Chaos: Don't Stress, Undress

[SassySheDevil]

But my biggest scar. Many know about this of course. I created a thread while I was going through it as a reminder for women to get their boobs checked. Like @Lindi37 I named this one "Shitty titty." I was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 years ago this month. Right after vs now. It has thankfully faded a lot but is a huge cause of my unsexy feelings these days. Like with weight loss. Even if you know you look/feel better. Sometimes looking in the mirror is hard because you still see the old you.
Now that it is faded. I know it is a ton better. But I still see that right after look.

 

[Lindi37]

But my biggest scar. Many know about this of course. I created a thread while I was going through it as a reminder for women to get their boobs checked. Like @Lindi37 I named this one "Shitty titty." I was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 years ago this month. Right after vs now. It has thankfully faded a lot but is a huge cause of my unsexy feelings these days. Like with weight loss. Even if you know you look/feel better. Sometimes looking in the mirror is hard because you still see the old you.
Now that it is faded. I know it is a ton better. But I still see that right after look.

Fuck yea! Go you for getting checked out! I have has cancer twice now and it’s horrid. I think the biggest scar is internal. Every wee niggle you second guess… I assume you are cancer free now?

 

[SassySheDevil]

I’d most self conscious about it. I’d rather show anything else on my body that my stomach

Same. Though I did cave for that when I had a thread about trying to accept our flaws. It was an uplifting kind of thing. It was fun. I got a bunch of women to send me what they thought of as their flaws and started a thread. We love to accept everyone else's flaws. Including the same ones, we have. But struggle with accepting our own. We're funny that way.

 

[Trubbycat]

Here's hoping you are recovered! Before she met me my wife had a scare and went in for a biopsy. Everything turned out fine but she does have a boob scar from the surgery.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Fuck yea! Go you for getting checked out! I have has cancer twice now and it’s horrid. I think the biggest scar is internal. Every wee niggle you second guess… I assume you are cancer free now?

I am. But I had the most aggressive kind which is common to come back. So, like you said. Anything sets off my fears. I know that every ache and pain I have will forever make me think it has returned.

 

[Lindi37]

I am. But I had the most aggressive kind which is common to come back. So, like you said. Anything sets off my fears. I know that every ache and pain I have will forever make me think it has returned.

The ‘benefit’ of the aggressive one is hopefully you’re listened to when you have those fears. Its the only reason my second was picked up so early. After that I was told the likely hood of a third type is definite but weight loss and cutting back in inflamatory foods would lengthen the time till the next diagnosis. Big hugs

 

[SassySheDevil]

For the more simple scar. As I explained a few pages (probably 20 by now) I was born super small. Not early, but just very small. Most of my childhood I was always behind and much smaller than my classmates. So, I eventually started getting a bunch of tests done to see if anything was abnormal. This was from a skin test. They take a piece of your skin and stretch it to get an idea of your growth. Therefor. I knew early on I'd never reach 5'

 

[SassySheDevil]

The ‘benefit’ of the aggressive one is hopefully you’re listened to when you have those fears. Its the only reason my second was picked up so early. After that I was told the likely hood of a third type is definite but weight loss and cutting back in inflamatory foods would lengthen the time till the next diagnosis. Big hugs

I think my doctor is used to my freak outs now lol. I'm just a mess of freak outs though as I am also entering menopause. Ugh.

 

[Rapharider]

I think my doctor is used to my freak outs now lol. I'm just a mess of freak outs though as I am also entering menopause. Ugh.

Mother Nature can be a right clunt sometimes.

 

[Photog1rl]

My skin cancers and melanoma scars are definitely my biggest. Well, that and my csection but aint noone seeing that!

I was thinking along those lines.
C-section, gall bladder removal…do stretch marks count?
Nope-not sharing lol

 

[Diosax]

I am. But I had the most aggressive kind which is common to come back. So, like you said. Anything sets off my fears. I know that every ache and pain I have will forever make me think it has returned.

That is the scariest part! Thinking it came back or being scared it will. Meanwhile people move on and it stays with you. Hope it goes away some day

 

[Mr_bogey]

It is. Still horribly ugly although some women haventhem and their tummiesnare flat afterwards

Beauty marks as far as I'm concerned. That little imperfection (not yours, obviously) is responsible for the 3 best things in my life. I think it's spectacularly sexy.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Mother Nature can be a right clunt sometimes.

Yes she can.

That is the scariest part! Thinking it came back or being scared it will. Meanwhile people move on and it stays with you. Hope it goes away some day

Thank you and yes. This is 100% true. I was worried I'd never be alive to be a grandmother and now I currently have one on the way.

 

[Diosax]

Yes she can.

Thank you and yes. This is 100% true. I was worried I'd never be alive to be a grandmother and now I currently have one on the way.

Congrats!

 

[SassySheDevil]

Congrats!

Thank you.

 

[Diosax]

I have 3 scars

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Yes mine was too but sadly that is where my fat roll sits now. It basically hangs over the scar.

ah the joys of getting old. I like to look on the plus side, with the way the boobs are heading for the knees they may be covering that belly roll soon enough.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

But my biggest scar. Many know about this of course. I created a thread while I was going through it as a reminder for women to get their boobs checked. Like @Lindi37 I named this one "Shitty titty." I was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 years ago this month. Right after vs now. It has thankfully faded a lot but is a huge cause of my unsexy feelings these days. Like with weight loss. Even if you know you look/feel better. Sometimes looking in the mirror is hard because you still see the old you.
Now that it is faded. I know it is a ton better. But I still see that right after look.

wow the healing is amazing, it is barely visible.

 

[SassySheDevil]

ah the joys of getting old. I like to look on the plus side, with the way the boobs are heading for the knees they may be covering that belly roll soon enough.

haha I have always said that that is a perk of having big boobs. Can't see my belly!

wow the healing is amazing, it is barely visible.

Yes it is. I was really worried it would stay very visible. You can see the pinching of the skin more than the scar for the most part.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

haha I have always said that that is a perk of having big boobs. Can't see my belly!

Yes it is. I was really worried it would stay very visible. You can see the pinching of the skin more than the scar for the most part.

it is impressive, at this point, I walk into a table and the bruise is there for 5 years lol.

 

[Trubbycat]

it is impressive, at this point, I walk into a table and the bruise is there for 5 years lol.

Just shows you have delicate skin

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

No more scars to share... so you'll get an old-fashioned shower pic! Also! Any guys or gals want to try thos paired picture thing with me? I love the idea! ( though I can't do anything elaborate until Monday... weekendshift )
Love,
Thom

 

[Trubbycat]

I'm looking forward to having a drink and getting naked... if I can clear the house...

 

[RDM97756]

For the more simple scar. As I explained a few pages (probably 20 by now) I was born super small. Not early, but just very small. Most of my childhood I was always behind and much smaller than my classmates. So, I eventually started getting a bunch of tests done to see if anything was abnormal. This was from a skin test. They take a piece of your skin and stretch it to get an idea of your growth. Therefor. I knew early on I'd never reach 5'

Wait, you not five feet! I mean I have always found you very attractive but you just made my heart skip a beat!

 

[Nicefella]

Mine aren't pointy either.

Bah. Pointy is evil.