Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[Ingenue844]

I’m so sorry

I hadn’t thought of this, but this month would have been my 25th anniversary to the love of my life too. If I hadn’t lost her to cancer almost 5 years ago.

 

[Ingenue844]

I'm sorry. I lost my wife this past April. I hope it gets easier, but I don't see it.

I’m sorry for your loss as well

 

[Strixaluco]

I'm sorry. I lost my wife this past April. I hope it gets easier, but I don't see it.

It does, although you don't see it yet. *hugs*

 

[Deadbed1968]

@BrendaD @CvC822 I am so very sorry for your losses. I cannot imagine my life without my wife in it.

 

[CvC822]

I’m sorry for your loss as well

Thank you.

 

[Strixaluco]

One year this coming Saturday... (just he wasn't the love of my life.)

 

[Strixaluco]

I hadn’t thought of this, but this month would have been my 25th anniversary to the love of my life too. If I hadn’t lost her to cancer almost 5 years ago.

*hugs*

 

[CvC822]

@BrendaD @CvC822 I am so very sorry for your losses. I cannot imagine my life without my wife in it.

Thank you. Its been a year and neither can I. She gave me my kids, so Im not alone.

 

[CvC822]

It does, although you don't see it yet. *hugs*

Thank you. Sorry for your loss too.

 

[Strixaluco]

@BrendaD @CvC822 and anybody else struggling - one of the best advice I got was to always have something nice to wait for. I doesn't always have to be anything big, sometimes it's been the meeting of peer support group for me. And how far in the future can the nice thing be is up to you. I found out (the hard way) that I should preferably have something every single week.

 

[CvC822]

@BrendaD @CvC822 and anybody else struggling - one of the best advice I got was to always have something nice to wait for. I doesn't always have to be anything big, sometimes it's been the meeting of peer support group for me. And how far in the future can the nice thing be is up to you. I found out (the hard way) that I should preferably have something every single week.

I went to support groups, but I couldn't handle it. Mostly it just taking care of the kids, and keeping busy in my workshop.

 

[Strixaluco]

I went to support groups, but I couldn't handle it. Mostly it just taking care of the kids, and keeping busy in my workshop.

It's totally up to you what that nice thing is! It can be seeing friends, going to a concert, hiking, whatever. Just have something coming that you like.

 

[CvC822]

It's totally up to you what that nice thing is! It can be seeing friends, going to a concert, hiking, whatever. Just have something coming that you like.

Makes sense to me. It'll definitely help me out when school starts up.

 

[cascadiabound]

I'm struggling to find the chaos thread this morning after being off line for the last week. Put a lot of miles on, saw some amazing country and now have to get at lists of things that must get done timely.

So sorry to read of such loss and grief here. Hugs to those who are experiencing important grief anniversaries and feeling the pain of loss. the holes in our hearts our loved ones leave never fully heal.

I found this hilarious video... maybe it will give someone a needed laugh


https://fb.watch/eMXOxQnbAZ/

 

[CvC822]

I'm struggling to find the chaos thread this morning after being off line for the last week. Put a lot of miles on, saw some amazing country and now have to get at lists of things that must get done timely.

So sorry to read of such loss and grief here. Hugs to those who are experiencing important grief anniversaries and feeling the pain of loss. the holes in our hearts our loved ones leave never fully heal.

I found this hilarious video... maybe it will give someone a needed laugh


https://fb.watch/eMXOxQnbAZ/

Ok, that was funny

 

[CvC822]

Just make sure you have condoms, bail money and a list of emergency contacts on your person at all times

Why be that way?

 

[CMK89]

How old are you? Just curious.

I'll be 33 in 3 days

 

[CvC822]

I am sorry.. what way?

Cracking jokes about grieving people. Why is that funny?

 

[CvC822]

I'll be 33 in 3 days

I see.

 

[Strixaluco]

Just make sure you have condoms, bail money and a list of emergency contacts on your person at all times

Never ever needed the last two, and most widows needing my advice are not ready for the first one

 

[Ingenue844]

Never ever needed the last two, and most widows needing my advice are not ready for the first one

I’m sorry for your loss as well Strix.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I can’t roll one to save my life! They always turn out looking like I rolled it with toilet paper!

and that is why I switched to pipes and bongs lol

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

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Fucking adorable

 

[CvC822]

I am not cracking jokes about grieving people. That is things I would need to safely deal with grief if I was in that situation. I would do extremely dangerous borderline criminal shit to deal with my pain. I know its unhealthy but I also know me and how I would act.

You are. If you are as volitile as you jest, you'd know how raw of a nerve the loss of a spouse can be.

 

[PlanetaryNebula]

Very true, I try not to be a dick and if I get to be a bit much just tell me I’ll calm down

I always tell people if I’m too much tell me to go to my crate. Kennel Nebs!