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See in the real world all of my friends knew M we met them as a couple and not one of them would be so horrible to hit on me now he's passed. I still hear from all of them regularly. Go out on friends dates when I'm in the same city or they come to see me. My male friends to female friends is higher simply because men don't get squrimy when I loose my shit and have a meltdown. Ok ok so some men do but not these ones they pat my hand and get deep into my emotions behind it and pick my brain apart and will hug me until I'm back together again.
Purely platonic friends
You are lucky. My husband's friends never got really close to me - and especially they wouldn't ever pick my brain, they wouldn't be able to. I'm not even sure how close they were to him, actually.

But I was 31 when I met him, and most of my offline friends I have known be fore him. And then I have online friends, some of which I suspect will fade away now that I am tightening my flirting policy.
 
Nothing wrong with being an ice queen I'm usually a stuck up bitch 🤣😂
I say I can be anything between very easy and totally impossible - meaning the warmest person ever, or then an ice queen or total bitch.

But I usually learn towards trust if I feel safe. Meaning I can turn into an ice queen later if that trust is tampered with.
 
You are lucky. My husband's friends never got really close to me - and especially they wouldn't ever pick my brain, they wouldn't be able to. I'm not even sure how close they were to him, actually.

But I was 31 when I met him, and most of my offline friends I have known be fore him. And then I have online friends, some of which I suspect will fade away now that I am tightening my flirting policy.
I think its mostly because these guys have seen me at the worst of my worst strung up to a ceiling and crying my heart out only to stand on my tippy toes and kiss M as soon as he let me down. It's a comradery of sorts. That's what I loved so much about the bdsm world and miss the most either someone else has experienced it themselves or has dealt it out. It's hard not to make connections in that kind of head space.

Well I think if they do pull away just because you change your approach to how you deal with them then they aren't true friends at all.
 
Been called that too 😂😂 or uptight! Nah pal, I’m just not interested in being yer 5 minutes of fun.

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Exactly there are plenty of women on here piss off and bother someone who actually needs the attention 🤣


I say I can be anything between very easy and totally impossible - meaning the warmest person ever, or then an ice queen or total bitch.

But I usually learn towards trust if I feel safe. Meaning I can turn into an ice queen later if that trust is tampered with.
Oh this exactly but most of the time I start off a little hostile until I get to know them then warm up and then become hostile again if they piss me off 😅
 
Oh this exactly but most of the time I start off a little hostile until I get to know them then warm up and then become hostile again if they piss me off 😅
I try to be nice more often than not, though I have a low threshold for thirsty Behavior Beyond playful banter. Asking for pics, possessive Behavior, and any number of the flags you named today is enough to usually turn me off from somebody pretty quick
 
I try to be nice more often than not, though I have a low threshold for thirsty Behavior Beyond playful banter. Asking for pics, possessive Behavior, and any number of the flags you named today is enough to usually turn me off from somebody pretty quick
I'm just out and out hostile usual knocks the I love your panties chatter on the head when I say thanks... they won't fit you 🤣
 
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