Hugs and random non-sex chat aka Our Court aka Hoes and Bros who empower each other

[HollyS]

Anyone else wondering whether despite his protestations, hulk-handed Jester-Guard Rafe secretly wants to be dommed, like all the best dominants?

Uh huh.

 

[TXRafe]

Anyone else wondering whether despite his protestations, hulk-handed Jester-Guard Rafe secretly wants to be dommed, like all the best dominants?

we've been over this...does nothing for me... ...i can appreciate that there are people who enjoy it. i appreciate sexuality and desire for their base needs. the complete lack of understanding or control over our desires and our responses to them. very much a people watcher and voyeur. i get off on other peoples pleasure.

 

[touchofthebeast]

Anyone else wondering whether despite his protestations, hulk-handed Jester-Guard Rafe secretly wants to be dommed, like all the best dominants?

*crashes through the room*

Did someone say being Dommed?

 

[MiaBabe23]

we've been over this...does nothing for me... ...i can appreciate that there are people who enjoy it. i appreciate sexuality and desire for their base needs. the complete lack of understanding or control over our desires and our responses to them. very much a people watcher and voyeur. i get off on other peoples pleasure.

I share many of those enjoyments too
I’m teasing, just as you tease me about dommeing

 

[MiaBabe23]

*crashes through the room*

Did someone say being Dommed?

I believe someone did, yes
*brushes some shattered door fragments from Confessor’s shoulder*

 

[HollyS]

*fills his glass, before moving to sit and listen avidly*
You can’t drink before your challenge. But I can’t deny I’m curious *smiles*

I will only sip until I am told

Until you’re told what, admirable Confessor?

To sip! or frankly, any instruction benevolent Co-Queen

This exchange is so erotic to me!!

I'm a creature of the mind AND body.

 

[MiaBabe23]

This exchange is so erotic to me!!

I'm a creature of the mind AND body.

Same, sexy Alchemist

 

[TXRafe]

I share many of those enjoyments too
I’m teasing, just as you tease me about dommeing

oh i know, i can tell because of your current mindset you are very much a switch and leaning heavy domme for your own protection. its been nice to see you slowly come out of your shell the last few days since starting this thread. keep being you, its enjoyable to watch.

 

[touchofthebeast]

This exchange is so erotic to me!!

I'm a creature of the mind AND body.

This makes three of us

 

[touchofthebeast]

I believe someone did, yes
*brushes some shattered door fragments from Confessor’s shoulder*

Excuse the mess Co-Queen. I will happily clean it

 

[Whiskeyjack]

I just had one of those conversations I was dreading. Was it as bad as I'd feared? No. Do I want to have another one like it? Also no. Do I deserve Popeye's for lunch for my efforts? Absolutely yes.

 

[MiaBabe23]

oh i know, i can tell because of your current mindset you are very much a switch and leaning heavy domme for your own protection. its been nice to see you slowly come out of your shell the last few days since starting this thread. keep being you, its enjoyable to watch.

Ooh the Jester tries some erotanalysis!
*smiles indulgently*
To relieve you of your misconceptions; there’s only one guy I ever have and ever would submit to
Perhaps comments like those *glances up pointedly at comments about own protection* can be saved for dm or perhaps not said at all *smiles*

 

[MiaBabe23]

And just to add my view - dommeing isn’t a self-serving or self-protective act
Having a guy - or girl - in a position, perhaps as Touch was yesterday, where you might guide and cajole and shape their pleasure, understanding what they’re craving, is a very erotic feeling for both
Just as I’m sure you find, Rafe

 

[TXRafe]

Ooh the Jester tries some erotanalysis!
*smiles indulgently*
To relieve you of your misconceptions; there’s only one guy I ever have and ever would submit to
Perhaps comments like those *glances up pointedly at comments about own protection* can be saved for dm or perhaps not said at all *smiles*

again, not my intention, ill do my best to keep my thoughts and comments to myself because i seem to be triggering. simply stated ive enjoyed your playfulness and demeanor the last few days, thats all i was really trying to get across. ill retreat to my oversized stuffed chair in the corner and observe from beneath the comforter.

