Lootequiette: Pmann's Totally Original/Unaffiliated Thread

[Photog1rl]

Took a few days break from here while things calmed down a little.

I'm not going back to quote posts because I just cba really but I have found the last few pages to be an interesting read if nothing else.

With regards to the changes of Lit - thread post limits etc - I wasn't around when that was a thing but some of you have said it made for a calmer playground without any super domineering mega threads so I can see how that would be missed. I don't see any point in bringing it back now though. I think most people have adapted to the never ending nature of the threads.

I would love to have the ability to block people. I don't bother that much with ignore as it feels pointless but blocking posters who make me feel itchy or who are unapologetically bigoted etc from seeing my posts would be very welcome.

On to Lits unspoken rules.
We can all say we want to respect the privacy of a Lit relationship yet we're all here dissecting the remains of this one. Me included.
My initial reaction was that of someone at a dinner party where two of the guests started to air their grievances in front of us all. It made me uncomfortable so I stepped out.
I personally don't think either person involved handled this well. I am only going by what I have seen here but it looks like one side could not stop from making multiple veiled comments while the other chose to address everything clearly and all at once.
If there is such a thing as Lit rules then I think they both broke them.
I'm not here to pick sides. There are no heroes or villains and I have absolutely no problem at all with either person. Should they have resolved this in private? Probably but that's too late now.

We can all say a Lit relationship should be private but I believe it's naive to expect it to be. And that's coming from me who is quite idealistic about people.

Anyway I really only wanted to post to see if I could get in on the Wanker nomination.

I wanted to love and laugh at this because of the last line but I chose love.
Well said

 

[jason28053]

Took a few days break from here while things calmed down a little.

I'm not going back to quote posts because I just cba really but I have found the last few pages to be an interesting read if nothing else.

With regards to the changes of Lit - thread post limits etc - I wasn't around when that was a thing but some of you have said it made for a calmer playground without any super domineering mega threads so I can see how that would be missed. I don't see any point in bringing it back now though. I think most people have adapted to the never ending nature of the threads.

I would love to have the ability to block people. I don't bother that much with ignore as it feels pointless but blocking posters who make me feel itchy or who are unapologetically bigoted etc from seeing my posts would be very welcome.

On to Lits unspoken rules.
We can all say we want to respect the privacy of a Lit relationship yet we're all here dissecting the remains of this one. Me included.
My initial reaction was that of someone at a dinner party where two of the guests started to air their grievances in front of us all. It made me uncomfortable so I stepped out.
I personally don't think either person involved handled this well. I am only going by what I have seen here but it looks like one side could not stop from making multiple veiled comments while the other chose to address everything clearly and all at once.
If there is such a thing as Lit rules then I think they both broke them.
I'm not here to pick sides. There are no heroes or villains and I have absolutely no problem at all with either person. Should they have resolved this in private? Probably but that's too late now.

We can all say a Lit relationship should be private but I believe it's naive to expect it to be. And that's coming from me who is quite idealistic about people.

Anyway I really only wanted to post to see if I could get in on the Wanker nomination.

Your wish… Nominated

 

[Apisto42]

Took a few days break from here while things calmed down a little.

I'm not going back to quote posts because I just cba really but I have found the last few pages to be an interesting read if nothing else.

With regards to the changes of Lit - thread post limits etc - I wasn't around when that was a thing but some of you have said it made for a calmer playground without any super domineering mega threads so I can see how that would be missed. I don't see any point in bringing it back now though. I think most people have adapted to the never ending nature of the threads.

I would love to have the ability to block people. I don't bother that much with ignore as it feels pointless but blocking posters who make me feel itchy or who are unapologetically bigoted etc from seeing my posts would be very welcome.

On to Lits unspoken rules.
We can all say we want to respect the privacy of a Lit relationship yet we're all here dissecting the remains of this one. Me included.
My initial reaction was that of someone at a dinner party where two of the guests started to air their grievances in front of us all. It made me uncomfortable so I stepped out.
I personally don't think either person involved handled this well. I am only going by what I have seen here but it looks like one side could not stop from making multiple veiled comments while the other chose to address everything clearly and all at once.
If there is such a thing as Lit rules then I think they both broke them.
I'm not here to pick sides. There are no heroes or villains and I have absolutely no problem at all with either person. Should they have resolved this in private? Probably but that's too late now.

We can all say a Lit relationship should be private but I believe it's naive to expect it to be. And that's coming from me who is quite idealistic about people.

Anyway I really only wanted to post to see if I could get in on the Wanker nomination.

Nominated for bring such a wanker that you begged to be nominated.

Wanker.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

We can all say a Lit relationship should be private but I believe it's naive to expect it to be. And that's coming from me who is quite idealistic about people.

