Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[Codeman93]

Okay, since I didn’t get to it yesterday:
Smoker is fired up

Whatcha making?

 

[BrendaBear]

Okay, since I didn’t get to it yesterday:
Smoker is fired up

I know there is a kinky joke in that statement somewhere, I just need to find it.

 

[Codeman93]

I know there is a kinky joke in that statement somewhere, I just need to find it.

Think the smoker is a her and she’s fired up

 

[LupineOne]

Whatcha making?

Bear and venison ribs. Dry rubbed with my own pastrami rub blend (toasted black pepper and coriander, brown sugar, other seasonings) for the venison ribs.
A rosemary dry rub (sweeter) for the bear ribs.
Smoked, then slow-roasted in venison stock until they're fall-off-the-bone.

 

[Dunes_et_Soleil]

I know there is a kinky joke in that statement somewhere, I just need to find it.

If you don't mind, I will just look over your shoulder as you are delving deeper

 

[Cogan]

I know there is a kinky joke in that statement somewhere, I just need to find it.

This was the first thing that went through my mind......


https://media.tenor.com/LP8wjpowopEAAAAC/smokin-the.gif

 

[Paul_Chance]

Hi Chaos People - just popping through - about to get in my Boston Whaler and navigate to an Italian place for lunch with a friend. Hope everyones days moving smoothly and for those who are in California - Rivers of Rain! Rivers I say!

 

[Cogan]

Bear and venison ribs. Dry rubbed with my own pastrami rub blend (toasted black pepper and coriander, brown sugar, other seasonings) for the venison ribs.
A rosemary dry rub (sweeter) for the bear ribs.
Smoked, then slow-roasted in venison stock until they're fall-off-the-bone.

I'll bring the beer!!

https://media.tenor.com/7RXBRuOsfKMAAAAM/forrest-gump-tom-hanks.gif

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Hi Chaos People - just popping through - about to get in my Boston Whaler and navigate to an Italian place for lunch with a friend. Hope everyones days moving smoothly and for those who are in California - Rivers of Rain! Rivers I say!

I'm jealous. your "about to" way beats my "about to" (I'm about to get on a conference call)

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Hey y’all I need some advise mainly from the lady’s, and yes I know she’s gonna see this later but it’s about me not her, for the ones who have ever been coupled with someone on lit, I’m very much struggling to not get defensive when other dude pretty much make passes at her on lit and yes I know it’s lit and a sexual place but I just I don’t know I’ve been kinda rude to a few people about it and I do feel bad because I know I hurt her feeling with how I acted but I’m just I don’t know struggling

What if you were in a pub together. You step away to play pool or to use the Gents. She is alone at the bar. A guy comes by and says "Hey come here often?" or some similar smooth line. Do you charge across the room and deck him? Of course not. You rely on her to say "Not interested" as politely as is warranted and wait for him to slink away. If he persists, then you can open up a can of verbal woop-ass (because he earned it).

 

[MedicalMuse]

I am fired up too

excellent song. my middle of the night jam. but I don't smoke. You can do that, babe.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Hi Chaos People - just popping through - about to get in my Boston Whaler and navigate to an Italian place for lunch with a friend. Hope everyones days moving smoothly and for those who are in California - Rivers of Rain! Rivers I say!

My GD Boat has been in a barn since Halloween and will be there until Cinco De Mayo or there abouts. Enjoy!

 

[cascadiabound]

Hey y’all I need some advise mainly from the lady’s, and yes I know she’s gonna see this later but it’s about me not her, for the ones who have ever been coupled with someone on lit, I’m very much struggling to not get defensive when other dude pretty much make passes at her on lit and yes I know it’s lit and a sexual place but I just I don’t know I’ve been kinda rude to a few people about it and I do feel bad because I know I hurt her feeling with how I acted but I’m just I don’t know struggling

You got a bunch of excellent advice on this topic. Lit can be a difficult place to manage your feelings and it's easy to chase ghosts of suppositions. Put a big fat check on it. Either trust her to handle herself with others and trust her word to you, or don't. If you can't trust her you are already done.
And she likely needs no help fighting her battles and setting boundaries. let her know you are available to help anytime, but don't assume she needs help and rescue her from stuff she has got handled.
Good luck. pretty sure you can do this. Pulling for you two.

Edit: also good on you for asking for advice and help on this.

