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"Auf" because it's the beginning of a sentence. I don't know why "Wiedersehen" is capitalized, but Mirriam Webster's online dictionary says that is correct. :unsure:
Yeah, it was Wiedersehen I was curious about. I thought it meant til we meet again.( the full phrase I mean) I of course could be wrong, but I was trying to learn, and I couldn't find an explaination in my book. I'd ask google, but it isn't a reliable source.
 
Turn it to pulse instead of constant vibrate..a few insertions instead of just over the clit....then again I've never used a vibrator enough on myself to qualify a real answer
 
Real question:
How do you keep a vibrator from overstimulating sensitive areas? Don’t say stop using it. I’m looking for real world thoughts here.
3 things
1) I use toys with variable settings, at least hi and low. Love ones that you turn, gradually increasing the intensity.

2) I try not to use. The vibrating toys too frequently, as they can make it harder for me to orgasm with traditional penetration alone.

And 3) I try to First stimulate the area surrounding my sensitive points. I find the toys that have stronger settings can quickly overwhelm me, and not always in an enjoyable way. With those I have to work my way to my sensitive point. I don't know how much sense that makes, but it works for me.
 
3 things
1) I use toys with variable settings, at least hi and low. Love ones that you turn, gradually increasing the intensity.

2) I try not to use. The vibrating toys too frequently, as they can make it harder for me to orgasm with traditional penetration alone.

And 3) I try to First stimulate the area surrounding my sensitive points. I find the toys that have stronger settings can quickly overwhelm me, and not always in an enjoyable way. With those I have to work my way to my sensitive point. I don't know how much sense that makes, but it works for me.
Makes a lot of sense. Thanks for the suggestions. I have traditionally stuck with fingers just because I am so easily overwhelmed. Maybe I need to only use the wand for special occasions. 🧐
 
Makes a lot of sense. Thanks for the suggestions. I have traditionally stuck with fingers just because I am so easily overwhelmed. Maybe I need to only use the wand for special occasions. 🧐
I have battery toys, but mostly I use a probe, or mounted toy. As you said, special occasions, or just treating yourself, because hell, you deserve it.
 
I have battery toys, but mostly I use a probe, or mounted toy. As you said, special occasions, or just treating yourself, because hell, you deserve it.
Look; if I could find myself a masseuse that provided a happy ending with just the right amount of “good girl” involved, I’d be fucking broke because that’s how I’d treat myself.

Tiktok has fucking ruined me.
 
Real question:
How do you keep a vibrator from overstimulating sensitive areas? Don’t say stop using it. I’m looking for real world thoughts here.
I generally just keep stepping it up. I usually orgasm once or twice with the vibrator off, then low, repeat, higher repeat, etc. I guess I don't avoid overstimulation as much as prolong getting there then go with it lol.
 
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