I actually don't think relationships should be private.
It's okay if both parties want privacy, but that's not a reasonable expectation in some cases. I love the couples who have been actively open here; Tolyk and Tink, Arouzal and Priss, Hornblende and Numi, pman and his shop vac...
I love seeing the love and lust that flares up here

 

[Wand3rlust]

I actually don't think relationships should be private.
It's okay if both parties want privacy, but that's not a reasonable expectation in some cases. I love the couples who have been actively open here; Tolyk and Tink, Azul and Priss, Hornedblade and Numi, pman and his shop vac...
I love seeing the love and lust that flares up here

This.

We enjoy the love and cuteness. Unless it thread hogs. Again. Those unwritten rules so easy to get wrong.

I like to see people happy. And that their happiness is strong enough to be shared. I think I wish I had that.

I like to see the fall out. I'm a watcher. I like to see it all play out.

No judgement.

 

[RosewoodTulip]

I actually don't think relationships should be private.
It's okay if both parties want privacy, but that's not a reasonable expectation in some cases. I love the couples who have been actively open here; Tolyk and Tink, Arouzal and Priss, Hornedblade and Numi, pman and his shop vac...
I love seeing the love and lust that flares up here

Oh absolutely. It's lovely when people are so clearly besotted with each other here.
When it's genuine it's beautiful. When it's attention seeking it's annoying as fuck

 

[StillRain]

Took a few days break from here while things calmed down a little.

I'm not going back to quote posts because I just cba really but I have found the last few pages to be an interesting read if nothing else.

With regards to the changes of Lit - thread post limits etc - I wasn't around when that was a thing but some of you have said it made for a calmer playground without any super domineering mega threads so I can see how that would be missed. I don't see any point in bringing it back now though. I think most people have adapted to the never ending nature of the threads.

I would love to have the ability to block people. I don't bother that much with ignore as it feels pointless but blocking posters who make me feel itchy or who are unapologetically bigoted etc from seeing my posts would be very welcome.

On to Lits unspoken rules.
We can all say we want to respect the privacy of a Lit relationship yet we're all here dissecting the remains of this one. Me included.
My initial reaction was that of someone at a dinner party where two of the guests started to air their grievances in front of us all. It made me uncomfortable so I stepped out.
I personally don't think either person involved handled this well. I am only going by what I have seen here but it looks like one side could not stop from making multiple veiled comments while the other chose to address everything clearly and all at once.
If there is such a thing as Lit rules then I think they both broke them.
I'm not here to pick sides. There are no heroes or villains and I have absolutely no problem at all with either person. Should they have resolved this in private? Probably but that's too late now.

We can all say a Lit relationship should be private but I believe it's naive to expect it to be. And that's coming from me who is quite idealistic about people.

Anyway I really only wanted to post to see if I could get in on the Wanker nomination.

Nominated.

 

[Photog1rl]

I actually don't think relationships should be private.
It's okay if both parties want privacy, but that's not a reasonable expectation in some cases. I love the couples who have been actively open here; Tolyk and Tink, Arouzal and Priss, Hornblende and Numi, pman and his shop vac...
I love seeing the love and lust that flares up here

But then what about the break up? I have said, repeatedly , that no one likes a sad girl on Lit. Obviously this is not limited to a gender but what is it that makes lit love ok but lit hurt not?

I can understand when it takes over any one thread or it’s breaking lit guidelines or slanderous but if it’s just hurt or pain expressed why is that so frowned upon? It is not as fun to see. I get that. But why do we shun it so?

I think it reminds us that we are vulnerable and for some that they are now at risk for unhappiness or heartbreak in person and online. It reminds us that the reality that things are temporary and possibly that Lit can not solve and may even hurt other aspects of our lives. But is this bad? Is the reminder that Lit is real in its positives and its negatives and that people should be mindful of the real impact lit can have on you?

 

[StillRain]

As someone who has bled out all over Lit, a very very long time ago. I can say that in all honestly do not give a fuck what Lit cares about me or thinks about me or how I deal with my emotions. Good or bad.

When you are in the depth of the pain, for reasons you cannot make sense of, and you have perhaps been dispatched in ways that may seem to you to be inhuman, it is no one’s job to tell you how to manage yourself. You need to work it through how you feel is best.

How the crowd handles the fallout from that? Enjoy the fucking show as always, let’s be real. Pick it apart all you want. Lit feeds of this and nothing feeds some people more than seeing a women suffer.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I don't care if the break ups are public either.

I'm a vouyer

 

[Endless_Night]

I actually don't think relationships should be private.
It's okay if both parties want privacy, but that's not a reasonable expectation in some cases. I love the couples who have been actively open here; Tolyk and Tink, Arouzal and Priss, Hornblende and Numi, pman and his shop vac...
I love seeing the love and lust that flares up here

I don’t mind the couples either. It’s cute, and nice to see. As long as they don’t PDA all over a thread not their own to the point of annoying, or as PervySage* once said: Ugh. The couples are coupling.

