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WetMyKitty said:
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Do men who love eating pussy like this really exist?
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You poor thing. I'm not sure how you haven't found one of us, but there are definitely enthusiastic pussy eaters within a stones throw of you.

I told my wife the other day she should try sucking my cock as enthusiastically as I eat her pussy when I'm desperately hungry for her. She might just be shocked at the result. She knows exactly what mood I meant, and I'm just waiting for her to take my advice.
 
So, lemme ask, because I like to learn about other people.

Do you have any sense of how much time you spend going down/being eaten out? My ex and long time lover go down on me as long as it would take me to have an orgasm. Sometimes not long at all, like 5 minutes. Other times, that I tend to feel really guilty about, like 45 minutes or more. And I'd feel really guilty about it, because my body just wasn't responding. For my ex, he was stubborn about it, I think he felt like he was losing and I think he felt like that was the day's price for getting laid.

For my long time lover, he's stubborn in a different way - he 'knows what's in there' and he doesn't let me get away with faking it. Don't get me wrong, it's not like a fake it on a regular basis. But sometimes, I feel bad because I know I'm taking a long time. I'll get close and then my O will skitter away. Or I'll get overstimulated. And I know I can get tired after a while of giving too. It's not very often I can convince him that it's okay if I don't (I know now my hormones were working against both of us).

Conversely, since getting divorced, I've had partners who tell me that they love eating pussy, but then they stop. I'm like, you gotta be kidding?

I guess that's why I'm asking. We often talk about eating or being eaten 'forever'. What does that really mean? Have I been incredibly spoiled by these two men in my life? Or are my new partners just ill-informed about what 'forever' truly means? I'd like to know if I need to adjust expectations and if so, how?
 
ImiGirrst said:
So, lemme ask, because I like to learn about other people.

Do you have any sense of how much time you spend going down/being eaten out? My ex and long time lover go down on me as long as it would take me to have an orgasm. Sometimes not long at all, like 5 minutes. Other times, that I tend to feel really guilty about, like 45 minutes or more. And I'd feel really guilty about it, because my body just wasn't responding. For my ex, he was stubborn about it, I think he felt like he was losing and I think he felt like that was the day's price for getting laid.

For my long time lover, he's stubborn in a different way - he 'knows what's in there' and he doesn't let me get away with faking it. Don't get me wrong, it's not like a fake it on a regular basis. But sometimes, I feel bad because I know I'm taking a long time. I'll get close and then my O will skitter away. Or I'll get overstimulated. And I know I can get tired after a while of giving too. It's not very often I can convince him that it's okay if I don't (I know now my hormones were working against both of us).

Conversely, since getting divorced, I've had partners who tell me that they love eating pussy, but then they stop. I'm like, you gotta be kidding?

I guess that's why I'm asking. We often talk about eating or being eaten 'forever'. What does that really mean? Have I been incredibly spoiled by these two men in my life? Or are my new partners just ill-informed about what 'forever' truly means? I'd like to know if I need to adjust expectations and if so, how?
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I was also always there till she came, or said she wanted to move on to fucking or something else. With my wife, her clit would get so sensitive it couldn't be touched, and she wanted penetration right then and there. With others, I've "been down there" for more than 1 orgasm, more than once. I mean, it's old news on this site, but everyone's different. You, your past and present partners, the communication and what 'forever' really means. Gotta talk it out, or at least grab him by the ears and direct him....🤣
 
ImiGirrst said:
So, lemme ask, because I like to learn about other people.

Do you have any sense of how much time you spend going down/being eaten out? My ex and long time lover go down on me as long as it would take me to have an orgasm. Sometimes not long at all, like 5 minutes. Other times, that I tend to feel really guilty about, like 45 minutes or more. And I'd feel really guilty about it, because my body just wasn't responding. For my ex, he was stubborn about it, I think he felt like he was losing and I think he felt like that was the day's price for getting laid.

For my long time lover, he's stubborn in a different way - he 'knows what's in there' and he doesn't let me get away with faking it. Don't get me wrong, it's not like a fake it on a regular basis. But sometimes, I feel bad because I know I'm taking a long time. I'll get close and then my O will skitter away. Or I'll get overstimulated. And I know I can get tired after a while of giving too. It's not very often I can convince him that it's okay if I don't (I know now my hormones were working against both of us).

Conversely, since getting divorced, I've had partners who tell me that they love eating pussy, but then they stop. I'm like, you gotta be kidding?

