Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[MsNatalie99]

Trust me there's a lot of I dunno what the fuck that was about but I want to regarding him
Even today prick rolled his damn fucking eyes at me when I asked how I looked. Like hello that isn't a response and I wasn't asking him anyways!!
Oh so I look shit hot I know it but I need confirmation that I don't look like a damn hooker in front of churchy types

Well of course not, next thing you know half of em' are hissin at you, and the other half is tryin to save you

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Yeah, that's far bigger and more organized that what I was doing. 2 events a year, one being Cherry Blossom, and maybe 40ish permanent members, with maybe half of them being regular participants

That's still a nice set up, its hard to get kink people to accept that its normal and its good to socialize and accept that we are a little different from "normal" I think that's why a lot of clubs struggle to pull in members.
It's why we spent so much time hosting open days and kink education

 

[LexxRuthless]

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Okay, I went with "coffee" but by the time I returned to my desk with it, I had that "wake-up call" waiting for me.

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[MsNatalie99]

That's still a nice set up, its hard to get kink people to accept that its normal and its good to socialize and accept that we are a little different from "normal" I think that's why a lot of clubs struggle to pull in members.
It's why we spent so much time hosting open days and kink education

I helped with open days, and we'd do tours, but I don't necessarily think we had a kink education as much as explaining interests, and resourses on said tour.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Well of course not, next thing you know half of em' are hissin at you, and the other half is tryin to save you

I know right!! They are so pure and innocent I'm surprised I didn't set the lot of them on fire with my sinfulness

 

[SinfuIDreams]

I helped with open days, and we'd do tours, but I don't necessarily think we had a kink education as much as explaining interests, and resourses on said tour.

We did all kinds of educational programs from picking the right rope for both you and your sub of choice, to actual Shibari courses in starting out all the way up to expert level. To leather and latex care, pain play, learning your subs tells etc

 

[MsNatalie99]

We did all kinds of educational programs from picking the right rope for both you and your sub of choice, to actual Shibari courses in starting out all the way up to expert level. To leather and latex care, pain play, learning your subs tells etc

Oh. Okay we did that with people who'd sign up, but it wasn't really something we did with the public. It was a general this is what this does, this is how it works, and some people like to do this with it.

Jo really knew his stuff, but his partner (Business partner) this guy named John, was like the Guru at the place

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Oh. Okay we did that with people who'd sign up, but it wasn't really something we did with the public. It was a general this is what this does, this is how it works, and some people like to do this with it.

Jose really knew his stuff, but his partner (Business partner) this guy named John, was like the Guru at the place

Oh that stuff was for members you either had to buy a casual pass to join a class or come with a full member.
The public kink education was all on M and he did fantastic at promoting healthy loving kinky relationship even did a spot on the radio

 

[SinfuIDreams]

@SinfuIDreams & @MsNatalie99 if only i could listen to your conversation like to a podcast as i should start doing things where i needa watch what i'm doing (for safety reasons) so reading your wonderful words is not possible any further until later

They will be here later
Priority is that you have a fantastic safe day

 

[MsNatalie99]

@SinfuIDreams & @MsNatalie99 if only i could listen to your conversation like to a podcast as i should start doing things where i needa watch what i'm doing (for safety reasons) so reading your wonderful words is not possible any further until later

I understand. Do what you need to do. I just feel blessed having this time with you.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

and same priority for you

and wasn't there a third part promised somewhere?

There was indeed and I'm working on it.. I'm blaming the talk dark and crazy interruption I've had to deal with the last few days.

 

[MsNatalie99]

Oh that stuff was for members you either had to buy a casual pass to join a class or come with a full member.
The public kink education was all on M and he did fantastic at promoting healthy loving kinky relationship even did a spot on the radio

Oh, ok. That makes sense. John was the one who ran the club and taught members, Jo did events and promotions, and I did as I was told The had other staff, more helpers 'Guides', like me, the coolest non creeper security guys I ever met. They were called 'Guardians'. John's wife was an onsite RN, and instructors called 'Tutors'. It was a good environment.

 

[MsNatalie99]

There was indeed and I'm working on it.. I'm blaming the talk dark and crazy interruption I've had to deal with the last few days.

Third part?....... is it meeeeeeee

 

[LexxRuthless]

Sorry I haven't been a more active participant in this discussion. I'm terribly careful to keep any information shared with me through correspondence here to myself, whether that's PMs here, e-mail, or whatever. Everything I've learned about the sorts of gatherings you've been discussing either came from lengthy e-mail exchanges with a couple of Ds who collaborated on stories with me, or from "meet & greets" I attended with one of them. Since they never expressly gave permission for me to share that information, I feel like I can't discuss my own experiences here without potentially betraying their trust.

My biggest takeaway was that BDSM wasn't ever going to be for me, as a lifestyle. I could role-play being a Dom, but I wasn't getting anything out of it.

 

[CthuluLives]

If you're drinking for 8 hours and still can type messages then you've not drinking properly

I wasn't drinking to kill myself, but fuckin hell I feel like death just now..

