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I’ve changed last few years. If someone gives me a look. I’m probably going to say something.
I get enough judgements. People see my goatee. Immediately think … oh he’s not nice.
Had one lady walking past with her bf/ husband. Oooh I don’t like that. It’s ugly. As she’s looking at me.
I turned my head. Said over my shoulder
Maybe you should stFu you judgemental bitch.
Years ago. I’d not have said anything.
Are you doing something funky with your goatee, where it would draw extra attention? I'm not suggesting, "It's his own fault 'cause he's got that thing going on," but I pictured someone with a bunch of letters in their beard spelling out, "Fuck you," or something. When I was sporting the moustache / goatee, mine was pretty generic.
 
Also whatever happened to manners? I mean, everyone judges things, but no one needs to hear your opinion. When did it become ok to say shit to/in front of people?

This is not my favorite iteration of the world.
People nowadays have no social skills or filters they blame it on covid they blame it on their parents not raising them right but what it comes down to is they are to damn lazy to learn how to socialize properly.
 
Are you doing something funky with your goatee, where it would draw extra attention? I'm not suggesting, "It's his own fault 'cause he's got that thing going on," but I pictured someone with a bunch of letters in their beard spelling out, "Fuck you," or something. When I was sporting the moustache / goatee, mine was pretty generic.
A fine goatee, nothing wrong with it
 
Are you doing something funky with your goatee, where it would draw extra attention? I'm not suggesting, "It's his own fault 'cause he's got that thing going on," but I pictured someone with a bunch of letters in their beard spelling out, "Fuck you," or something. When I was sporting the moustache / goatee, mine was pretty generic.
My goatee is just long and hopefully straightish. Least I try to keep it with beard balm in it.
 
I’ve changed last few years. If someone gives me a look. I’m probably going to say something.
I get enough judgements. People see my goatee. Immediately think … oh he’s not nice.
Had one lady walking past with her bf/ husband. Oooh I don’t like that. It’s ugly. As she’s looking at me.
I turned my head. Said over my shoulder
Maybe you should stFu you judgemental bitch.
Years ago. I’d not have said anything.
well, I think addressing only makes sense if you are interpreting the situation accurately. except I see no point in addressing what I understand. That is why the side eye half look is the most complex one. If I know why, I know, when I don't, I don't. for all I know they think my purse is cute lol. wandering up to strangers and asking what was that look is not going to be helpful
 
well, I think addressing only makes sense if you are interpreting the situation accurately. except I see no point in addressing what I understand. That is why the side eye half look is the most complex one. If I know why, I know, when I don't, I don't. for all I know they think my purse is cute lol. wandering up to strangers and asking what was that look is not going to be helpful
It can even be dangerous for some. For a little while I lived in Dearborn, which is in Detroit. Looking at someone, and them not liking it could be enough to get you hurt, let alone calling them out on why they're looking
 
It's an amazing City, just as Detroit was before GM went bankrupt. But every city, every community, everywhere, no matter how splendous, how cosmopolitan, has it's dangers.
*whispers *

"The west side is the best side" 😆
I much prefer a mid-sized city like Grand Rapids, but even I wouldn't go to the dangerous areas after dark.
 
*whispers *

"The west side is the best side" 😆
I much prefer a mid-sized city like Grand Rapids, but even I wouldn't go to the dangerous areas after dark.
I agree. I love running around Grand Rapids. Detroit is beginning to look more and more like it did in the RoboCop movies. However, there have been plenty of streets in Grand Rapids I wouldn't go when the sun went down
 
I agree. I love running around Grand Rapids. Detroit is beginning to look more and more like it did in the RoboCop movies. However, there have been plenty of streets in Grand Rapids I wouldn't go when the sun went down
Why didn't we know each other before I moved away!? 😭

I don't know if GR would be ready for that! 😂
 
Are you doing something funky with your goatee, where it would draw extra attention? I'm not suggesting, "It's his own fault 'cause he's got that thing going on," but I pictured someone with a bunch of letters in their beard spelling out, "Fuck you," or something. When I was sporting the moustache / goatee, mine was pretty generic.
And 😍
 
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