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Fuck you and your testosterone bullshit. Women are actually meaner. Ask any cop. 😉

My sister once got into a shouting match with her neighbor who was holding a shotgun… and won. Then proceeds to tell the cops to “get the fuck off my lawn” when they showed up. There’s a reason she’s the only person on this planet I’m legit afraid of. 😬
 
My sister once got into a shouting match with her neighbor who was holding a shotgun… and won. Then proceeds to tell the cops to “get the fuck off my lawn” when they showed up. There’s a reason she’s the only person on this planet I’m legit afraid of. 😬
What up Soup!
 
I have been so dysfunctional, In my early life, I often tried to express myself with music - I thought other people “felt” it like I did. I played a part of a Rolling Stones song for my mother, stupidly thinking she would “get it“, what I was trying to say… she instead ridiculed me because I misunderstood the lyrics. I was probably 12, and instead of acknowledging what I thought Mick said, she corrected me and thus invalidated what I was trying to say. And made me feel like a total idiot for my effort to connect.

A few years later, I tried to tell my sister how I loved her and admired her, playing a Kinks song “come dancing” which would often literally bring me to tears… yeah, like my mother, she didn’t understand at all.

They were not at fault, the problem was with me. I was broken (have been for my whole life). I was not able to express my emotions apparently how they could understand.

I humbly ask this, when someone in your family reaches out to you, and you have no idea what they mean and think they must be an idiot, please try to pay a little more attention. They might be desperately reaching for you.
 
Be inventive! I'm married 44 years to one woman so hates me.
It's not my problem that you stay in such a marriage. Even if you were single... Frankly, even just bluntly asking - oh no, you didn't even ask, you TOLD me to write you - like that makes a quite unappealing impression. Even without the episode before.

There are also plenty of highly appealing men here who still don't get anything more than friendship from me. I am attached and not the least interested in getting into anything here. Which you would know, had you bothered to see my profile.
 
I have been so dysfunctional, In my early life, I often tried to express myself with music - I thought other people “felt” it like I did. I played a part of a Rolling Stones song for my mother, stupidly thinking she would “get it“, what I was trying to say… she instead ridiculed me because I misunderstood the lyrics. I was probably 12, and instead of acknowledging what I thought Mick said, she corrected me and thus invalidated what I was trying to say. And made me feel like a total idiot for my effort to connect.

A few years later, I tried to tell my sister how I loved her and admired her, playing a Kinks song “come dancing” which would often literally bring me to tears… yeah, like my mother, she didn’t understand at all.

They were not at fault, the problem was with me. I was broken (have been for my whole life). I was not able to express my emotions apparently how they could understand.

I humbly ask this, when someone in your family reaches out to you, and you have no idea what they mean and think they must be an idiot, please try to pay a little more attention. They might be desperately reaching for you.
Yup. We are always so quick to dismiss what we don’t understand.
 
My sister once got into a shouting match with her neighbor who was holding a shotgun… and won. Then proceeds to tell the cops to “get the fuck off my lawn” when they showed up. There’s a reason she’s the only person on this planet I’m legit afraid of. 😬
Your sister is now my hero! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
 
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