Meeting Married Men

[Jeph77]

Agreed. if you just came from watching a baseball game downtown, it's tough to start the fantasy stuff 15 minutes later.

Throw me a change up and I'll be sure to get good wood on it.

 

[Jeph77]

If she does she hasn't given me any hints. She's smart and may figure it out at some point. Then I'll have to deal with it. I've been thinking about that and it may lead me into stopping with the guys. I don't want to hurt my kids or disrupt the apple cart.
This is another reason I am so picky & not meeting a lot of guys. If I met with one every couple of months, that is ok.

I'd rather be open about my desires and possibly share or have 3somes, MMF.

She'd be cool with you bringing another guy.

 

[TrailerHitch]

My wife knows of my bi-sexual curiosity/desires and is okay with it as long as I play safe. Ideally I would like a friends with benefits type arrangement. Anonymous hookups just seem sleazy and somewhat dangerous to me. Apparently that is just not how this works. So my curiosity may never be satisfied. Such is life.

 

[meme62626]

I get the friends with benefits thing, but some of us don't always hang with friends after work and such, so in my case, since wife knows I want to explore, but doesn't approve, bringing around a new friend would raise flags..

 

[TrailerHitch]

I get the friends with benefits thing, but some of us don't always hang with friends after work and such, so in my case, since wife knows I want to explore, but doesn't approve, bringing around a new friend would raise flags..

I understand your situation. It is not mine. I have no interest in meeting someone through essentially a gay dating sight that potentially has been with dozens or hundreds of men. Honestly I would love to find a neighbor that shared interests like car shows and such so we could use that as a cover to go spend the afternoon in a motel somewhere.

 

[meme62626]

I understand your situation. It is not mine. I have no interest in meeting someone through essentially a gay dating sight that potentially has been with dozens or hundreds of men. Honestly I would love to find a neighbor that shared interests like car shows and such so we could use that as a cover to go spend the afternoon in a motel somewhere.

That's a great plan a very feasible way to accomplish some fun.. don't give up..those guys are out there

 

[TrailerHitch]

That's a great plan a very feasible way to accomplish some fun.. don't give up..those guys are out there

Oh I haven't given up, I have just reduced my expectations to realize it may never happen.

 

[meme62626]

Oh I haven't given up, I have just reduced my expectations to realize it may never happen.

Well then it may happen when you least expect it..

 

[Jeph77]

It is difficult to find someone you can connect with. I dislike prowling in parks, restrooms around town and car hopping. This requires me to take my time and evaluate the people and situations.

Wow, you owe yourself a nice relaxed encounter.

 

[Jeph77]

She'd be cool with you bringing another guy.

Oh you were referring to threesomes with others. That's hot.

 

[Jeph77]

My wife knows of my bi-sexual curiosity/desires and is okay with it as long as I play safe. Ideally I would like a friends with benefits type arrangement. Anonymous hookups just seem sleazy and somewhat dangerous to me. Apparently that is just not how this works. So my curiosity may never be satisfied. Such is life.

I understand your situation. It is not mine. I have no interest in meeting someone through essentially a gay dating sight that potentially has been with dozens or hundreds of men. Honestly I would love to find a neighbor that shared interests like car shows and such so we could use that as a cover to go spend the afternoon in a motel somewhere.

Mmm that's hot. And very sensible.

 

[Jeph77]

There's an antique car show on 28 Oct 2023 in Columbus, GA. You can be my guest. I agree with you about finding someone or a small group of men with similar interests. We could enjoy the events and each other.

I'm going to be in Atlanta but not until November.

 

[Jeph77]

Sorry about that.

Yeah love those vintage hoons.

 

[Illgiveitatry1]

I understand your situation. It is not mine. I have no interest in meeting someone through essentially a gay dating sight that potentially has been with dozens or hundreds of men. Honestly I would love to find a neighbor that shared interests like car shows and such so we could use that as a cover to go spend the afternoon in a motel somewhere.

