Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[rlaflamme]

What do y'all think about Botox and other facial adjustment surgeries?

I get Botox every three months, but not for any adjustments to look better, it is for medical reasons.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Morning MM! I'm just making coffee?

Please! Share the love

 

[Strixaluco]

What do y'all think about Botox and other facial adjustment surgeries?

I think having your upper eyelids lifted is sometimes very much needed - and I think it should often be done much before the healthcare will pay for it.

 

[Strixaluco]

Geez! I had one single glass of wine with lunch (my parents were here) and it went straight to my head, as if I had had much more!

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

One moment Spock his doing his weird salute inside your vagina, and the next moment he's doing the mind trick to pass all the orgasms from his memory to your mind. Pretty safe to say spock gonna win that game

You're crossing your fingers inside your vagina, aren't you?

oh you know me so well.

 

[SirConradPeckereye]

Where do you get your memes. Memes4nerds.com or nerdymemes.com?

Nicetrydiosaxtryingtostealmymemes.com or maybe it's youdissbutyoustilllaugh.com

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Well good morning and Happy Friday Eve

 

[SirConradPeckereye]

Morning pervs! Some Yoda wisdom for your Thursday
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[SirConradPeckereye]

please do. I am sitting here trying to shove words of things that sound good to me right now in there, and it isn't quite working

rock, paper, vagina, taco, spock
rock, paper, vagina, chocolate, spock
rock, paper, vagina, cowboy, spock

sigh, this is hard.

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[SirConradPeckereye]

please do. I am sitting here trying to shove words of things that sound good to me right now in there, and it isn't quite working

rock, paper, vagina, taco, spock
rock, paper, vagina, chocolate, spock
rock, paper, vagina, cowboy, spock

sigh, this is hard.

Hhhmmm... I think only tacos or chocolate would beat vagina... and nothing in the last one... unless you just went with spock but then that goes against the other two

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

It was, but not a lot of people tryin to dance with me tonight. Better luck tomorrow

oh two nights in a row? jealous.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Hhhmmm... I think only tacos or chocolate would beat vagina... and nothing in the last one... unless you just went with spock but then that goes against the other two

it is a very confusing game indeed. but I will get there. I have to play to win.

 

[SirConradPeckereye]

it is a very confusing game indeed. but I will get there. I have to play to win.

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[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

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well I don't always win, but when the game involves my vagina, I always win.

 

[amanuk]

Hello to you all. Happy Thursday!

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

What do y'all think about Botox and other facial adjustment surgeries?

my opinion is "It's your money, honey."

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

well I don't always win, but when the game involves my vagina, I always win.

I think I may need to meme this.

 

[Joxlrg]

I think I may need to meme this.

A winning vagina meme ???
I'm game..
Love to see that one
Is there a Blue Ribbon Involved with a medal???

 

[crazychemgirl]

I was gonna respond to all these but since it's all the same topic I'm just gonna respond to them as a whole. I actually know why there are all these "rules" about what "professionalalism" is and "professional" attir

And the answer is...drum roll please... (hold on let me find a gif)

It's because of white Supremacy and anti-Blackness.

Are those of you saying we should dress a certain way and what not racist? I hope not, probably not. But you (and I and most ppl) have been raised in this culture so there is a lot of internalized racism and anti-Blackness. Are you a bad person for thinking/judging what professional attire and what not? No! But you do have a lot of internal work to do. And SO DO I!

Same things with dresses, it's all a tool of the patriarchy! That we (women) have to dress a certain way TO APPEAL TO MEN...guess what? We don't have to do any of that. My existance is not to appeal to men (or anybody)...and just like that, we have to challenge what we think professionalism looks like. Because at the end of the day, professionalism is the skills and experience necessary to complete the job. Is not what I wear, it's not my hairdo etc.

And I'll prob get some eyerolls and pushback. That's ok. You can google this. I could find an article that talks about it but google is free

I fucking love you

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

https://memezila.com/saveimage/Today-is-Thors-day-meme-6247

oh hey, I think he is wanting to play rock, paper, vagina, tongue, spock (peace sign will never be the same)

 

[crazychemgirl]

my opinion is "It's your money, honey."

I actually started using retinol every other night and honestly I think it is helping with my skin. Who knew

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

finally got through the 12 or so pages and it just took me 6 hours (with breaks included)

good morning/noontime/afternoon you lovely people

lol, good morning.
so was it worth going over?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

have you read my suggestion?

haha. I have. but I also really want to believe that Thor wants to plat Rock, Paper, Vagina, Tongue, Spock.

 

[cheekygirl75]

Well, actually, the patriarchy is all men. Including me. Whether I like it or not, I experience institutional privilege by virtue of being male. If you and I go out for dinner, more likely than not I'll be the one given the check. You may come from a more privileged background than me, and you may have a higher level of academic attainment than me, and you may have a greater salary level than me. But I have a penis, and the patriarchy means people tend to assume I'm in charge and have the money and authority in that situation.

I hate those assumptions as much as anyone, and as an individual I question and challenge them publicly. Doesn't change the fact that I benefit from it, whether I want to or not. But there will be an awful lot of men who walk serenely through life without even noticing consciously that they are benefiting from inherent patriarchal privilege, especially when it's outweighed by other factors (race/ethnicity, socioeconomic status etc). The patriarchy isn't the only status and privilege game in town.

Men can't help being part of the existing patriarchy, and men need to understand that. But men are also individuals who by their actions can either reinforce it or challenge it. That is where we get into 'Not All Men' territory.

I agree 100% with all this, I just had to point out the irony of you starting it with “Well, actually” - the hallmark of mansplaining

while i was a runaway/homeless 2017 to 2019 for 20 or so months i once extinguished the candles with mine (there's still the top to prove it (holes))

Laughing at the way the candles were extinguished, not that you were homeless

 

[SirConradPeckereye]

or put it on shirts and mugs so you can earn some money selling them

We need a lit gift shop lol... all sorts of stuff they could sell, and us pervs would buy it lol.