I guess that's why I'm asking. We often talk about eating or being eaten 'forever'. What does that really mean? Have I been incredibly spoiled by these two men in my life? Or are my new partners just ill-informed about what 'forever' truly means? I'd like to know if I need to adjust expectations and if so, how?
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45-minutes of licking and orally enjoying your pussy seems like an entirely reasonable proposition to me. Maybe it would help if you sit on my face for a while and pussy-fuck my mouth....? I'm sure that... if we both put in the work, the rippling orgasm will inevitably follow!
 
ImiGirrst said:
So, lemme ask, because I like to learn about other people.

Do you have any sense of how much time you spend going down/being eaten out? My ex and long time lover go down on me as long as it would take me to have an orgasm. Sometimes not long at all, like 5 minutes. Other times, that I tend to feel really guilty about, like 45 minutes or more. And I'd feel really guilty about it, because my body just wasn't responding. For my ex, he was stubborn about it, I think he felt like he was losing and I think he felt like that was the day's price for getting laid.

For my long time lover, he's stubborn in a different way - he 'knows what's in there' and he doesn't let me get away with faking it. Don't get me wrong, it's not like a fake it on a regular basis. But sometimes, I feel bad because I know I'm taking a long time. I'll get close and then my O will skitter away. Or I'll get overstimulated. And I know I can get tired after a while of giving too. It's not very often I can convince him that it's okay if I don't (I know now my hormones were working against both of us).

Conversely, since getting divorced, I've had partners who tell me that they love eating pussy, but then they stop. I'm like, you gotta be kidding?

I guess that's why I'm asking. We often talk about eating or being eaten 'forever'. What does that really mean? Have I been incredibly spoiled by these two men in my life? Or are my new partners just ill-informed about what 'forever' truly means? I'd like to know if I need to adjust expectations and if so, how?
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Maybe it's lost on others, but it's not lost on me - you're always looking to improve the sex experience for your lovers first, and you second. And this after havimg some number of years' sxperience. That's impressive, and commendable.
 
lit_ch3 said:
I was also always there till she came, or said she wanted to move on to fucking or something else. With my wife, her clit would get so sensitive it couldn't be touched, and she wanted penetration right then and there. With others, I've "been down there" for more than 1 orgasm, more than once. I mean, it's old news on this site, but everyone's different. You, your past and present partners, the communication and what 'forever' really means. Gotta talk it out, or at least grab him by the ears and direct him....🤣
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Thanks for the reply. I agree that it's important to communicate with new partners, so that's kinda why I wanted to get independent data. I don't want to come across as unreasonable, when I might blurt out, "That's it? Well, my OTHER partners didn't give up that quick..." I mean, really - is there a better way to have instant deflation?

I recognize that while we might have the same parts, our wiring might be slightly different. I've found that I have a sensitive clit to start out with, but I have to tell my partner that it means they've hit the right spot, not that I want them to go away. I've learned that is something I have to clarify right away. And it's definitely true of me as well that when I go off, well, I too want penetration right then and there. It's like finally catching the wave that can be ridden all the way down the beach. If you wait, you might not be able to ride at all. Again, people are different.

To be clear - I'm talking about how long it takes to get the first O.

lit_ch3 said:
Maybe it's lost on others, but it's not lost on me - you're always looking to improve the sex experience for your lovers first, and you second. And this after havimg some number of years' sxperience. That's impressive, and commendable.
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Thank you for the complement. I'm also touched that you noticed this.

I'll be honest with you, I kinda feel like this question is about putting me first. Having had a few new lovers this year, I've only had one that I felt went down on me long enough. And the length of time wasn't even enough for me to even relax a bit, never mind really get wound up. Now, if one had been like this, I would have considered it an outlier. But when it gets to be several, then I have to wonder about my data set.

I've ruled out that something might be tasting weird. I've also been wondering if the group that has been short has potentially been so turned on they haven't been able to wait. And I've considered that maybe there are partners in there that really didn't like muff diving, and removed those. But if someone says that like eating out their partner and only spend a couple of 5 minutes or so, that seems like a real mixed message.
 
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tristantrotsky said:
45-minutes of licking and orally enjoying your pussy seems like an entirely reasonable proposition to me. Maybe it would help if you sit on my face for a while and pussy-fuck my mouth....? I'm sure that... if we both put in the work, the rippling orgasm will inevitably follow!
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I'll take you up on that when I manage to get across the pond!
 
