Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I **may** have had some of the hottest, let’s call them chats, with a younger guy. I was skeptical at first but he is so hot and willing and open. And it’s not cause he’s young that I enjoy it-that isn’t my thing AT ALL!

It’s that he is confident and engaged. Wants to please and be pleased and is funny AF.
Am I his older lady kink…maybe. Do I mind?? Not at all. Chase the pleasure and enjoy it as it comes.

I do think lit is a little different than real world. There are so few women on lit, plus young women especially, young men have to be willing to play up in age if they are going to play at all. Like, when you were young, would you have ever been here? I know I wouldn't. When I was young, if I wanted to do something or was curious, I just went and did it. Problem solved. I wouldn't expect young women to be here unless they got married and had kids really young. Spouses and children are totally real life beaver dams and all.

 

[Dionysian Beast]

Thank you DB!

The last time I was called DB here was probably 5 years ago. Maybe longer.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Hiya Musey, good to see ya.

Heya MrT

 

[Daisy_Love]

Also, good afternoon

Hey MM

 

[BrendaBear]

Oh mentally, I’m still a child.

You are a Goddess!!!

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

I love you, Nebs!

I love you too

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

So long as you’re physically an adult, we’re all good. At least that’s what my lawyer says.

If there’s grass on the field, play ball!

 

[MedicalMuse]

I **may** have had some of the hottest, let’s call them chats, with a younger guy. I was skeptical at first but he is so hot and willing and open. And it’s not cause he’s young that I enjoy it-that isn’t my thing AT ALL!

It’s that he is confident and engaged. Wants to please and be pleased and is funny AF.
Am I his older lady kink…maybe. Do I mind?? Not at all. Chase the pleasure and enjoy it as it comes.

I can’t even tell you how much I love this. It’s so good when you have that click and it’s fun

 

[MedicalMuse]

Hey MM

Hello Beauty!

 

[jason28053]

I do think lit is a little different than real world. There are so few women on lit, plus young women especially, young men have to be willing to play up in age if they are going to play at all. Like, when you were young, would you have ever been here? I know I wouldn't. When I was young, if I wanted to do something or was curious, I just went and did it. Problem solved. I wouldn't expect young women to be here unless they got married and had kids really young. Spouses and children are totally real life beaver dams and all.

Beaver dams! Now that’s a good one

 

[Rapharider]

If there’s grass on the field, play ball!

Or as we say in England, if there’s grass on the wicket, let’s play cricket.

Although considering the age most girls hit puberty, that maxim could get you in a lot of trouble.

 

[Photog1rl]

I do think lit is a little different than real world. There are so few women on lit, plus young women especially, young men have to be willing to play up in age if they are going to play at all. Like, when you were young, would you have ever been here? I know I wouldn't. When I was young, if I wanted to do something or was curious, I just went and did it. Problem solved. I wouldn't expect young women to be here unless they got married and had kids really young. Spouses and children are totally real life beaver dams and all.

You are very right but I'm still not complaining lol i’ll be an older lady kink

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

I **may** have had some of the hottest, let’s call them chats, with a younger guy. I was skeptical at first but he is so hot and willing and open. And it’s not cause he’s young that I enjoy it-that isn’t my thing AT ALL!

It’s that he is confident and engaged. Wants to please and be pleased and is funny AF.
Am I his older lady kink…maybe. Do I mind?? Not at all. Chase the pleasure and enjoy it as it comes.

Right? Fuck it. From what I have heard, these young studs like us because we aren’t as insecure as girls in their 20s. I know I was insecure in my 20s.

 

[OrdinaryPerson]

I still don’t feel like an adult at 43 so god knows what that makes anyone younger than me!

My age-dar is off. I wouldve guessed you were like 35. When i see a 25 year old i think its a 18 year old. So basically im checking out 50 year olds thinking they are my age. Or maybe its just that i like dad bods.

 

[Mrtenant]

I think in the end, like any kind of relationship, you weigh in as many factors as you can- or want to, then decide how you want to proceed.

Some will be a success based on whatever criteria, and some will fail. You don't know, unless you take that risk and find out.

None of this lasts.
Be fearless as much as you can, and fucking live. Have experiences. Treasure, value, and remember them all. These are our stories.

 

[Rapharider]

My age-dar is off. I wouldve guessed you were like 35.

I’m beginning to like you more and more!

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

Or as we say in England, if there’s grass on the wicket, let’s play cricket.

Although considering the age most girls hit puberty, that maxim could get you in a lot of trouble.

That’s true. There was grass on my wicket long before I was 18.

 

[Photog1rl]

The last time I was called DB here was probably 5 years ago. Maybe longer.

Should I take it back? How about Beast or Beastie?? I’m kind of a nick name gal…

 

[ShaneoD]

I love how the last post on my news feed is two pages behind the thread already

 

[Rapharider]

That’s true. There was grass on my wicket long before I was 18.

And I’m sure you didn’t play any cricket until you were at least 21.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

I think in the end, like any kind of relationship, you weigh in as many factors as you can- or want to, then decide how you want to proceed.

Some will be a success based on whatever criteria, and some will fail. You don't know, unless you take that risk and find out.

None of this lasts.
Be fearless as much as you can, and fucking live. Have experiences. Treasure, value, and remember them all. These are our stories.

I freaking adore you and your wisdom

 

[Dionysian Beast]

Should I take it back? How about Beast or Beastie?? I’m kind of a nick name gal…

No, definitely not. I was just feeling nostalgic.
I'm totally cool with either of those, been called those here, as well lol

 

[ShaneoD]

one of the wildest things about getting older is that I 100% can’t tell the difference between a teenager and a 24yo anymore

I had this conversation with a friend of mine two Saturdays ago, I was chatting to a girl when he asked how old she was. I just pulled a face and said she could be anywhere from 24 to 42

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

And I’m sure you didn’t play any cricket until you were at least 21.

17. And I feel like I was a late bloomer

 

[Mrtenant]

I freaking adore you and your wisdom

I'll pay you next week for that, I'm out of cash right now