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I'm really bad at box management 🤣
I think the majority of it is because I just really don't like keeping chats private. If someone has something they wish to say to me they can be a man and say it on the boards. I don't like secretive shit been burnt on lit like that far to many times to count.
The old : I'm not with anyone from lit. 2 months later some angry ass bitch in my box cause her mans been flirting with me 🤷‍♀️
To much drama for my old ass
haha, I prefer on the boards, at least at first. I haven't had much of the angry chicks. Every once in a while a chick asking about some random dude I don't know. overall, I've got my lit fairly drama free. I do avoid flirting with men who "belong" to someone and like specify it their signature or whatever, but otherwise, I really have no clue who is eboning who, and just do not keep track at all. I feel like I have my shit together if I know who I am eboning.
 
haha, I prefer on the boards, at least at first. I haven't had much of the angry chicks. Every once in a while a chick asking about some random dude I don't know. overall, I've got my lit fairly drama free. I do avoid flirting with me who "belong" to someone and like specify it their signature or whatever, but otherwise, I really have no clue who is eboning who, and just do not keep track at all. I feel like I have my shit together it I know who I am eboning.
I've only eboned once, and not sure if it was all it's cracked up to be. Which is saying something. 😅
 
I had planned on hitting the road like 45min ago. I still struggle to even keep awake, and I feel like a ragdoll except ragdolls don't have muscles that complain about what they did yesterday. Would probably need a long nap later on, but there is no time for such today...
 
I had planned on hitting the road like 45min ago. I still struggle to even keep awake, and I feel like a ragdoll except ragdolls don't have muscles that complain about what they did yesterday. Would probably need a long nap later on, but there is no time for such today...
Like a ragdoll you say? 😏 So you had a good night? Sorry.... that's my one for today.
Good morning Strix
 
I've only eboned once, and not sure if it was all it's cracked up to be. Which is saying something. 😅
I am not even exactly sure what eboning is, even after the thread about it. So I do find it a complex question for someone like me who mostly likes dirty chat, men watching, and watching men. I am rather simple. Trying to label is where it gets really complex. I don't do like lit relationships and I usually avoid men that I know do. I don't think with the preexisting video kink that I'd be near as entertained.
 
I am not even exactly sure what eboning is, even after the thread about it. So I do find it a complex question for someone like me who mostly likes dirty chat, men watching, and watching men. I am rather simple. Trying to label is where it gets really complex. I don't do like lit relationships and I usually avoid men that I know do. I don't think with the preexisting video kink that I'd be near as entertained.
It wasn't really my thing. I also never did the online relationship thing. As far as being a couple I men. Honestly, I prefer sexy humor to flirting. After all, it took like three months to get that eboner out of my inbox.
 
Like a ragdoll you say? 😏 So you had a good night? Sorry.... that's my one for today.
Good morning Strix
I had... More cuddling than I've had in over a decade ❤️ Panties on all night, though! But doing stuff my poor legs aren't used to, and I think my right arm got lactic acids already when preparing the apartment and dinner.
 
I had... More cuddling than I've had in over a decade ❤️ Panties on all night, though! But doing stuff my poor legs aren't used to, and I think my right arm got lactic acids already when preparing the apartment and dinner.
I'm glad you got your snuggies in. But I'm sorry you're sore.
 
haha, I prefer on the boards, at least at first. I haven't had much of the angry chicks. Every once in a while a chick asking about some random dude I don't know. overall, I've got my lit fairly drama free. I do avoid flirting with men who "belong" to someone and like specify it their signature or whatever, but otherwise, I really have no clue who is eboning who, and just do not keep track at all. I feel like I have my shit together if I know who I am eboning.
I wish mine was drama free looking back full nudes probably didn't help at the time. But I remember one guy clearly not because he was hot or worthy of remembering but simply because I had 2 chicks rant at me over him hitting on me and I "accidentally" outed him 🤭
I think the majority of my issues with the good ole lit relationships is I spent nearly 2 decades in a completely open relationship to the point where M would ask for graphic details that jealousy over sex is still pretty fucking weird to me. Let alone sex on the internet 🤣
 
I wish mine was drama free looking back full nudes probably didn't help at the time. But I remember one guy clearly not because he was hot or worthy of remembering but simply because I had 2 chicks rant at me over him hitting on me and I "accidentally" outed him 🤭
I think the majority of my issues with the good ole lit relationships is I spent nearly 2 decades in a completely open relationship to the point where M would ask for graphic details that jealousy over sex is still pretty fucking weird to me. Let alone sex on the internet 🤣
Jealousy over sex I can see, depending on the relationship. However, I can agree that jealousy over some eboning is just asinine. It's not like you're going to spend 18 years raising an e-baby, and on his 18th birthday find out it wasn't yours. I understand that for some, internet relationships can feel tangible. I feel that way towards the friendships I've made on here. Still, edating/eboning in like an old catalog. It may have been enough to get you off when you were a teenager. But I've had the real thing, and that's what I tend to be looking for.
 