 

[MiaBabe23]

again, not my intention, ill do my best to keep my thoughts and comments to myself because i seem to be triggering. simply stated ive enjoyed your playfulness and demeanor the last few days, thats all i was really trying to get across. ill retreat to my oversized stuffed chair in the corner and observe from beneath the comforter.

I enjoy you saying such things! Please carry on doing so if you want to!
Maybe just leave out the analysis of why you think someone enjoys a particular kink, unless that’s the discussion - don’t think you’ve felt the need to do that with any of the guys

 

[HollyS]

again, not my intention, ill do my best to keep my thoughts and comments to myself because i seem to be triggering. simply stated ive enjoyed your playfulness and demeanor the last few days, thats all i was really trying to get across. ill retreat to my oversized stuffed chair in the corner and observe from beneath the comforter.

Mind what what you're doing under that comforter! There are ladies present!

*glances around to make sure...*

Yep. Mind what you're doing!

 

[TXRafe]

Mind what what you're doing under that comforter! There are ladies present!

*glances around to make sure...*

Yep. Mind what you're doing!

no promises, plenty of room in the chair and under the comforter

 

[Jaws82]

Mind what what you're doing under that comforter! There are ladies present!

*glances around to make sure...*

Yep. Mind what you're doing!

Gonna resist taking a peek?

 

[MiaBabe23]

Excuse the mess Co-Queen. I will happily clean it

I’m sorry that the discussion took a different direction there, @touchofthebeast
I’m going to be busy for a bit - would enjoy hearing more in half an hour/ an hour or so if you’re around then?

 

[touchofthebeast]

And just to add my view - dommeing isn’t a self-serving or self-protective act
Having a guy - or girl - in a position, perhaps as Touch was yesterday, where you might guide and cajole and shape their pleasure, understanding what they’re craving, is a very erotic feeling for both
Just as I’m sure you find, Rafe

As someone who enjoys being guided by a Domme I can say that the idea of the guiding, the respect and trust between both to move towards pleasure is a beautiful thing I find

 

[touchofthebeast]

I’m sorry that the discussion took a different direction there, @touchofthebeast
I’m going to be busy for a bit - would enjoy hearing more in half an hour/ an hour or so if you’re around then?

No need to apologize to you. I am here to serve

 

[Boat1]

So so true, and same. It’s never even occurred to me to do that. Wtf
I think it’s because they can. I already complained about him being aggressive, and was told “Oh, we’ve never had any complaints about him. I really like him.”
That kinda attitude just gives free rein to someone to do whatever tf they want

I don't know how far apart we are or where you live, but I'm not above dishing out "attitude adjustments" to chitbags IRL.

 

[TXRafe]

I enjoy you saying such things! Please carry on doing so if you want to!
Maybe just leave out the analysis of why you think someone enjoys a particular kink, unless that’s the discussion - don’t think you’ve felt the need to do that with any of the guys

youre right mia...and while im sure it doesnt need to be said...the neurodivergent part of me is going to make sure i say it anyway, haha. no i guess i wouldnt question the motives or psychology of the men unless asked because its not my chosen gender attraction. the need for deeper understanding exists for the women while im more comfortable generalizing the men and not digging too deeply. as i think we've talked about im not a dom in the traditional sense. i dont require the power and control, im not a sadist in anyway. the motivation for me is the pleasure of my partner and understanding what can help them unlock their desires and releases. i apologize for sticking my nose in where it doesnt belong again, i will try to do better, especially when it comes to you.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

<< just watching the conversations while I chew on my Popeye's.

 

[MiaBabe23]

I don't know how far apart we are or where you live, but I'm not above dishing out "attitude adjustments" to chitbags IRL.

I think arranging for one of my tutors to have the crap beaten outta him might be a bit disqualifying
But I appreciate the sentiment, thank you Boat