 

[AlpineFresco]

Hey y’all I need some advise mainly from the lady’s, and yes I know she’s gonna see this later but it’s about me not her, for the ones who have ever been coupled with someone on lit, I’m very much struggling to not get defensive when other dude pretty much make passes at her on lit and yes I know it’s lit and a sexual place but I just I don’t know I’ve been kinda rude to a few people about it and I do feel bad because I know I hurt her feeling with how I acted but I’m just I don’t know struggling

Very not a lady here, but - if you've agreed to be exclusive, then trust her to handle it and turn 'em down herself. It's not your place to jump in, unless specifically asked.
If you don't trust her to handle it, you have a bigger problem.

 

[AlpineFresco]

Also hello everyone! I don't think I've swung by this place before!

 

[Photog1rl]

And @Codeman93 you both seem smitten as shit. Try to just enjoy it. As with everything in life things can always change but stressing on it takes the joy of now away.

 

[Photog1rl]

Also hello everyone! I don't think I've swung by this place before!

Welcome. Sometime things move fast in here and sometime it is slow. Jump in where you want and don’t take things too seriously.

 

[LupineOne]

Also hello everyone! I don't think I've swung by this place before!

Welcome to Chaos! Exactly as @Photog1rl said. Enjoy yourself!

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

What if you were in a pub together. You step away to play pool or to use the Gents. She is alone at the bar. A guy comes by and says "Hey come here often?" or some similar smooth line. Do you charge across the room and deck him? Of course not. You rely on her to say "Not interested" as politely as is warranted and wait for him to slink away. If he persists, then you can open up a can of verbal woop-ass (because he earned it).

see, I was with you until the last sentence. Why do you want to steal a chicks opportunity to yell at someone and throw some french fries? If she thinks he deserves it, she should get to. I think the correct thing is sitting there stifling giggles or quietly chanting in a sing songy voice "somebody's going to get it. somebody's going to get it"

 

[PleaseLetMeIm]

Hey y’all I need some advise mainly from the lady’s, and yes I know she’s gonna see this later but it’s about me not her, for the ones who have ever been coupled with someone on lit, I’m very much struggling to not get defensive when other dude pretty much make passes at her on lit and yes I know it’s lit and a sexual place but I just I don’t know I’ve been kinda rude to a few people about it and I do feel bad because I know I hurt her feeling with how I acted but I’m just I don’t know struggling

Dude you are e-boning the sexiest chick on lit* You win. What’s the issue?

(Desperate, PG, Brenda, Lindi, Cascadia, Lupin and all the other girls of course, I didn’t mean sexier than any of you)

 

[Photog1rl]

see, I was with you until the last sentence. Why do you want to steal a chicks opportunity to yell at someone and throw some french fries? If she thinks he deserves it, she should get to. I think the correct thing is sitting there stifling giggles or quietly chanting in a sing songy voice "somebody's going to get it. somebody's going to get it"

We would be hell on wheels out together. I just can't decide if we would get arrested or end up in the hospital or just have a fucking good time.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

see, I was with you until the last sentence. Why do you want to steal a chicks opportunity to yell at someone and throw some french fries? If she thinks he deserves it, she should get to. I think the correct thing is sitting there stifling giggles or quietly chanting in a sing songy voice "somebody's going to get it. somebody's going to get it"

I concede the point. Gonna go practice my singing

 

[Deleted member 5654768]

see, I was with you until the last sentence. Why do you want to steal a chicks opportunity to yell at someone and throw some french fries? If she thinks he deserves it, she should get to. I think the correct thing is sitting there stifling giggles or quietly chanting in a sing songy voice "somebody's going to get it. somebody's going to get it"

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[Photog1rl]

Dude you are e-boning the sexiest chick on lit* You win. What’s the issue?

(Desperate, PG, Brenda, Lindi, Cascadia, Lupin and all the other girls of course, I didn’t mean sexier than any of you)

Did you just imply wolfie is a girl? I mean hot AF YES but a girl?

 

[Strixaluco]

Also hello everyone! I don't think I've swung by this place before!

Welcome! This place is true to it's name. Not necessary to catch up what happens when you're away, there tends to be too much of it anyway - but if you are lacking some diversion, it may be fun...

We are are friendly bunch. Flirtative at times, but NSFW content is not really welcome as attachments (links are fine). Lit is, after all, full of places for explicit content, this is a break from them