Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

Yep - that is me too.
well, glad to hear I am not alone with my broken normal meter

I have taken to just being flat out nosey, which may be worse. like if something seems off and offensive, flat out asking the person who I think might the one who should be offended like if there a back story or is this over the line simply because I can't see the line. and ok fine, maybe I am nosey. of course, I more likely end up on the other side of the line, where I have to defend someone for the smartass jokes, sarcasm or shade they throw my way, because hey just some smack talk between friends lol. 🤣
 
The beads from Gasparilla have nothing to do with priates they were just straight stolen from Mardi Gras back in the 80's. Though beads would have been prevalent among pirates doing trading at certain periods as they were used in place of money both in the America's and parts of Africa later

This has been my history lesson for the day... don't ask for more I'm to tired to get into it. 🥱
so it is the deep cultural link between boobs and beads?
 
The beads from Gasparilla have nothing to do with priates they were just straight stolen from Mardi Gras back in the 80's. Though beads would have been prevalent among pirates doing trading at certain periods as they were used in place of money both in the America's and parts of Africa later

This has been my history lesson for the day... don't ask for more I'm to tired to get into it. 🥱
Yeah and now they are used in exchange for girls to show their tittiiez.
 
This statement, for me, sums up the lit experience and it is what makes me enjoy it so. We have thoughtful, intentioned folks like @Mrtenant that compose a voice memo before recording and people like me that record once and send it (warts and all) existing side by side. Both are welcome and celebrated.
I say this with all honesty because I so appreciate the thoughtfulness of folks on here and the space given to those of us that would never post or record anything if we had to listen/re-read what we were sharing.
It means you get my typos and bad grammar and punctuation-that I will forever blame on typing on my phone with my thumbs-alongside folks that wrote amazing poetry or share inspirational words and it is all ok.

Ok, enough mushy shit from me. 🤗
Yea, I have done both ways on these vox things. I prefer planned. 🤪
 
My life is a mess but that doesn't matter.

I've looked in a couple of times over the last few months. My own shitty head would have me paranoid and not even want to say hello.

I missed a lot of u, wish I was a stronger person.

And everytime when I was able to go online id stop. I'm a horrible human being. Messaging with Sin, feeling myself falling for her, someone feel so easy to talk to and then I'm in tears from her news, I become quite ill and then when better can't deal with the fact that she isn't getting better and part of me ran and hid.

I have no idea if this is the 1st and last post I do this year. I feel horrible, I feel like a failure, a terrible person. I call someone my friend and then basically dissappear when their at their most vulnerable. I can't forgive that and find it hard that anyone else would either. I don't know if I could still stay here with that overhanging.

❤️
Oh honey. Life is hard. Sometimes being the person we want to be, or the person we think other people want us to be is harder.
Lots of us missed you here. Sin is walking her path and her time is now short. She is at peace with that I think, as much as anyone who is a born kick ass fighter can possibly be. She knows she is deeply loved by so many here.
Lit and chaos folks especially maybe are a bit like a collection of misfit toys. We gather and support each other in this weird corner of the internet and find others who are somehow able to like and even love us in spite of/because of our strange, kinky, weird, nerdy, silly, idiosyncratic, fucked up, misunderstood selves.
One of the best things about this wild and fast moving threads is the you are not alone. Folks are here talking about random stuff, minutiae of life and the hard crap we all have to face... and you never know from one minute to another what it'll be. You are NOT alone honey. And you are not alone is feeling deeply sad. We all sometimes feel that we hsve failed, that we are horrible people who deserve nothing good...
BUT - this is a LIE we tell ourselves. You are good enough. And this place is better and more interesting when you visit and hang oit with us.
Sin would not want you wallowing. Be here. Be here now. We are all grieving for her already. The future is uncertain. Please be kind to yourself.

CUDDLE PUDDLE!!!!
@CthuluLives needs a HUGE chaos hug
 
Been to Mardi Gras a few times have we?
I have, and flashed a few times, one time still makes me smile and laugh to this day. But, I mostly found people just hand you beads for simply standing there on the street. One year was sent there for work over Mardi Gras. Ended up hanging out with some college kids and making a full dress of beads over my outfit. Even strangers added and helped. Such a friendly city.
 
I have, and flashed a few times, one time still makes me smile and laugh to this day. But, I mostly found people just hand you beads for simply standing there on the street. One year was sent there for work over Mardi Gras. Ended up hanging out with some college kids and making a full dress of beads over my outfit. Even strangers added and helped. Such a friendly city.
Yes it is. One of my best friends for almost 20 years lives there.
 
The beads from Gasparilla have nothing to do with priates they were just straight stolen from Mardi Gras back in the 80's. Though beads would have been prevalent among pirates doing trading at certain periods as they were used in place of money both in the America's and parts of Africa later

This has been my history lesson for the day... don't ask for more I'm to tired to get into it. 🥱
I like beads! They are shiny and distracting 📿📿📿
 
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