What are these benefits you speak of, I've been doing the shopping, cooking, dishes, yard work & when kid's were home, I was their dad chauffeur, spectator at all their events, while working two jobs. I was the one word out all the time but still would've enjoyed a benefit every now & again. Before you jump on my back about being my fault, I've heard it all before, I love my kid's, will do whatever for them. My apologies, I lost it for a moment, just hits me wrong when I hear men don't do things around the house.thus why men should listen. Need hurts to run a vacuum or grab a rag to clean. Benefits are huge LOL