my babies forever etched on my skin.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Once upon a time, I didn’t like my C-section scars. I think I saw them as something they took from me rather than giving me the two best people in my life.

When I got pregnant with my son I so wanted to give birth naturally. The scariest day of my life was sitting in that hospital room and seeing his heart rate disappear off of the monitor.

I had my daughter a year and a half later and after hearing all of the risks with a natural birth without giving the scar tissue enough time to heal, I opted for another C-section.

I’ve been told I didn’t actually give birth since they were cut out of me and I should’ve taken the risks even if it could’ve caused them and/or me major health issues or our lives.

I love those scars now and see my babies forever etched on my skin.

Honestly though, it's one of the more inconspicuous C-section scars I've seen. That said, that line is proof you'll do what is right for your babies, and that's a beautiful thing.

 

[MatMacL616]

It’s abhorrent to me that anyone would have the temerity to say something that awful and flat out wrong to you about you, your children and tribulation you endured to bring them into the world. Like MMA said, that subtle line is all the evidence anyone could need of your love and devotion to them. You are beautiful and I adore how you phrased it, your babies are forever etched on your skin. Thank you immensely for sharing that with us.

 

[__Nathan1968]

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This scar is just over a year old. Owl attack, as many here know.

12 staples kept my head together.

https://ibb.co/Kqrn6Gn

 

[lavendersilk]

 

[fishnfool]

Once upon a time, I didn’t like my C-section scars. I think I saw them as something they took from me rather than giving me the two best people in my life.

When I got pregnant with my son I so wanted to give birth naturally. The scariest day of my life was sitting in that hospital room and seeing his heart rate disappear off of the monitor.

I had my daughter a year and a half later and after hearing all of the risks with a natural birth without giving the scar tissue enough time to heal, I opted for another C-section.

I’ve been told I didn’t actually give birth since they were cut out of me and I should’ve taken the risks even if it could’ve caused them and/or me major health issues or our lives.

I love those scars now and see my babies forever etched on my skin.
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I love the way you view your scars. And you are right. The scars will always be with you as a reminder of two precious gifts.

And your body is even more beautiful for it.

 

[fishnfool]

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This scar is just over a year old. Owl attack, as many here know.

12 staples kept my head together.

https://ibb.co/Kqrn6Gn

Owl attack??? That’s a new one. I’ll remember that the next time I see one while fishing.

 

[Lmizzler]

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This scar is just over a year old. Owl attack, as many here know.

12 staples kept my head together.

https://ibb.co/Kqrn6Gn

How did I miss this story a year ago…

I’m gonna need more details. Feel free to PM if you don’t want them as public.

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

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Three legged dog bite that happened during a night time tornado outbreak.

 

[Deadfreak]

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Three legged dog bite that happened during a night time tornado outbreak.

What a terrible string of events

 

[Mr_bogey]

Ah yes, the many scars we cannot always see. We should never forget about the existence of those.

 

[tyguy2104]

https://ibb.co/cDKSWfr

What a great look! Would love to see from the other side

 

[deft]

What a great look! Would love to see from the other side

I'm not sure you'd enjoy it... he might have a shock for you

 

[Photog1rl]

Wow, you have a very popular reddit.

https://www.reddit.com/u/dualovesa/s/73XsBq8qj6

And considering that the reddit link takes you to a post from two years ago when she claims to be 18 in her profile on Lit…come on folks-if it seems too good to be true…

Also-i don't know you but I kind of love you for your commitment and dedication to the cause!

 

[ck30101]

And considering that the reddit link takes you to a post from two years ago when she claims to be 18 in her profile on Lit…come on folks-if it seems too good to be true…

Yeah her NSFW account started almost 3 years ago now.

Also-i don't know you but I kind of love you for your commitment and dedication to the cause!

Well, I love all that you share, so I guess this is what I can offer.

 

[__Nathan1968]

How did I miss this story a year ago…

I’m gonna need more details. Feel free to PM if you don’t want them as public.

I’m not allowed to publicly discuss the attack, as the owl is still being investigated by the USFWS.

 

[fishnfool]

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Three legged dog bite that happened during a night time tornado outbreak.

Does that fall under You Can’t Make This Sh*t Up?

 

[naughty_stories]

Happy Friday, Chaos!! #freethegirls

https://ibb.co/MZz6Nr2

There you go... wearing a bra again

 

[JustAnotherFlower]

Does that fall under You Can’t Make This Sh*t Up?

https://voca.ro/1dY38GkNIigl