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DaddysYogaBabyGirl said:
There is a loss of seed, but you still get to share the feeling of leaving fluid inside. I love feeling a man cumming inside of me. It's just a natural urge and a primal pleasure we were born to share together. Amen to that!
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You bring up an interesting set of issues.

How important/worrisome is it to individual girls/women/females (choose your self-descriptor) that a boy's/man's/male's cum is "hot," so to speak? One of the smaller (yet very real) concerns about getting snipped is being thus unappealing to our partners! They're not necessarily maiesiophiliacs, just average women who find the implicit vulnerability part of their sexuality.

I know my (late) wife enjoyed going to work "loaded" as it were (she told me), but I never thought to ask whether it was the wetness or the possibilities (or both!) that pleased her.
 
My husband got snipped early in our marriage but I never noticed any difference in the amount of fluid. It is convenient not having to deal with condoms. I do not think it affected my sexual pleasure at all when we had sex. In my 40's, I did cheat a couple of times and ended up with a infusion of sperm. Now the sex was great but there are so many factors that it would be impossible to say that the extra excitement was due to his ability to breed me. A different partner and doing something naughty were also factors that enhanced the experience. It did set me on the path to realizing that I do crave variety.
 
DaddysYogaBabyGirl said:
Wow.. I never thought of that before. I guess there really is a thought process behind him not cumming inside. LIKE feeling concerned... "what's wrong with me that he can't finish inside of me?" I wonder how many other women look at a man not cumming inside as a negative thing? Thank you for bringing that important aspect of sex up for debate.
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100% okay that him not coming is a negative: If that's what you want (and from reading here, it's pretty essential to women--YAY!), that's what you want. Full stop.

But having been on the wrong end of this equation, I have to plead the male case: It is almost certainly, 99.999% (how many nines do you wish?), NOT YOU, and there is not a damn thing you can do to "fix" it (flex those Kegels; suck like a Dyson; jerk like a weightlifter). It's him and believe me, it hurts him just as much. He wants release not just for its own sake (which is substantial and one of the few degrees men experience that women cannot equal [IMO]), but he knows his chances of another date/night/romp with you is reduced (somewhat ironically actually--remember when they thought of him coming inside you was terrifying?) if he does not, how shall I put this, "pay proper honor" to the pleasure of your body, and that is unthinkable.

Speaking of numbers, if he's not cheating on a wife or GF, 99-point infinitely "9" it's alcohol. After guilt, booze is definitely number two, and you females are well within your rights to be offended/disappointed that he more or less chose ethanol over your body. Maybe cut him some slack and assure him that even if there are no fireworks this time, you'd like to see what he's capable of at the top of his game? I know it's asking a LOT to imply/commit to another encounter (especially when this one doesn't make you feel like a goddess), but shit happens (or doesn't in this situation).

From experience. Thankfully, she gave me a do-over. I like to think I repaid the favor with dramatic interest.
 
UtilityCurve said:
100% okay that him not coming is a negative: If that's what you want (and from reading here, it's pretty essential to women--YAY!), that's what you want. Full stop.
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It's true that we feel like it's a slight to our femininity. If he can't get erect OR if he can't breed up inside leaving his reward... we automatically feel, "he's not attracted or I must be doing something wrong." it's human nature to feel a personal slap in the face and our sexual confidence.

UtilityCurve said:
But having been on the wrong end of this equation, I have to plead the male case: It is almost certainly, 99.999% (how many nines do you wish?), NOT YOU, and there is not a damn thing you can do to "fix" it (flex those Kegels; suck like a Dyson; jerk like a weightlifter). It's him and believe me, it hurts him just as much. He wants release not just for its own sake (which is substantial and one of the few degrees men experience that women cannot equal [IMO]), but he knows his chances of another date/night/romp with you is reduced (somewhat ironically actually--remember when they thought of him coming inside you was terrifying?) if he does not, how shall I put this, "pay proper honor" to the pleasure of your body, and that is unthinkable.
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I will need to read this a few times. I do understand... and as you put it... there are two sides to every story.

UtilityCurve said:
Speaking of numbers, if he's not cheating on a wife or GF, 99-point infinitely "9" it's alcohol. After guilt, booze is definitely number two, and you females are well within your rights to be offended/disappointed that he more or less chose ethanol over your body. Maybe cut him some slack and assure him that even if there are no fireworks this time, you'd like to see what he's capable of at the top of his game? I know it's asking a LOT to imply/commit to another encounter (especially when this one doesn't make you feel like a goddess), but shit happens (or doesn't in this situation).