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Oh, ok. That makes sense. John was the one who ran the club and taught members, Jose did events and promotions, and I did as I was told The had other staff, more helpers 'Guides', like me, the coolest non creeper security guys I ever met. They were called 'Guardians'. John's wife was an onsite RN, and instructors called 'Tutors'. It was a good environment.

We had enforcers all paid to only watch and step in when needed. The majority of our members were pretty on to it with public play sessions. Enforcers were also experienced Doms.
We had a dr on staff who was one kinky bitch but we never had to actually use her for anything worse than a faint spell of a over dramatic male sub
There was a handful of us that ran tutorials and classes we tried to keep it as a theme for a month so every member could attend one friday a month and learn the same as the rest

 

[MsNatalie99]

Sorry I haven't been a more active participant in this discussion. I'm terribly careful to keep any information shared with me through correspondence here to myself, whether that's PMs here, e-mail, or whatever. Everything I've learned about the sorts of gatherings you've been discussing either came from lengthy e-mail exchanges with a couple of Ds who collaborated on stories with me, or from "meet & greets" I attended with one of them. Since they never expressly gave permission for me to share that information, I feel like I can't discuss my own experiences here without potentially betraying their trust.

My biggest takeaway was that BDSM wasn't ever going to be for me, as a lifestyle. I could role-play being a Dom, but I wasn't getting anything out of it.

You're perfectly good on both accounts. One of the main benefits of being in a club like that, that you can explore your interests and desires in a safe confidential environment. So I couldn't very well expect you to share something that may have been shown to you in confidence.

As for Kink not really being for you, it isn't for everybody. Everyone is wired differently. No matter how similar to people can be, no two will like the exact same things, is that same way, at the exact same intensity. Even if they did, chances are as they wouldn't be compatible because of something else. It's a broad spectrum, one where everybody has their place

 

[MsNatalie99]

We had enforcers all paid to only watch and step in when needed. The majority of our members were pretty on to it with public play sessions. Enforcers were also experienced Doms.
We had a dr on staff who was one kinky bitch but we never had to actually use her for anything worse than a faint spell of a over dramatic male sub
There was a handful of us that ran tutorials and classes we tried to keep it as a theme for a month so every member could attend one friday a month and learn the same as the rest

That's cool, So Not So Different At All. Still, I'm probably going to end up calling John today and tell him about those stamps you were talking about. We never had a serious need for a nurse either. Mostly it was handing out the occasional ice pack, or as you said handling the fainters and the drama queens

 

[LexxRuthless]

I wasn't drinking to kill myself, but fuckin hell I feel like death just now..

Not to sound like a shill for Bayer, but when I drank, I always kept Alka-Seltzer Plus Cold medicine on hand for hangovers. It basically treats all those symptoms, and it's fast.

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Sorry I haven't been a more active participant in this discussion. I'm terribly careful to keep any information shared with me through correspondence here to myself, whether that's PMs here, e-mail, or whatever. Everything I've learned about the sorts of gatherings you've been discussing either came from lengthy e-mail exchanges with a couple of Ds who collaborated on stories with me, or from "meet & greets" I attended with one of them. Since they never expressly gave permission for me to share that information, I feel like I can't discuss my own experiences here without potentially betraying their trust.

My biggest takeaway was that BDSM wasn't ever going to be for me, as a lifestyle. I could role-play being a Dom, but I wasn't getting anything out of it.

I value the fact that the other lit members privacy means more to you than anything else its very sweet and caring of you Lexx
Honestly its not a lifestyle for everyone and I don't think I will ever get back to the in practice stage myself

 

[SinfuIDreams]

Third part?....... is it meeeeeeee

Third part of my meeting M story

 

[SinfuIDreams]

That's cool, So Not So Different At All. Still, I'm probably going to end up calling John today and tell him about those stamps you were talking about. We never had a serious need for a nurse either. Mostly it was handing out the occasional ice pack, or as you said handling the fainters and the drama queens

Sure go for it anything that can help make a kink experience better for someone else is all good in my books. So we had a range of colours depending on what type of group play it was blue and greens were for doms and tops, pinks and reds subs and bottoms, yellow for switches. Or if it was just normal group sex we used blues and greens for male identifing members and pinks and reds for female and yellow for NB and members who didn't want to be categorized.

 

[LexxRuthless]

Sure go for it anything that can help make a kink experience better for someone else is all good in my books. So we had a range of colours depending on what type of group play it was blue and greens were for doms and tops, pinks and reds subs and bottoms, yellow for switches. Or if it was just normal group sex we used blues and greens for male identifing members and pinks and reds for female and yellow for NB and members who didn't want to be categorized.

"Collect the rainbow! Taste the rainbow!"

 

[SinfuIDreams]

"Collect the rainbow! Taste the rainbow!"

Pretty sure I've licked that rainbow repeatedly

 

[LexxRuthless]

I finished that coffee, and another one would be a really poor choice. Thank you for dropping so much knowledge on me today. I often say, "It's always a good day when you learn something new," so you have already made this a good day.

Be safe & Have fun!