Crios
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Exactly! The role-change aspect is part of what makes it exciting. My wife is very passive in bed. I have to do all of the driving, so to speak, or she'd just lay there. Have to tell her what I want and guess as to what she wants at that particular moment. When she pegs me, I still have to ask her to do it. She never declines but I really need her to take charge sometimes. When she does peg me, even when I ask, It's still nice for her to be in control sometimes. After 40+ years, I'm tired of being the leader in bed.It‘s hard to put the exact words to it, but there really is something specifically exciting about the act of a woman being the penetrator. It’s not a judgmental thing to separate that from homosexual or bisexual interests, it’s just that there is no automatic link between them. I would suspect that a gay man would find it very unappealing to be pegged by a woman, for example. While some bisexual men might be equally excited being penetrated by a man or a women, I am sure that some would only be interested in being penetrated by one or the other. There are undoubtedly some gay/Bi men who are not interested in being penetrated by anyone at all…etc, etc, etc. Whatever floats your boat… but it may not float mine.