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The closet is for coats and outdoor gear, brooms, snow shovel, vacuum, none of which I want brushing against my $96 jeans, or my sexy dresses.
So you have basically nothing for just clothes. Well there's your problem then.

Btw - if your girlfriend would move in there with you, wouldn't storage space become even more of an issue?
 
@MsNatalie99 it’s a big decision either way, which you don’t have to rush into. Honestly for something like that, our opinions aren’t really that important. The best thing you can do is just sit down and have actual conversations with your gf about it. Tell her what’s important to you, she can tell you the same. Then if you’re both on the same page you can kind of ease into it with a bit of understanding and some middle group. Instead of just completely moving in, ramp it up where she stays more just to see how you cohabitate.
 
So you have basically nothing for just clothes. Well there's your problem then.

Btw - if your girlfriend would move in there with you, wouldn't storage space become even more of an issue?
I have no idea. Aside from the one dress, I've seen her in, I only ever see her wear jeans and Tees. I hope not, cause she was talking about coming here, not finding something new.
 
Partners MUST be FULLY equal in all aspects. Neither can be better or above the other. They MUST be in tune in both major and minor things.

I have never met a person where there wasn't conflict.


This is why I'm content on my own with nearly no human contact.
 
Partners MUST be FULLY equal in all aspects. Neither can be better or above the other. They MUST be in tune in both major and minor things.

I have never met a person where there wasn't conflict.


This is why I'm content on my own with nearly no human contact.
I’m of pretty much the complete and utter opposite point of view myself. But that may just be because I don’t view conflict as just fighting over something. Conflicting points of view, interests, etc just means discussions with people or learning new things that I probably wouldn’t before and hopefully the same for them. Conflict is a great opportunity for growth. I don’t just want to date a female version of me, that would be boring.
 
I’m of pretty much the complete and utter opposite point of view myself. But that may just be because I don’t view conflict as just fighting over something. Conflicting points of view, interests, etc just means discussions with people or learning new things that I probably wouldn’t before and hopefully the same for them. Conflict is a great opportunity for growth. I don’t just want to date a female version of me, that would be boring.
I completely agree with this.
 
Partners MUST be FULLY equal in all aspects. Neither can be better or above the other. They MUST be in tune in both major and minor things.

I have never met a person where there wasn't conflict.


This is why I'm content on my own with nearly no human contact.
That is practically impossible and an utterly unrealistic goal.

Disagreeing is part of human life, and doing so in a civil way is an essential skill.
 
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