Cock Talk

[Bbl87]

Listen, as long as it looks clean, smells clean, throbs and can at least touch the right spots....wait, that's for a dildo....

Funny, dildo is my middle name...

OK, it isn't really. That would be interesting though.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

I'm serious though. Once it's in... isn't it just a thrust in, thrust out situation? How good a guy is in bed has always been dependent on what he was doing with his other parts for me... the dick itself, seems like a more generic tool

That's what makes it good for me too. What are the other parts doing? What's the enthusiasm level? Dirty talk? Genital contact is a given and always feels good but what ELSE is going on? That's what makes great sex.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

Have you watched Fleabag? It’s great!

Yeah its great. I love her.

 

[Bbl87]

When are you going to grow up?

I can't lie, I did chuckle a bit. I think you’re just gonna have to let it blow over over time.

I'm serious though. Once it's in... isn't it just a thrust in, thrust out situation? How good a guy is in bed has always been dependent on what he was doing with his other parts for me... the dick itself, seems like a more generic tool

That's what makes it good for me too. What are the other parts doing? What's the enthusiasm level? Dirty talk? Genital contact is a given and always feels good but what ELSE is going on? That's what makes great sex.

I don't think it's THAT simple, but being a good lover incorporates alot more than the dick.

You have different spots in the vagina that you can stimulate (A spot, P spot, G spot) and penis size, shape, and angle of penetration can affect one's ability to stimulate those spots. So, ya, not just a simple in and out necessarily.

But that aside, I think enthusiasm, connection, chemistry, etc. matter much more, not to mention oral and non-genital sexual stimulation.

 

[Apisto42]

? What's the enthusiasm level? Dirty talk? Genital contact is a given and always feels good but what ELSE is going on? That's what makes great sex.

Yeah. There needs to be a connection there beyond just tab a fits slot b (c, or d) for the sex to be great.

 

[Endless_Night]

I just want to say that I asked The Bestie what she would do if I sent her a fragina pic.

Her response was....

Well, let's just say there were a couple of expletives and a question regarding my sanity.


And then, about ten later she texted me a vag pic off the internet.




You people. Are ruining. My life.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Are you gonna eat that?

https://i.imgflip.com/3fijmi.jpg

Let’s talk Sloppy Seconds:

Have you ever engaged in Sloppy Seconds, giving or receiving?
If you suck off or eat out someone who just pulled out of someone else, or was just pulled out of, does that count as Sloppy Seconds, or is that just threesome sex?
Is there a time limit on Sloppy Seconds? In other words, how much time has to pass for Sloppy Seconds to just refresh into regular sex?
Does the idea of Sloppy Seconds excite you at all, giving or receiving?
Is there a better term for Sloppy Seconds?
Some couples (apparently) get off on the idea that one of them has just returned from sex with someone else, is this something you would like to explore? Have you tried it? What is, or what do you think is the appeal?

 

[Wand3rlust]

Are you gonna eat that?

https://i.imgflip.com/3fijmi.jpg

Let’s talk Sloppy Seconds:

Have you ever engaged in Sloppy Seconds, giving or receiving?
If you suck off or eat out someone who just pulled out of someone else, or was just pulled out of, does that count as Sloppy Seconds, or is that just threesome sex?
Is there a time limit on Sloppy Seconds? In other words, how much time has to pass for Sloppy Seconds to just refresh into regular sex?
Does the idea of Sloppy Seconds excite you at all, giving or receiving?
Is there a better term for Sloppy Seconds?
Some couples (apparently) get off on the idea that one of them has just returned from sex with someone else, is this something you would like to explore? Have you tried it? What is, or what do you think is the appeal?

It's not something I've done. Nor is it something I would like I think, except in the context of consensual 3some/moresome - I'd like to have a vague idea of where a dick has been before I put it anywhere.

The other way round? I think again, if it's consensual... then it's not something I'd be against. If my partner/whatever liked the idea of it, and we could work it in a way that everyone involved was happy with, then fine.

But no. Doesn't really do much for me.

 

[hotwords229_A]

^^^ Both interesting answers as I hadn’t considered nonconsensual or unaware.

I was imagining the old idea of soldiers on leave waiting outside the prostitute’s door for their turn OR during a threesome, or consensual infidelity(?).

To me, Sloppy Seconds means that all parties are aware.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

Once upon a time Indie was having a very bad day. She drank too much and invited 3 different guys over to her house that night. At different times.

The end.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Are you gonna eat that?

https://i.imgflip.com/3fijmi.jpg

Let’s talk Sloppy Seconds:

Have you ever engaged in Sloppy Seconds, giving or receiving?
If you suck off or eat out someone who just pulled out of someone else, or was just pulled out of, does that count as Sloppy Seconds, or is that just threesome sex?
Is there a time limit on Sloppy Seconds? In other words, how much time has to pass for Sloppy Seconds to just refresh into regular sex?
Does the idea of Sloppy Seconds excite you at all, giving or receiving?
Is there a better term for Sloppy Seconds?
Some couples (apparently) get off on the idea that one of them has just returned from sex with someone else, is this something you would like to explore? Have you tried it? What is, or what do you think is the appeal?

Nope

 

[Artfan2]

Once upon a time Indie was having a very bad day. She drank too much and invited 3 different guys over to her house that night. At different times.

The end.

And they all lived happily ever after? Or at least for that night?

 

[hotwords229_A]

Once upon a time Indie was having a very bad day. She drank too much and invited 3 different guys over to her house that night. At different times.

The end.

Again, is that sloppy seconds or just a buffet?

