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Photog1rl said:
Thank you so much to the folks that reached out. I honestly didn’t post yesterday looking for advice, support, or sympathy but yall offered it and it was seen and felt.

Lit is a funny spot. It can bring so much fun and laughter into our lives but it can also bring hurt. This has shocked me. I came to lit thinking it was just a sex site but found a community of fantastic people-creative, smart, learned, highly intelligent, fun folks that also enjoyed flirting, talking about sex, their feelings and sharing on lots of levels 😈
I made some true friends, found some sexy fun folks, had lots of fun and got hurt.

I have found navigating through these feelings extra challenging because there is no one non Lit related I can share this with. The fun sexy feelings are easy and don’t need to be shared in the same way. The hurt and pain is much harder. How do you explain to your family or friends that you’re sad because you hurt someone or someone hurt you on an online sex site? You can’t exactly tell your partner you’re moody due to interactions with folks on Lit. 😂 (Well I can’t lol)

Clearly I’ve been trying to figure out how to navigate both. You can put people on ignore, you can take a break or step back and I’ve been doing all of that but I miss the fun playful way I used to navigate Lit. I really want this to be how I feel again and I am getting there-even though you may not be able to tell yet 😂🤣)

Basically, I’ve chosen to process through some of this on Lit. It’s a little messy and comes in cycles but that is just how grief and processing loss is. I’ve kept my biggest feelings on threads that I started and that are not visited by tons of folks.

I’ve also not put anyone on blast as that isn’t something I want to do. I know my feelings are my own and that some folks (many) will say I’m taking Lit way too seriously and while I don’t completely disagree that doesn’t change how I feel.

I’ve said before that Lit doesn’t like a sad girl. Folks come here to escape the challenges they find in their day to day in person life and when it’s not an upbeat place to be it loses its luster. I get that but I think that denying how we feel and that folks and connections we make online are real is akin to calling in person interactions “real life.” Lit is real life even if it’s online and in life we feel a spectrum of emotions and often need to process them. Maybe I should get a journal or start a sad tumblr but I’m truly hoping I can work through these feelings and let go of the pain sooner than that. 🤷🏻‍♀️😂

For anyone still reading-thanks. You don’t have to agree with me but thanks for reading.

Edited to add-to my ride or die BFF you have listened and comforted and consoled and I appreciate you more than you know. It’s taking a lot longer than I want and I love you always no matter what. ♥️

Edit #2-not every sad post I make is about someone on lit. 😂
My “poetry” is a way to process lots of feelings safe swxy, playful. So please don’t think it’s all about one person or situation. 🤣😂🤣


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Nice post, glad you’re taking steps to get back in balance. I understand the challenges with compartmentalization, you’re a lot brave than I.
 
Photog1rl said:
Like what were the doing in the first half? They need to step it up because the chiefs will not give them a break.
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I’m glad I didn’t see the first half. It’s the only time a migraine worked in my favor.

I was working for a sports talk radio station the last time the 49ers made it to the Super Bowl, not the flagship station of the 49ers network, and it was a real bummer to not celebrate a victory.
 
draconus_infernus said:
I’m glad I didn’t see the first half. It’s the only time a migraine worked in my favor.

I was working for a sports talk radio station the last time the 49ers made it to the Super Bowl, not the flagship station of the 49ers network, and it was a real bummer to not celebrate a victory.
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Oh you are glad you missed it. It was rough. The defense was so bad and the lions were taking full advantage!
 
Photog1rl said:
Super fair. I like the Lions but…i love the Niners ❤️💛
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I like both teams quite a bit... but I was hoping for the Lions (by a narrow margin).
However, with the two pics that you posted here a few minutes ago, you could've swung my allegiance!
Gorgeous photos! Go Niners...
 
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