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10/10 disagree but she may need even more time to relax and let go. Honestly? Investing time into
each other is the only way.
If she were open to it at all I'd agree. But she has been absolutely, 100% a no for awhile now. Tried some small plugs and she actually liked them, but after a couple times had a change of heart and got rid of them and said nothing is ever going near there again, much less any part of me. 😆

I don't push it, because its her right to like what she likes and not. I'm not going to push her.
 
I don't know. I have had a lot of female friends, and I break them into my personality. They know I am one of the least judgy people and if they share something they are embarrassed or disturbed by I will share worse in the same genre. They have confessed real crimes, horrible mistakes, affairs, all sorts of things that show a level of trust of a non judgmental environment, but most of their sexual confessions are more they other way. extremely limited life experience, from one or two partners to never owning an adult toy (I am now the advice provider on that topic). I think we may really be the exceptions not the rule in many of these areas.
nts: add honey badger as potential crime syndicate member, specialising in techie stuff, like buzzing closets 🤔
 
I like to think of humor in difficult times as a reminder, that we can still laugh with the hope that better days ahead can still be found. That yes, we must do our grief. But let us not believe we have to dwell in it...wallow in it if you will, take smaller bites and still enjoy our people. Let humor, dancing, art, exercise, be the respite and relief from a heavy experience.
Wise words Mr T ❤️
 
Oh, absolutely. I didn't marry for sex (at the time I thought we were more compatible there than we ended up being), and pretty much every other part of life we do well in. But not being as sexually compatible as I thought definitely puts alot of strain on the marriage.
Oh trust me, I get it. That's why I'm here.
 
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