Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[Deadbed1968]

We can start slow.
Name one thing you like or if it’s easier one thing you don’t like.

Like: Lots of tongue
Dislike: teeth

 

[LupineOne]

Well let’s talk about blowjobs then…Trubby mentioned the best he’s had. What makes a great blowjob?

The keys are eye contact, gentle use of your tongue and lips, especially around the head.
Please don’t neglect the balls.
And above everything else: convey you’re enjoying what you’re doing

 

[Codeman93]

We can start slow.
Name one thing you like or if it’s easier one thing you don’t like.

Intimacy

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Remembering the best bj I ever had…
Good times…

Story time?

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

I’m sorry, I’m on my knees, worshiping at the alter, head bowed in prayer and my mouth full of…Hail Mary’s…

Wait... are you a Catholic girl, too?

 

[cascadiabound]

Question: how much does enthusiasm make up for technique?

 

[cascadiabound]

Like: Lots of tongue
Dislike: teeth

This seems like an obvious place to start.

 

[BrendaBear]

Question: how much does enthusiasm make up for technique?

 

[Photog1rl]

Wait... are you a Catholic girl, too?

born and raised. I was even married in the church. Full mass.

 

[Codeman93]

Question: how much does enthusiasm make up for technique?

All of it

 

[Deadbed1968]

Story time?

It’s funny. The only one that sticks out is from my second girlfriend. She really knew what she was doing, but she had made me promise to never cum in her mouth. I was fine with that and would always tell her to stop before the point of no return. One time I tell her to stop, and she keeps going. I repeat telling her to stop, she continues. Finally I try to push her away and she tells me to cum. I exploded. Hottest thing ever!

 

[Photog1rl]

I’d love to hear more about the intimacy piece too.

 

[Deadbed1968]

Question: how much does enthusiasm make up for technique?

Not necessarily. If it hurts, enthusiasm actually makes it worse.

 

[Codeman93]

I’d love to hear more about the intimacy piece too.

Oral is a two way piece where it can be taken slow almost on a worship status making sure your partner feels all the pleasure never loosing eye contact and it works both ways

 

[Deadbed1968]

I’d love to hear more about the intimacy piece too.

Seeing her look me in the eyes while sucking is really intense. It’s difficult to control yourself then.

 

[cascadiabound]

Not necessarily. If it hurts, enthusiasm actually makes it worse.

I would hope an enthusiastic lover is paying close enough attention to not cause pain... unless pain is wanted of course

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

What makes a good blowjob?

My opinion only, as the owner of a penis...

Two things. First, ignore Porn. Deepthroat looks great on video. Very impressive. But just work the head and I am a happy man. Details? Lips, gentle use of the teeth, tongue around the rim.

Second? Don't forget to play with my balls. Always.

Bonus: look up at me. There was a terrific video posted on "Don't Stress..." where the woman (she can accept responsibility for a text book hummer) administering it looks up, wide eyed...that look gets me every time I see it (in person).

Enoght detail?

 

[Trubbycat]

Now this is a great topic! What made it the best?

Well now…

(Puts on sweater, settles into rocking chair)

My wife was putting a convention together in NYC. Because it was so much work and required so much time she got a room at the site (the Waldorf Astoria). Since we live right outside the city we decided that I would stay with her.

The room had a nice big bathtub and since we loved to take baths together we decided to use it. After luxuriating in the hot bubbly water we started getting frisky. We rearranged things in the tub. I put my face in the water and began to eat her until she was squirming. Then she returned the favor, sucking my cock in the water. Needless to say we soaked the bathroom.

Then she had an idea. We went to the bed and she lay on her back with her head off the edge and I slid into her mouth and down her throat. Words don’t describe how it felt and even now decades later just the memory is turning me on.

Unfortunately my wife never liked cum in the mouth so with great reluctance I pulled out. To make it up to me she rolled over and bent over the bed, where I gave he probably the hardest doggie style we have ever done. I pounded her until I shot so far deep inside I don’t think it ever came out.

So there, PG. best bj I ever had.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

born and raised. I was even married in the church. Full mass.

No wonder we hit it off. You kinky little heathen.

 

[Photog1rl]

It’s funny. The only one that sticks out is from my second girlfriend. She really knew what she was doing, but she had made me promise to never cum in her mouth. I was fine with that and would always tell her to stop before the point of no return. One time I tell her to stop, and she keeps going. I repeat telling her to stop, she continues. Finally I try to push her away and she tells me to cum. I exploded. Hottest thing ever!

This raises a great question. Spit, swallow, clean up slowly..

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Question: how much does enthusiasm make up for technique?

I lovevwhen she loves it.

 

[Deadbed1968]

This raises a great question. Spit, swallow, clean up slowly..

In that case it was a swallow

 

[Codeman93]

This raises a great question. Spit, swallow, clean up slowly..

See that’s on her, what I prefer is swallow or a slow clean up but it’s also her decision

 

[cascadiabound]

No wonder we hit it off. You kinky little heathen.

Kinky church girls unite!

 

[LupineOne]

We can start slow.
Name one thing you like or if it’s easier one thing you don’t like.

Like: include your fingers to change it up
Dislike: too much pressure

Question: how much does enthusiasm make up for technique?

For most, but not all of it