Spotting Male Cocksuckers

[Ciceri]

Did you end up doing more than sucking him?

Yes. He was heavily into BDSM and I submitted to him

 

[Flanast]

I had this shirt made to make it clear

 

[rube37]

I am not really sure how I fit into this conversation. I am not what I would call a feeder, but I do enjoy having another guy suck my cock. I am not what I would call a full blown cocksucker, but I have sucked and enjoyed it. I was bi-curious for a long time before acting on that curiosity and have since either stroked or sucked about a dozen guys. I enjoy playing with other cocks while having mine played with as well.

 

[Swuchmann]

Most of the cocks I suck are found through hook up sites. On two occasions I was propositioned. Fist was an older coworker at his place and the other was with a guy I shared a hotel room with.

Both times nothing was ever discussed ahead of time. They both found the right time to pull their cocks out…look at me…and I took the cue.

 

[Britva415]

I've been spending time watching and listening to cocksucking hypnosis audio/video.

I never heard of this. What are you talking about? What are these?

 

[Jordanjack]

I never heard of this. What are you talking about? What are these?

They're videos with subliminal messages and imagery meant to brainwash you into loving, and craving cock. I don't know if they're effective, but they do drive me wild. Search cock hypnosis or sissy hypnosis.

 

[friendlyoldman]

There are lots of more mature gentlemen up for cock fun than you might imagine...

I can confirm that

 

[tristantrotsky]

I am not really sure how I fit into this conversation. I am not what I would call a feeder, but I do enjoy having another guy suck my cock. I am not what I would call a full blown cocksucker, but I have sucked and enjoyed it. I was bi-curious for a long time before acting on that curiosity and have since either stroked or sucked about a dozen guys. I enjoy playing with other cocks while having mine played with as well.

The thing balances out delightfully, for every guy who yearns to get his cock sucked, somewhere there is a cocksucker who'd simply adore to pleasure him. It's just a matter of linking the two...

 

[txfuncouple]

I’d love to be able to let people know through my actions that I like to suck cocks. Seems best is the direct way at a gay bar, at least for me. Guy hits on you, if you’re interested talk a bit and then take care of business.

Guys online are sometimes flaky but that works too. Just takes more time to get things to work out.

I’ve never understood why is seems so hard to find a willing guy that you want to suck. You’d think the possibility of multiple bj’s a week would be something that most guys would love. Especially when I’m not asking for them to return the favor and if it goes well, I’ll let them do much more.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

I’d love to be able to let people know through my actions that I like to suck cocks. Seems best is the direct way at a gay bar, at least for me. Guy hits on you, if you’re interested talk a bit and then take care of business.

Guys online are sometimes flaky but that works too. Just takes more time to get things to work out.

I’ve never understood why is seems so hard to find a willing guy that you want to suck. You’d think the possibility of multiple bj’s a week would be something that most guys would love. Especially when I’m not asking for them to return the favor and if it goes well, I’ll let them do much more.

I'd love to find a local cocksucker, since my GF has left the area.

 

[SomaSlave]

I’d love to be able to let people know through my actions that I like to suck cocks. Seems best is the direct way at a gay bar, at least for me. Guy hits on you, if you’re interested talk a bit and then take care of business.

Guys online are sometimes flaky but that works too. Just takes more time to get things to work out.

I’ve never understood why is seems so hard to find a willing guy that you want to suck. You’d think the possibility of multiple bj’s a week would be something that most guys would love. Especially when I’m not asking for them to return the favor and if it goes well, I’ll let them do much more.

I wonder if part of the problem is that guys can be just too darn picky. While I understand there should be some attraction, at the end of the day, we're usually not talking about a relationship, but (for me) a cock in my mouth and (for you) your cock in a mouth getting pleasured. I'm not a perfect physical specimen, nor do I expect a potential playmate to be so. As long as they're clean, married, healthy and in reasonable shape and have a functioning cock, that's good enough for me.

 

[HotLoadLover]

It would be great if there were a way to tell - fortunately there are bars, websites, and theaters to help the less-observant mouths find hard men to service.

The long-past Hanky-Code would be great, especially if it was something only known to those in-search-of services/servicing.

 

[SomaSlave]

It would be great if there were a way to tell - fortunately there are bars, websites, and theaters to help the less-observant mouths find hard men to service.

The long-past Hanky-Code would be great, especially if it was something only known to those in-search-of services/servicing.

One of my recurring fantasies is being "owned" by a group of men who would make me wear a special pin. I would have to pleasure anyone who came up to me and recognized the pin, as they would clearly have been sent by my owners. It's a fantasy, I know, but, I hope, one that can be fulfilled one day.