I'm glad you got your snuggies in. But I'm sorry you're sore.
It's not too bad, and this all wouldn't be a problem if I wasn't going to see my MIL and visit the cemetery 1,5h drive away as it's today one year since ny husband's death. Really don't feel like driving or being social, I'd just want to rest and float in the feeling from last night.
 
Jealousy over sex I can see, depending on the relationship. However, I can agree that jealousy over some eboning is just asinine. It's not like you're going to spend 18 years raising an e-baby, and on his 18th birthday find out it wasn't yours. I understand that for some, internet relationships can feel tangible. I feel that way towards the friendships I've made on here. Still, edating/eboning in like an old catalog. It may have been enough to get you off when you were a teenager. But I've had the real thing, and that's what I tend to be looking for.
I have to say the best e-boning is better than 2/3 of men that I've had offline sex with. It has also been at its best when we had learned each other with the guy I had e-sex with.

Online relationships can feel very real, even when you realise it's probably 50% fantasy. But you just can't snuggle together online, that part of is always missing. It's the worst thing in long-distance relationships as well, and I've had my share of those over my life.
 
Jealousy over sex I can see, depending on the relationship. However, I can agree that jealousy over some eboning is just asinine. It's not like you're going to spend 18 years raising an e-baby, and on his 18th birthday find out it wasn't yours. I understand that for some, internet relationships can feel tangible. I feel that way towards the friendships I've made on here. Still, edating/eboning in like an old catalog. It may have been enough to get you off when you were a teenager. But I've had the real thing, and that's what I tend to be looking for.
In the flesh it could be very different but we had full trust in each other. Everything open and clear.
I have had a lot of tangible relationships here writing partners, friends that have lasted for years. I have occasionally had romantic (well my kind of romance 😉) but it has to be someone super fucking clicked on to me to get to that point. (which I don't do anymore at all)
But at the same time I couldn't ever see myself being jealous of anyone I met here if I was talking to them and they were talking to someone else.
Just don't lie and try and cover your tracks cause that's just pathetic and you loose all my respect and I don't fuck or be friends with people I don't respect.
But maybe that comes from the lifestyle I'd never sub for someone I didn't trust or respect 🤷‍♀️
 
But at the same time I couldn't ever see myself being jealous of anyone I met here if I was talking to them and they were talking to someone else.
Just don't lie and try and cover your tracks cause that's just pathetic and you loose all my respect and I don't fuck or be friends with people I don't respect.
But maybe that comes from the lifestyle I'd never sub for someone I didn't trust or respect 🤷‍♀️
I concur, I can't sub for, date, or befriend someone that I have no trust with or respect for. I've never seen a need to lie to me, nor do I feel the need to lie up or people. It's always been a hard boundary for me, and I can't see that changing anytime soon.
 
I concur, I can't sub for, date, or befriend someone that I have no trust with or respect for. I've never seen a need to lie to me, nor do I feel the need to lie up or people. It's always been a hard boundary for me, and I can't see that changing anytime soon.
Same I can't see that need for honesty ever changing at the end of the day you get nothing out of lying to someone but everything out of being honest.
 
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if you hear about a house in my city that has a lot of fake tombstones on the front yard around halloween well it might be O/ours 😇 🤷‍♀️
Somehow I'd guessed you were also big on halloween. I used to go all out, but it's not something I do living alone.
 
I wish mine was drama free looking back full nudes probably didn't help at the time. But I remember one guy clearly not because he was hot or worthy of remembering but simply because I had 2 chicks rant at me over him hitting on me and I "accidentally" outed him 🤭
I think the majority of my issues with the good ole lit relationships is I spent nearly 2 decades in a completely open relationship to the point where M would ask for graphic details that jealousy over sex is still pretty fucking weird to me. Let alone sex on the internet 🤣
so the 2 chicks know about each other and you just send them each others messages? lol

Hum, not sure why the different experiences, I am sure I attract a different type of man as I'm not into bdsm and bdsm requires a level of trust and closeness that people like me don't so even ewise, relationships may be different. or maybe since I am so open about maintaining emotional distance, I am less worrisome. I will not be "taking anyone's man" at most I borrow. Or maybe because I don't really talk about them. The only way anyone would know is "have you eboned the person above you" thread, and I think if you have eboning to hide, maybe don't post there. Even all the other playful "above" threads, seen them nude, watched them cum type things means little when it is people who post these videos publicly. I have had no women approach me directly about any sort of issue at all in the past 5 years, if they have had an issue, they don't voice to me. :ROFLMAO: 🤷‍♀️
 
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