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I'm the same, I know how bad it gets with none. I remember the days of sleeping on cardboard boxes and bin diving to live. Now I have more money then I will ever spend then my boys and grandbabies could ever spend so I like helping when I get the opportunity to. I do a lot for charities but the people I love and who see me for who I am are always the first I'll help. She was my very first friend when I hit the scene helped me learn about myself as much as M did.
Similar story. I was homeless, squating, and strung out. Met a guy thinking he wanted a favor, and instead he took me home, got me back in school and got me my own job and place. He never once asked for anything in return. Not rich, but I live well within my means, so I someome needs something, I give it.
 
Similar story. I was homeless, squating, and strung out. Met a guy thinking he wanted a favor, and instead he took me home, got me back in school and got me my own job and place. He never once asked for anything in return. Not rich, but I live well within my means, so I someome needs something, I give it.
I love hearing stories like this it restores my faith in humanity. Makes me remember there are decent people out there ❤️
You being one of them
 
This is insane. I'm used to getting some attention, but now in the Finnish forum it seems to be like one new guy in my inbox every day, if not more. A bit too fast for me!
Tell them to take it easy if they keep mailing you that you will block them. It is your choice on who you talk to not the other way around.
Don't ever feel obligated to reply it's in your own hands
 
Tell them to take it easy if they keep mailing you that you will block them. It is your choice on who you talk to not the other way around.
Don't ever feel obligated to reply it's in your own hands
It's not like they don't believe me if I tell them off. But a bit too many possibly interesting in a short time period, it's not practical at all!
 
I don't respond unless we've previously spoken in threads, and even then, if it's a matter of choice
This is me exactly, I have 2 ongoing chats and ones Bri. I get some nice random pms but also a lot of weird ones comes with having my ass as my profile pic 🤣
Lots of is that really your ass? Oh your ass is so hot I want to fill it. Blah blah
Like no it's not my ass I stole it from the postman 🙄😐
 
It's not like they don't believe me if I tell them off. But a bit too many possibly interesting in a short time period, it's not practical at all!
Seriously... don't engage anyone you don't want. Block them, change your in box settings, tell people that IF you respond it will likely be days. Anyone who gets pissy that you are not responsive or expects you to answer any question they feel like asking or reciprocal information is an ass and should be treated accordingly

Take care of you. No one can require your time and energy. It's yours to decide with whom and when you want to share your time.
 
This is me exactly, I have 2 ongoing chats and ones Bri. I get some nice random pms but also a lot of weird ones comes with having my ass as my profile pic 🤣
Lots of is that really your ass? Oh your ass is so hot I want to fill it. Blah blah
Like no it's not my ass I stole it from the postman 🙄😐
I can handle the multiple chats, but not multiple interests at a time.
 
Seriously... don't engage anyone you don't want. Block them, change your in box settings, tell people that IF you respond it will likely be days. Anyone who gets pissy that you are not responsive or expects you to answer any question they feel like asking or reciprocal information is an ass and should be treated accordingly

Take care of you. No one can require your time and energy. It's yours to decide who and when you want to share your time.
As I already have told - the ones I don't want to chat with are not a problem. Too many interesting ones are. I have time and energy to chat, but I can't decide in which order should I start vetting them because I don't want things to get messy.
 
This is me exactly, I have 2 ongoing chats and ones Bri. I get some nice random pms but also a lot of weird ones comes with having my ass as my profile pic 🤣
Lots of is that really your ass? Oh your ass is so hot I want to fill it. Blah blah
Like no it's not my ass I stole it from the postman 🙄😐
I have the same problem. Or I love your Profile Pic... really, what do you like about it? 🤣 I got maybe 5 people in my Inbox that I talk to regularly. And like a dozen "Hello There".

So.... about this Postman, he married?🤣
 
This is me exactly, I have 2 ongoing chats and ones Bri. I get some nice random pms but also a lot of weird ones comes with having my ass as my profile pic 🤣
Lots of is that really your ass? Oh your ass is so hot I want to fill it. Blah blah
Like no it's not my ass I stole it from the postman 🙄😐
Was the postman the neighbor that brought you half a sheep?
Lol
 
As I already have told - the ones I don't want to chat with are not a problem. Too many interesting ones are. I have time and energy to chat, but I can't decide in which order should I start vetting them because I don't want things to get messy.
In the order and time of your fancy. There's no obligation, no rush.
 
I have the same problem. Or I love your Profile Pic... really, what do you like about it? 🤣 I got maybe 5 people in my Inbox that I talk to regularly. And like a dozen "Hello There".

So.... about this Postman, he married?🤣
I keep my chats minimal, it's part of my openness in public if people have things to ask me I've never been shy enough to only answer in pms. 🤣
I dunno but I'd do him 🤣😂
 
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