From experience. Thankfully, she gave me a do-over. I like to think I repaid the favor with dramatic interest.
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Basically, you're saying stop taking it so personally.... men have performance anxiety so "give him some slack" and take a compassionate return trip and ride the pony again?? He may be well UP to delivering a very good roller-coaster thrill the next time? OK!... Your "do-over" story gave us all something to think about.
 
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DaddysYogaBabyGirl said:
Basically, you're saying stop taking it so personally.... men have performance anxiety so "give him some slack" and take a compassionate return trip and ride the pony again?? He may be well UP to delivering a very good roller-coaster thrill the next time? OK!... You're "do-over" story gave us all something to think about.
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Though I may have not put it that way, that's exactly what he said.
 
Just an idle thought: There are two things human bodies produce which are of NO USE P WHATEVER to he body producing it: Milk and semen.

The fact that both have an urgency to be released might just be the closest point of understanding between men and women (though it is a universal experience for men, not so for women).

Nevertheless, it was always in my mind that in orgasm, the pleasure I felt was for me, the fluid for her. Ideally, she would want it, enjoy the sensation of receiving it (not least for what it told her--pretty clearly!--how attractive I thought she was), but in the end, how she "interpreted" it was up to her, not me. My "job" was to honestly express my attraction, affection and pleasure.

I remember, VIVIDLY, the first time my wife acknowledged the nature if this "giving." It was electric, being different (male and female) yet united in the purpose of me giving and her receiving. When you add words to the process, it settles the whole thing into a satisfaction unavailable otherwise: Imagine (being male) not having your partner encouraging you to give her your cum; imagine (as a female) not having your partner being (wrong word, but I can't muster a better one) grateful that you accepted it happily.
 
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UtilityCurve said:
Just an idle thought: There are two things human bodies produce which are of NO USE P WHATEVER to he body producing it: Milk and semen.

The fact that both have an urgency to be released might just be the closest point of understanding between men and women (though it is a universal experience for men, not so for women).

Nevertheless, it was always in my mind that in orgasm, the pleasure I felt was for me, the fluid for her. Ideally, she would want it, enjoy the sensation of receiving it (not least for what it told her--pretty clearly!--how attractive I thought she was), but in the end, how she "interpreted" it was up to her, not me. My "job" was to honestly express my attraction, affection and pleasure.

I remember, VIVIDLY, the first time my wife acknowledged the nature if this "giving." It was electric, being different (male and female) yet united in the purpose of me giving and her receiving. When you add words to the process, it settles the whole thing into a satisfaction unavailable otherwise: Imagine (being male) not having your partner encouraging you to give her your cum; imagine (as a female) not having your partner being (wrong word, but I can't muster a better one) grateful that you accepted it happily.
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Many women (myself included) beg for him to cum inside. Often we will do whatever we can to keep him buried inside to make his deposit. We ARE grateful that the finishing made its way inside. It's not just the ACT of sex that involves LOVE... it's the impregnating that allows a man and a woman to become one. IF the idea wasn't to conceive then the reward he gifts her with is just his naked strength and energy ending in the form of fluid.
 
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A lot of different perspectives on this. I like cumming inside but also enjoy cumming outside too. Mainly because I have had girlfriends that liked to visual of me cumming on their stomachs or breasts. I had one gf that really liked to direct the stream of cum. She would give me handjobs and enjoy seeing it squirt. She would direct it onto my chest and then rub it in. Or during intercourse she had me pull out and finish me with her hand.

If she was on top Cowgirl style she liked me to finish inside her, but that was usually after she came.
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The realisation of cumming inside makes the orgasm brighter several times over. And the feeling for the woman who gets high from it is very strong at that moment.
But this option also gives a strong emotional boost: gif
 
DaddysYogaBabyGirl said:
Outdoors. Indoors. No matter where you are... a man will eventually become Dominate -- being casually nude together can easily result in some very deep breeding. Overpowering her very petite body with his primal strength.

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You left out half the story!

IME, the overwhelming majority of female partners (NOT universal, so I take this attitude to be hard-wired, subject to environment messing with it) enjoy that very thing: Him, bigger, stronger, disinclined to take "no" for an answer, supremely unlikely to disengage until he has had his pleasure--and choosing YOU to provide that satisfaction.

We can wear whatever masks in public or polite company we must, but it's genuinely a relief to just be how we are for a while.
 
Cumming inside is the ultimate. My wife likes to clamp her already tight pussy down on me at just the right time. I keep going knowing that when she releases her grip I am going to cum insanely hard and feel indescribable pleasure as I shoot like a rocket.
 
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