That's totally awesome to find a neighbor or somebody has the same interests you can head out and have fun. And I love car shows and have fun.

 

[TrailerHitch]

It is difficult to find someone you can connect with. I dislike prowling in parks, restrooms around town and car hopping. This requires me to take my time and evaluate the people and situations.

I simply will not do parks, restrooms, or car hopping. Too dangerous in so many ways, including getting caught and arrested. The thrill that some people find gratifying in those circumstances does not outweigh, for me anyways, the fallout from being caught. While I am not ashamed of my curiosity I am not sure many of my friends and family would understand, so it's best it stays hidden from prying eyes. Maybe someday it just won't matter, but that day isn't here yet.

 

[JudyCD]

I’m divorced and live alone. I was fortunate to find a married guy who works nearby and stops after work to get serviced.

 

[Jeph77]

I’m divorced and live alone. I was fortunate to find a married guy who works nearby and stops after work to get serviced.

That's a sweet arrangement. Like a kind of personal door dash.

 

[jakie69]

I have a couple of different apps and sites I use. I’ve also found a lot of married men using the gay saunas and bathouses, it’s a safe space where they can hook up and spend a couple of hours. I’ve met a few guys in bars and clubs, but they tend to be the guys who don’t care if their spouses find out (whatever their reason may be) I enjoy cruising and meeting guys who are looking for an easy experience, yes some places are not the cleanest or safest but a lot of the married guys I’ve met aren’t bothered and aren’t looking to stay that long, they just want to get what their wives or husbands won’t give them.

 

[TheF1x3r]

It has been a long time since I had to search out married men that want their cock sucked. I had a regular friend for about 3 or so years but that ended when I moved to a small town about 5 years ago. Since then I have not found a new friend,
i seem now to be unable to read the signs and because of this I have not had the pleasure of sucking a nice hard cock in a long long time. What do I need to look for, what’s the obvious and less obvious signs. Tired of only eating my own cum.

I've had this problem from the opposite side (as in; I like having my cock sucked). Trying find guys who aren't gay guys looking for more than just fun is quite tricky, and then sometimes when you do find someone they turn out to want more despite saying they don't.

 

[Beachguy23]

I wish we were close, I’d be glad to accommodate your needs and just suck your cock with no stress attached

 

[Jeph77]

I've had this problem from the opposite side (as in; I like having my cock sucked). Trying find guys who aren't gay guys looking for more than just fun is quite tricky, and then sometimes when you do find someone they turn out to want more despite saying they don't.

There are gents who are quite content to satisfy you orally without sliding into emotional, or unwanted interaction. They're only interested in what's between your legs and what it takes to keep you bringing it.

 

[Headmo]

I am divorced, essentially heterosexual, but I found I love the feel and experience of giving blowjobs. Don't want any complications, or risks, my experiences have been with men I knew and trusted. No one now, I would love to find a well hung married guy who only wants his cock sucked. And if he had married friends who wanted the same... why not?

 

[TheF1x3r]

There are gents who are quite content to satisfy you orally without sliding into emotional, or unwanted interaction. They're only interested in what's between your legs and what it takes to keep you bringing it.

It's harder to find than you might think, or rather it's harder to find in my location than you might think.

 

[Beachguy23]

Oh I completely agree with the small town challenge, I live in a town of under 20,000 and it is near impossible toind anyone. Plus there are not many places to go unless you are lucky enough to find someone that can host. Been over 5 years since I have had anyone I connected with.

 

[Donpadre]

I live in a much larger town and I found a guy through a website. He could host & gave me his address. It was half a block from a cousin of mine. Since she knows my car that one was nixed. I understand why some go to parks for a quick car rendezvous because there aren't many other places. The risk is too great for me which leaves me with infrequent arrangements. Like Mick Jagger sang, "I can't get no satisfaction."

Mick also sang " Do you hear me knocking?"