ImiGirrst said:
Thanks for the reply. I agree that it's important to communicate with new partners, so that's kinda why I wanted to get independent data. I don't want to come across as unreasonable, when I might blurt out, "That's it? Well, my OTHER partners didn't give up that quick..." I mean, really - is there a better way to have instant deflation?

I recognize that while we might have the same parts, our wiring might be slightly different. I've found that I have a sensitive clit to start out with, but I have to tell my partner that it means they've hit the right spot, not that I want them to go away. I've learned that is something I have to clarify right away. And it's definitely true of me as well that when I go off, well, I too want penetration right then and there. It's like finally catching the wave that can be ridden all the way down the beach. If you wait, you might not be able to ride at all. Again, people are different.

To be clear - I'm talking about how long it takes to get the first O.



Thank you for the complement. I'm also touched that you noticed this.

I'll be honest with you, I kinda feel like this question is about putting me first. Having had a few new lovers this year, I've only had one that I felt went down on me long enough. And the length of time wasn't even enough for me to even relax a bit, never mind really get wound up. Now, if one had been like this, I would have considered it an outlier. But when it gets to be several, then I have to wonder about my data set.

I've ruled out that something might be tasting weird. I've also been wondering if the group that has been short has potentially been so turned on they haven't been able to wait. And I've considered that maybe there are partners in there that really didn't like muff diving, and removed those. But if someone says that like eating out their partner and only spend a couple of 5 minutes or so, that seems like a real mixed message.
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Have you tried a firm, but gentle "OHH GAWD, PLEASE DON'T STOP!!!" ???
🤣
 
As someone who tends to be goal centric and loves sharing in a woman’s orgasm, I wld like to lick you for at least as long as that takes that to happpen, and we definitely don’t need to be in a hurry to get there. However, especially with a new lover, instructional tips and/or at least non verbal audio cues for what you like is very much appreciated. I want to enjoy your enjoyment to the max, so anything to help me help you is appreciated.
 
ImiGirrst said:
So, lemme ask, because I like to learn about other people.

Do you have any sense of how much time you spend going down/being eaten out? My ex and long time lover go down on me as long as it would take me to have an orgasm. Sometimes not long at all, like 5 minutes. Other times, that I tend to feel really guilty about, like 45 minutes or more. And I'd feel really guilty about it, because my body just wasn't responding. For my ex, he was stubborn about it, I think he felt like he was losing and I think he felt like that was the day's price for getting laid.

For my long time lover, he's stubborn in a different way - he 'knows what's in there' and he doesn't let me get away with faking it. Don't get me wrong, it's not like a fake it on a regular basis. But sometimes, I feel bad because I know I'm taking a long time. I'll get close and then my O will skitter away. Or I'll get overstimulated. And I know I can get tired after a while of giving too. It's not very often I can convince him that it's okay if I don't (I know now my hormones were working against both of us).

Conversely, since getting divorced, I've had partners who tell me that they love eating pussy, but then they stop. I'm like, you gotta be kidding?

I guess that's why I'm asking. We often talk about eating or being eaten 'forever'. What does that really mean? Have I been incredibly spoiled by these two men in my life? Or are my new partners just ill-informed about what 'forever' truly means? I'd like to know if I need to adjust expectations and if so, how?
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I've found that there isn't any set period of time that my oral efforts may (or may not) produce an orgasm. There seem to be a lot of factors, including her sensitivity, mood, and degree of arousal leading up to the act. I'm very willing to take a good amount of time to achieve a memorable climax for her, although I'll admit that at times that effort won't seem to produce the result she really wants. Always worth the effort though!

Obviously, it helps for the man to have at least a basic knowledge female anatomy before delving in down there. I do like to concentrate on her clit when I'm probing with my tongue, but for some women clit stimulation becomes so intense so that it's painful, and I have to stop and start to let the pleasurable sensations build up again. A favorite maneuver of mine is to focus on her clit with my tongue, and at the same time use my fingers inside to try to stimulate her g-spot - which is easier said than done.
 
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lit_ch3 said:
Have you tried a firm, but gentle "OHH GAWD, PLEASE DON'T STOP!!!" ???
🤣
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Sometimes. Other times, well, I just don't have words. The more turned on I get, the more non verbal I become. Sometimes I am self aware enough to grab hair and push my partner into me. Other times I just lose the world except for my clit. I've learned that I have to communicate this to my partner, who is worrying that no response means a bad job, when in fact it's more than damn good.
 
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