Lootequiette: Pmann's Totally Original/Unaffiliated Thread

[Endless_Night]

I think the best way to act on a sex site is to be as dramatic, hateful and mean spirited as possible.
Why else are any of us here?

I usually miss the drama on Lit, I seem to be (for the most part) completely oblivious to it. The one week I wasn’t here is when (my completely awesome thread) Cock Talk turned to shit. I was and am aware that it happened, but I still don’t know exactly what happened or why it happened and I have no intention to go back and find out.

It bores me.

I find the drama boring.

So I have no answers to the questions other than to say you can’t follow unwritten rules. Also written rules are stupid. You do what you do and people will go with it or they won’t.

And the world keeps spinning one way or the other, so let’s just get naked and have fun before we die.

Kvothe gave this exact same speech. *nods*

^^humor.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

Perplexed how ZERO wanker nominations have occurred from this thread.

Holy fucking Moley.

Everybody in this thread is nominated?

 

[AmberLGreen]

So for today's question... how do you think the unwritten rules of culture should be followed here? They are unwritten. There is a culture here and many people feel like I broke it. Do you think there is ever a time to do so? Have you ever? If so, what were the consequences?

I think the unwritten rules here should be treated in the same way as they are in every day society. There are ways to act, to say things, to react or not react to. Whether it is a friendship or a relationship, there are ways to handle the breakdowns. You have been that person’s friend or partner so you should know something about them and that too needs to be taken into consideration. When things are being said, you should be able to understand their level of hurt and take that into account when reacting. Is it better to just ignore them, try to support them, clearly state your annoyance at things they are saying or get consumed by rage? I guess that depends on the people involved and the depth of the relationship.

The Lit culture of “private” actually remaining private, is something that should be respected within relationships and friendships. There are times when there might be a need to discuss something with somebody else, for example safety or security reasons, but mostly, what gets said between two people should remain between them.

However, if somebody (and sometimes their friends) are coming into my home and taking regular shots at me, I will fight back with whatever means necessary and if that means breaking an unwritten rule and laying their shit out for everybody to see, then that is what I would do. Everybody has a limit and if you don’t know what that limit is, don’t keep pushing the buttons.

Even though I do sometimes get into little bickers, I haven’t really had to resort to using any private conversations to fight my corner and it would take a hell of a lot for me to do so.

I agree with Enny on the way people bleed on the boards. It is painful and very hard to watch. If relationships and conversations should be kept private then so should the grief.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

Perplexed how ZERO wanker nominations have occurred from this thread.

Holy fucking Moley.

Wait.
Does this mean I have to give the trophy back at the end of the week?
Shit. I already used it

 

[Lord Pmann]

Wait.
Does this mean I have to give the trophy back at the end of the week?
Shit. I already used it

That wasn't a trophy. That was the communal dildo.

 

[StillRain]

Wait.
Does this mean I have to give the trophy back at the end of the week?
Shit. I already used it

We have a warehouse. Yours is Limited Edition, baby. Use it as your heart vagina calls.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Everybody in this thread is nominated?

Nope! Just you

 

[aussiegeekygal]

That wasn't a trophy. That was the communal dildo.

I nominate you to get it next week.
I won't even wash it.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I nominate you to get it next week.
I won't even wash it.

Where was that pegging question?...

Oh, wrong thread.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Nope! Just you

You wowed me, @Love_Is_Blonde!

I suddenly feel the need to both apologize and explain my joke is only funny because you’re so sweet and not a wanker.

Although I think you’ve likely caused a lot of wanking.

I probably need to stick to teasing @Endless_Night because somehow every one of her wows is guilt free and makes me laugh

 

[Lord Pmann]

You wowed me, @Love_Is_Blonde!

I suddenly feel the need to both apologize and explain my joke is only funny because you’re so sweet and not a wanker.

Although I think you’ve likely caused a lot of wanking.

I probably need to stick to teasing @Endless_Night because somehow every one of her wows is guilt free and makes me laugh

I think it's wrong of you to out her as a wanker. She seems pure, but with bad taste in baseball teams.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Although I think you’ve likely caused a lot of wanking.

I can confirm this.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

I think it's wrong of you to out her as a wanker. She seems pure, but with bad taste in baseball teams.

Pure?! Why you gotta throw around insults like that?

 

[Endless_Night]

I probably need to stick to teasing @Endless_Night because somehow every one of her wows is guilt free and makes me laugh

How did this happen! That's what I want to know.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

You wowed me, @Love_Is_Blonde!

I suddenly feel the need to both apologize and explain my joke is only funny because you’re so sweet and not a wanker.

Although I think you’ve likely caused a lot of wanking.

I probably need to stick to teasing @Endless_Night because somehow every one of her wows is guilt free and makes me laugh

No, no apology necessary! I feel the wow is misunderstood! That was not a bad wow. That was a gasp! wow. Pearls clutched but with a smile wow!

