Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[Cindy027]

Twatwaffles, asshats and morons need not apply.

Oh no, I was really enjoying my time here.

 

[BrendaBear]

It has never happened. OTOH I have never been stalked or harassed.

Oh? Should we try?

 

[Strixaluco]

Communication!!!

And actually bothering to read the profile...

 

[Trubbycat]

It has never happened. OTOH I have never been stalked or harassed.

Me either. I can't imagine anyone ever being that interested in me

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Somehow, the amount of work I have to do to prepare to take a sick day is almost as much as if I'd just worked a regular day. Finally getting to go back to bed now.

 

[BrendaBear]

Oh no, I was really enjoying my time here.

We are enjoying your time here too! You are none of those…

 

[VoraciousValue]

Me either. I can't imagine anyone ever being that interested in me

Same here.

 

[Strixaluco]

Me either. I can't imagine anyone ever being that interested in me

I wouldn't say the linecrossers are more interested than the polite people. It's just a question of manners.

 

[B2fromA2looking4U]

Okay serious question for you guys.

How do women know when they cross the line? Do men feel like they can speak up and say they are not interested? Do certain things make men uncomfortable?

Its dangerous when someone sets my brain into thinking on overdrive. I have to respond or it will stay in my head for ever!

First, men should but most do not read profiles. That would satisfy many misscommunication issues. I admit I can go quiet when discussion turn to kinks that I am not into (no judgement just my flavor of tea is different). Regardless as some of you have learned, I can be a good listenr and sharer of my life experiences when I think it could help someone. Only once did I have an unsoliicited PM and that I just ignored figuring it to be a scam. Remember, we older men are prime targets for young scammers.

 

[Lmizzler]

Okay serious question for you guys.

How do women know when they cross the line?

Same as with men. You have to tell them.

Do men feel like they can speak up and say they are not interested?

Yes. I do. There is actually a woman on here now that I had to reply to and let her know I wasn’t interested. She definitely wanted my attention more than I wanted hers. She didn’t cross any lines of sending me anything I wasn’t comfortable with but I did have to tell her I wasn’t interested.

Do certain things make men uncomfortable?

I think the comfortableness-o-meter is completely different for every person. But women are probably asked way more than men are to do things that are uncomfortable since the man to woman ratio is so skewed on here.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Yes. I do. There is actually a woman on here now that I had to reply to and let her know I wasn’t interested. She definitely wanted my attention more than I wanted hers. She didn’t cross any lines of sending me anything I wasn’t comfortable with but I did have to tell her I wasn’t interested.

Stop talking about me in public Mizzy.

 

[Lmizzler]

Stop talking about me in public Mizzy.

Shoot, I forgot you were in this thread too!
Where’s the block button again?

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

Shoot, I forgot you were in this thread too!
Where’s the block button again?

Its right next to the box of crans.

 

[drobert44]

We are enjoying your time here too! You are none of those…

Brenda, how did job interview go?

 

[BrendaBear]

 

[Lmizzler]

Does this mean the interview went zen-like?

 

[BrendaBear]

Does this mean the interview went zen-like?

No, that is tomorrow afternoon. This is me trying to be zen like mentally preparing.

 

[Lmizzler]

No, that is tomorrow afternoon. This is me trying to be zen like mentally preparing.

 

[BrendaBear]

I am glad to see you know how to appease a pussy.

 

[Lmizzler]

I am glad to see you know how to appease a pussy.

Just takes some kind words and a little gentle rubbing…

But skeleton arms help a lot too!

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Oh no, I was really enjoying my time here.

We'll make an exception because it says there that you are a Goddess.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Oh? Should we try?

Sure...go for it...I should warn you, I have no idea how to take a compliment, so I might not recognize harassment.

 

[BrendaBear]

Sure...go for it...I should warn you, I have no idea how to take a compliment, so I might not recognize harassment.

You called my bluff… I have no idea how to harass or stalk someone. Not my skillset at all.

Should we just have some whiskey instead?

 

[LupineOne]

My day in Mexico

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

You called my bluff… I have no idea how to harass or stalk someone. Not my skillset at all.

Should we just have some whiskey instead?

I bet you say that to all the boys...(you had me at Whiskey)