 

[JudyCD]

One of my recurring fantasies is being "owned" by a group of men who would make me wear a special pin. I would have to pleasure anyone who came up to me and recognized the pin, as they would clearly have been sent by my owners. It's a fantasy, I know, but, I hope, one that can be fulfilled one day.

Nice fantasy!!!!!

 

[Swuchmann]

It would be great if there were a way to tell - fortunately there are bars, websites, and theaters to help the less-observant mouths find hard men to service.

The long-past Hanky-Code would be great, especially if it was something only known to those in-search-of services/servicing.

I have been an active bi bottom for 30 yrs. Only 3 occasions I was overtly offered to pleasure. They offered and I took them.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

One of my recurring fantasies is being "owned" by a group of men who would make me wear a special pin. I would have to pleasure anyone who came up to me and recognized the pin, as they would clearly have been sent by my owners. It's a fantasy, I know, but, I hope, one that can be fulfilled one day.

That is a great fantasy. How open would you be about doing the deed in public? Say on a beach?

My fantasy is free use sex by all consenting adults anywhere, anytime. Combining mine with yours - I am in the grocery store checking out, you are next in line and then I recognize your pin. You drop to your knees, unzip my pants and start sucking. I tell the cashier - "He'll be happy to suck you off too."

 

[friendlyoldman]

One of my recurring fantasies is being "owned" by a group of men who would make me wear a special pin. I would have to pleasure anyone who came up to me and recognized the pin, as they would clearly have been sent by my owners. It's a fantasy, I know, but, I hope, one that can be fulfilled one day.

Nice fantasy to use for a story. I like that idea of a pin anyway. Everyone who wants a blowjob from a man should wear one .

 

[nething4luv]

One of my recurring fantasies is being "owned" by a group of men who would make me wear a special pin. I would have to pleasure anyone who came up to me and recognized the pin, as they would clearly have been sent by my owners. It's a fantasy, I know, but, I hope, one that can be fulfilled one day.

Perhaps you can be the catalyst and design such a pin and get the word out...

 

[JustSexual_4321]

I think at some point you have to take a leap and ask. Not necessarily blurt out - "can I suck your cock" but something.

I was riding about a month ago (motorcycle) and stopped by a small lake for a break. There's never anyone in these areas so I was surprised to see another guy wandering around. I made a comment about how he seemed to have lost his boat. (there are loads of small boats stored there) We began chatting and had a great talk. I was just about to offer when started on about how God is going to fix all the problems in the world. You could hear the screeching of rubber as I hit the brakes. Probably still a chance he would be into it but I wasn't up for the "you're going to hell" speech if not. Bottom line is I find it harder to find feeders.



One thing to consider is an alpha feeder is likely not afraid to hit on any male he wants because he doesn't care if the guy isn't into it - they decline and he just moves on.

I'm going to try the eye contact and then hand on the crotch thing to see if it works.

 

[HotLoadLover]

One thing to consider is an alpha feeder is likely not afraid to hit on any male he wants because he doesn't care if the guy isn't into it - they decline and he just moves on.

The first few times you get 'the decline' it's kind've painful -- but after a while you realize this is just about a few minutes of sex-fun; you haven't asked him to marry you and build a life together, you've just asked to suck his cock. Move on - In a world with roughly four billion men, you're likely to find a hard cock for your mouth soon enough.

 

[Uncut1969]

Need a hand signal or sticker or pin to get true intentions

 

[Iwillgo]

If I am eating a banana and making eye contact with you, then you've spotted me. . Maintain eye contact, smile and start a conversation.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

If I am eating a banana and making eye contact with you, then you've spotted me. . Maintain eye contact, smile and start a conversation.

That would work.

 

[Excitabletom]

Let me tell you my challenge with finding partners online. It starts with a simple "hi" or "hey." Next we discuss what we like and / or are looking for. Maybe swap a picture. Now 20+ minutes in and I begin to think I found a friend. Then comes the hard part: Getting the trust to share a name or location. The previous "foreplay" is overcome with feelings of fear. So many "what if's..."

I will say the few times I have trusted the situation, I have had a safe and friendly encounter, but that final stage of "we should meet" is very tough! Not to mention the where and when.

Not easy to be a closeted bi cocksucker.

 

[ParkerSteve66]

Let me tell you my challenge with finding partners online. It starts with a simple "hi" or "hey." Next we discuss what we like and / or are looking for. Maybe swap a picture. Now 20+ minutes in and I begin to think I found a friend. Then comes the hard part: Getting the trust to share a name or location. The previous "foreplay" is overcome with feelings of fear. So many "what if's..."

I will say the few times I have trusted the situation, I have had a safe and friendly encounter, but that final stage of "we should meet" is very tough! Not to mention the where and when.

Not easy to be a closeted bi cocksucker.

Not easy to be a closeted anything. Closeted cunt munchers, closeted straight fuckers (cheaters), etc. all have the same problem.