And they all lived happily ever after? Or at least for that night?

Happily or stickily?

 

[MedicalMuse]

Are you gonna eat that?

https://i.imgflip.com/3fijmi.jpg

Let’s talk Sloppy Seconds:

Have you ever engaged in Sloppy Seconds, giving or receiving?

So I’ve had group sex, so that counts, right?

If you suck off or eat out someone who just pulled out of someone else, or was just pulled out of, does that count as Sloppy Seconds, or is that just threesome sex?

All of the above.

Is there a time limit on Sloppy Seconds? In other words, how much time has to pass for Sloppy Seconds to just refresh into regular sex?

Mmmm maybe 24 hours? A day or so. A shower at least.

Does the idea of Sloppy Seconds excite you at all, giving or receiving?

Meh.

Is there a better term for Sloppy Seconds?

31 flavors?

Some couples (apparently) get off on the idea that one of them has just returned from sex with someone else, is this something you would like to explore?

Eh

Have you tried it?

Yeah.

What is, or what do you think is the appeal?

I dunno. I think it’s because it’s taboo. The pussy is supposed to belong to the man who is married/relational to it or some shit. It really belongs to the chick that wears it. So I guess, it’s maybe exciting to think about your partner being with someone else and then coming home to you anyway? I’m not sure.

Edited to say: not really my jam. Thanks for asking though.

 

[K0fcali]

For me. That is usually the ones I sent to female friends. Fara has seen my Vag more than most guys ever did. lol. "Does this one look okay?"
Or maybe not the express intent to turn on. But to share, just to share. (seek approval/attention) Though. I guess that sounds silly. Sending a guy a Vag pic is going to turn him on if you have any kind of connection. (Or he just doesn't care who it belongs to. He will get turned on anyway)

I am just kidding of course. I honestly don't think I have encountered a mean vag. they have all been friendly.

 

[K0fcali]

Again, is that sloppy seconds or just a buffet?

Happily or stickily?

obviously boh mean the same thing in this scenario.

 

[K0fcali]

I feel like guys will have to get over the soft/hard thing before they ever get comfortable enough to share with other men.
Many guys are too hung up on posting/sharing a soft picture because they are too worried that it will label them as "small". Ask a guy to share a dick pic and he will almost always post hard.

yes because when asked for a dick pic we assume that is how it is wanted. personally I am very short and have an average size penis. I don't care how much bigger or smaller I am in comparison to men that are not me.
too many guys feel that way for sure but it only really affects sexual compatibility. the size of a man's penis can be offset by the size of the man's brain heart and wallet.

 

[Mr_bogey]

Lol @ 31 flavors @MedicalMuse

 

[MedicalMuse]

Lol @ 31 flavors @MedicalMuse

Ya know. Extreme seconds… flavor of the hour? Something like that. No hate. You do you Bogey

 

[Endless_Night]

Nope

What she said.


This also reminds me of a Lit story.

Which I will spare the crowd.

 

[hotwords229_A]

What she said.


This also reminds me of a Lit story.

Which I will spare the crowd.

I don’t think we should be spared.

 

[Apisto42]

What she said.


This also reminds me of a Lit story.

Which I will spare the crowd.

That is just mean. Tease.

 

[Apisto42]

Are you gonna eat that?

https://i.imgflip.com/3fijmi.jpg

Let’s talk Sloppy Seconds:

Have you ever engaged in Sloppy Seconds, giving or receiving?
If you suck off or eat out someone who just pulled out of someone else, or was just pulled out of, does that count as Sloppy Seconds, or is that just threesome sex?
Is there a time limit on Sloppy Seconds? In other words, how much time has to pass for Sloppy Seconds to just refresh into regular sex?
Does the idea of Sloppy Seconds excite you at all, giving or receiving?
Is there a better term for Sloppy Seconds?
Some couples (apparently) get off on the idea that one of them has just returned from sex with someone else, is this something you would like to explore? Have you tried it? What is, or what do you think is the appeal?

For the past couple decades, the only sloppy seconds I’ve had were my own with my wife. Personally, I love the way her pussy feels the second go around. She’s tight as fuck, so the second round is extra slippery and looser.

I don’t have any issue going down on her post filling her up, but it’s also not a fetish. It is hot as fuck though seeing my cum in her.

 

[hotwords229_A]

I don’t have any issue going down on her post filling her up,

I’ll never understand the guys who do.
It’s just part of the gig and it IS hot as fuck.

 

[Photog1rl]

Are you gonna eat that?

https://i.imgflip.com/3fijmi.jpg

Let’s talk Sloppy Seconds:

Have you ever engaged in Sloppy Seconds, giving or receiving?
If you suck off or eat out someone who just pulled out of someone else, or was just pulled out of, does that count as Sloppy Seconds, or is that just threesome sex?
Is there a time limit on Sloppy Seconds? In other words, how much time has to pass for Sloppy Seconds to just refresh into regular sex?
Does the idea of Sloppy Seconds excite you at all, giving or receiving?
Is there a better term for Sloppy Seconds?
Some couples (apparently) get off on the idea that one of them has just returned from sex with someone else, is this something you would like to explore? Have you tried it? What is, or what do you think is the appeal?

I’d always thought sloppy seconds referred to being the nth man to have sex with a woman where n≠1
I know this is a completely heteronormative perspective but it’s just what that term brings up in my mind.
I think it has to be close enough togeher that the cum is known about or noticeable for the next person.
Not a turn on but not a turn off either. I don’t think going down on someone after you’ve cum in them is sloppy seconds though.