Curious & Experiences

[lustylikes]

If you already had bi experiences, do you still consider yourself curious?

Yep , not finished with the curiosities of some experiences but some might say valid question. I however am still curiously anticipating unknown events and until I complete my objective I will be very curious still

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

good input... to say one is not curious would tend to mean, they no longer have an interest or have tried everything that they deemed desirably

 

[msub50some]

I'm 64 years old and have dabbled in kinky, D/s, BDSM play for over 30 years. Yet in all that time I have avoided anything gay or bi. That's probably due to my religious upbringing. A few months ago, though, an online Domme pushed me into a virtual
roleplay involving me being assfucked by a guy. It didn't repulse me nearly as much as I thought it would. The opposite in fact, I was aroused by it. [She mentioned after when we discussed it that I could have used my safeword--i didn't get close to doing that]

After that, I started seeking out more stories, audio files, and discussions on guy on guy cock sucking, cuckholding, forced bi, and such. It's got me seriously considering seeking out a cock sucking encounter or maybe finding a gloryhole. I'd at least like the opportunity to discuss it with likeminded people.

 

[quasimodm]

I would suggest the term "bi-interested" for those who are bi-curious, have at least a modicum of experience, and are interested in more (but not fully-bi, and certainly not outwardly-so).

Feels (at least to me) a bit more incremental and safer than going straight from bi-curious to (after one experience no matter how hurried or unsatisfying) to bi-sexual.

Thoughts?

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

I like your perspective and can understand your meaning of it being more incremental and maybe safer going from one to another than just cut and dry crossing that line.
Clearly, curious (interested) and experienced does indeed overlap themselves

 

[starfish71]

Not really sure where I would put myself on this spectrum of sorts… I’ve taken the “plunge”, might not have lived up to the fantasy, but didn’t hate it… second try was meh, but didn’t extinguish any urges either… maybe the third time’s the charm? Even if I decided pursuing real life encounters was not worth it, I doubt the spank bank would change currency…

 

[PersonalFavors]

I would suggest the term "bi-interested" for those who are bi-curious, have at least a modicum of experience, and are interested in more (but not fully-bi, and certainly not outwardly-so).

Feels (at least to me) a bit more incremental and safer than going straight from bi-curious to (after one experience no matter how hurried or unsatisfying) to bi-sexual.

Thoughts?

I don't put a label on it. I'm straight or hetero.... Whatever that is. I have a girlfriend who doesn't care if her pussy gets licked and won't finish the job as sensually as she starts it. She expects to get laid and me do all the work when I am stiff. Somewhere along the way I found a friend in the same boat. We got each other off and both enjoyed it. Either way I'd be jerking off. Helping a friend out in a mutual sort of way was great. Now if I could just find that friend again. One that is just into the release. Not a kiss date tits or thinks someone has to end up fucked. Just a good hand job or blow job when the opportunity both are free and have time...

 

[Bianca_Bitch69]

If you already had bi experiences, do you still consider yourself curious?

I'm no longer curious, and I love it, being penetrated

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

A bump for discussion...

 

[Escierto]

When I described my experiences with my girlfriend on another forum, someone said that I was “straight from the waist up and gay from the waist down.” When I told my girlfriend she laughed and agreed. I am a bottom submissive for cock but only with a woman like my girlfriend. I have stopped trying to figure out why I am the way I am - I just accept it and enjoy it.

 

[Deman420]

I had my first time all set up, again, and i chicken out again. Local, older, experienced but couldnt do it. told the guy i'm sorry he should probably find another. So idk, maybe it just a fantasy more than reality. i tired watching gay porn before hand and it just ruins my desire. But i will say, i have never came harder than RPing about sucking a cock so maybe one day.

 

[Escierto]

I had my first time all set up, again, and i chicken out again. Local, older, experienced but couldnt do it. told the guy i'm sorry he should probably find another. So idk, maybe it just a fantasy more than reality. i tired watching gay porn before hand and it just ruins my desire. But i will say, i have never came harder than RPing about sucking a cock so maybe one day.

I chickened out several times and even when I finally went through with it, I STILL wanted to chicken out. I just forced myself to do it and I have never regretted it.

 

[Deman420]

Ya im about at that point. like fuck it just do it and find out for sure. Maybe today, who knows?

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Guess the best course is just go with your instincts.... if you feel it's right its right, if not no harm no foul

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Love this question....feeling like am finally ready to actually find the right scenario and meet with someone....but kind of have no idea how things like that really happen.

... Maybe just let don't force anything and just it happen?

 

[Lee364]

I have given up on trying to date female, (too many games), and have been single for a very long time, and have been very curious about guys, and have thought about doing something with another guy before, but never followed through with it. Have j/o to gay porn and have penetrated myself with butt plugs and have a couple of dildos. Looking to meet a friend first and see where this goes. South Houston.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Evening all... has anyone went from curious to having an experience or experiences recently?

 

[n8Romantic]

Evening all... has anyone went from curious to having an experience or experiences recently?

I have had some experience but none lately. There are a lot of reasons for inactivity, it's not simple.

Counter question: If you are curious, especially if you have been curious for a long while, what would it take for you to take the next step and quench your curiosity?

 

[Xyhorn]

Evening all... has anyone went from curious to having an experience or experiences recently?

Brief answer, yes. I didn't want the intimacy of a one on one. For my hetro half this would have been too much like a relationship. So I took the plunge and went to a gay sauna. I enjoyed it and have been back a number of times.

 

[starfish71]

Counter question: If you are curious, especially if you have been curious for a long while, what would it take for you to take the next step and quench your curiosity?

For me, it was in stages…I first bought some toys when I no longer had roommates… my experience stayed at that level for quite a while… it didn’t go further until I had an unexpected loss in the family… I don’t know what, specifically, about that incident changed things, but something did, and I took the plunge…

 

[01HDrider22]

60 mwm NE Indiana....alot of experiences...started young..not forced, no regrets...pm me if ya want to chat...share stories

 

[Manny39]

Evening all... has anyone went from curious to having an experience or experiences recently?

Nothing recently but am very much up for a little sucking and fucking. Would love to find a group near Richmond, VA.

 

[Yankee0717]

Wishing peeps would put their location. You can be vague but USA or UK is way vague. Just helps to know if you might be close.

Totally agree!!! I've gone through almost all of the post's, and haven't seen 1 Ny'r.
But the post's give me hope . I've had a few experiences, but it's been at least 12yrs. 63 and still hoping

 

[TomSenior2021]

50 married, love to chat about experience and fantasies, PM me to chat.

 

[jrt20]

Yes. Have been with guys but not in a long time. PM me to chat about experiences and fantasies