*Or whatever his name was at the time.

I can understand when it takes over any one thread or it’s breaking lit guidelines or slanderous but if it’s just hurt or pain expressed why is that so frowned upon? It is not as fun to see. I get that. But why do we shun it so?

I don't think it's a problem to express grief. I just find the extremes disturbing. Crushing grief can be gut wrenching to watch, especially if it's every post and remains ongoing.

Conversely, it could become tiresome to see someone waxing eloquent about their Lit paramour every time you open a thread. Or people who can't post in the same thread with someone they dislike without devolving into snark.

The first one is painful. The last two just disruptive.

 

[Donotrustanybody]

As someone who has bled out all over Lit, a very very long time ago. I can say that in all honestly do not give a fuck what Lit cares about me or thinks about me or how I deal with my emotions. Good or bad.

When you are in the depth of the pain, for reasons you cannot make sense of, and you have perhaps been dispatched in ways that may seem to you to be inhuman, it is no one’s job to tell you how to manage yourself. You need to work it through how you feel is best.

How the crowd handles the fallout from that? Enjoy the fucking show as always, let’s be real. Pick it apart all you want. Lit feeds of this and nothing feeds some people more than seeing a women suffer.

I don't care if the break ups are public either.

I'm a vouyer

I might be the only one, but I would prefer not to see it, but if you put it out there all bets are off. I am nosey, I will look and give my opinion

 

[StillRain]

I might be the only one, but I would prefer not to see it, but if you put it out there all bets are off. I am nosey, I will look and give my opinion

And like I said, I don’t give a shit.



I’d prefer not to see dicks and cunts in people’s AVs too but there they are.

I’d prefer not to see people talk about the same old dull shit they’ve been talking about for the past ten years but there they go again.

I’d prefer not to see the age lines appearing on my face as the years pass but there they are.

Some things are a part of life (or in this case Lit). You can look beyond them and live, or look at them and get stuck in them. It’s all a choice.

 

[Donotrustanybody]

And like I said, I don’t give a shit.



I’d prefer not to see dicks and cunts in people’s AVs too but there they are.

I’d prefer not to see people talk about the same old dull shit they’ve been talking about for the past ten years but there they go again.

I’d prefer not to see the age lines appearing on my face as the years pass but there they are.

Some things are a part of life (or in this case Lit). You can look beyond them and live, or look at them and get stuck in them. It’s all a choice.

How dare you speak to me like that, I am the only pure virgin on lit, I am triggered lol.

 

[StillRain]

How dare you speak to me like that, I am the only pure virgin on lit, I am triggered lol.

let’s break up

 

[Donotrustanybody]

let’s break up

please baby please

You can't do this to us lmao

 

[StillRain]

please baby please

You can't do this to us lmao

I already did bitch
Stop whining

 

[Donotrustanybody]

I already did bitch
Stop whining

Now I am going to tell all my lit friends, how you did me wrong, sad face.


Looks around for friends and no one around, I forgot I have been an asshole and have no crew

 

[Photog1rl]

Now I am going to tell all my lit friends, how you did me wrong, sad face.


Looks around for friends and no one around, I forgot I have been an asshole and have no crew

You're an asshole too? Want to be friends?

 

[StillRain]

Now I am going to tell all my lit friends, how you did me wrong, sad face.


Looks around for friends and no one around, I forgot I have been an asshole and have no crew

Luckily I know just the clique for you.

 

[Donotrustanybody]

You're an asshole too? Want to be friends?

Yeah

Let me tell you how @StillRain did me wrong, after all the nights of not making her cum, she got the nerve to call me pinky dick, I really tried my best

 

[Donotrustanybody]

Luckily I know just the clique for you.

I seriously wanna know lol

 

[StillRain]

Yeah

Let me tell you how @StillRain did me wrong, after all the nights of not making her cum, she got the nerve to call me pinky dick, I really tried my best

For fucks sake. It was PUGdick. You know like the little mouth breathing dog.

 

[Donotrustanybody]

For fucks sake. It was PUGdick. You know like the little mouth breathing dog.

Well let me tell you, this is the best PUGdick you gonna get, I am closing up shop. Don't come begging for this loving in the middle of the night.


5 minutes later


I didn't mean it, please just come back lol

 

[Photog1rl]

Well let me tell you, this is the best PUGdick you gonna get, I am closing up shop. Don't come begging for this loving in the middle of the night.


5 minutes later


I didn't mean it, please just come back lol

awe, you two make the cutest couple. Maybe if you talk to a bunch of folks they can help you fix your pinky, I mean PUGdick.
I’ve heard the more people you talk to the better your relationship will be