 

[Lord Pmann]

Pure?! Why you gotta throw around insults like that?

I said she SEEMS pure.

 

[Love_Is_Blonde]

I think it's wrong of you to out her as a wanker. She seems pure, but with bad taste in baseball teams.

That’s a bad wow.

 

[Lord Pmann]

That’s a bad wow.

I feel like the WOW is going to get used a lot and we are gonna throw off the emoji analytics.

 

[LadyLascivious1]

How did this happen! That's what I want to know.

I think it started with @aussiegeekygal. Right when I first became active on the forum a couple of years ago, I came across one of her fantastic threads discussing sex and became a bit enamored. Of course, I did some light post stalking and fell into the Cock Talk thread where I immediately decided that one day I wanted to be your friend so that I could tease you because your responses are so genuinely delightful. Also, that I was going to need to get @hotwords229_A to post his cock again because it was so elusive and seemed like it would be .

#LLlitgoals

 

[Endless_Night]

I think it started with @aussiegeekygal. Right when I first became active on the forum a couple of years ago, I came across one of her fantastic threads discussing sex and became a bit enamored. Of course, I did some light post stalking and fell into the Cock Talk thread where I immediately decided that one day I wanted to be your friend so that I could tease you because your responses are so genuinely delightful. Also, that I was going to need to get @hotwords229_A to post his cock again because it was so elusive and seemed like it would be .

#LLlitgoals

Omg.

Wait. What?! Hotwords posted his appendage?!?!

Oh. Oh!

Oh. That was the Cockpocalypse. I had blocked that from my memory.

I couldn't enter the thread for like a weeeeeeeek.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Wait. What?! Hotwords posted his appendage?!

His dick, for the lay person.

 

[Photog1rl]

So for today's question... how do you think the unwritten rules of culture should be followed here? They are unwritten. There is a culture here and many people feel like I broke it. Do you think there is ever a time to do so? Have you ever?

There are most definitly unwritten rules of Lit culture and they are not always straightforward-well at least not to me. I have done almost everything that Litsters deam innapropriate. Most of these were done without realizing I was basically thumbing my nose at the unwritten rules. I am not sure I agree with the unwritten rules of Lit culture but I have not gone out of my way to ignore them.

I had started a thread for poetry. It became the place that I processed and expressed lots of my experiences. I posted about positve and negative things both on and off of Lit. To be called out for spewing hate in those threads feels like BS. To me if people did not want to read what I posted they could have ignored me or unfollowed the thread. Thread posting can be cryptic or confusing. When someone tries to guess who a post is about more often than not they are wrong.

If so, what were the consequences?

I often forget that other Litsters follow people and look at the things that people post in what feel like private threads(yes, I know they are not and this is not the way to think of anything on Lit but i had to learn this). I follow threads and not people. So the only way for me to see what someone specific is posting is to look for it and that is not something I tend to do.
As for consequences of breaking the unwritten rules of Lit, I have lost people I valued, I have hurt people and I have been hurt. There is one post that I wish I could turn back time and never have posted because of the damage it did and there are ways I have engaged on Lit that I will not repeat knowing what I do now about the impact on people outisde of the situation.
But, I think people should be able to post, within the actual Lit rules, what they would like. As a person that was called out for my posting behavior, breaking the Lit unwritten rules, I know my perspective may not resonate with everyone.
Folks should curate their own experience here. I unfollow threads that don't bring me happiness.

I agree with Enny on the way people bleed on the boards. It is painful and very hard to watch. If relationships and conversations should be kept private then so should the grief.

I am not sure I agree that relationships are or should be private or that bleeding on the boards should be private but I understand it is not the Lit cultural norm and I am sorry for any discomfort I may have caused folks. It was a trainwreck.

There are those who post spewing angst and heartbreak all over the boards.

I would say this was me.

It happened recently in the cock talk thread, involving different people.

Maybe me again-not what i want to be known for.

Nothing is secret on Lit.

The Lit culture of “private” actually remaining private, is something that should be respected within relationships and friendships.

I think that the fact that these are both simultneously true is really interesting and the crux of many issues.

 

[aussiegeekygal]

His dick, for the lay person.

If his appendage is on offer, I'll be the lay person

 

[Endless_Night]

His dick, for the lay person.

Lalalalalalalala

 

[LadyLascivious1]

Omg.

Wait. What?! Hotwords posted his appendage?!?!

Oh. Oh!

Oh. That was the Cockpocalypse. I had blocked that from my memory.

I couldn't enter the thread for like a weeeeeeeek.

I don’t remember which thread he posted it in, but I remember Sassy helped me encourage him.

It was totally worth the anticipation

It was kind of artsy with ripped jeans, a glimpse of butt, and a fun angle. 10/10 would recommend